After being married 20 years to someone else why would a boyfriend you dated in high school call and want to talk if he's married with a kid?

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When we start getting older our minds go down memory lane and perhaps he just wanted to phone and chat. Still, be careful just in case his marriage isn't working out and he thinks he could have an affair with you. I don't think so though. Sometimes there are Reunions of old classmates or simply a few friends that knew each other in high school getting together. I was invited to get together with 6 of my old girlfriends whom I hadn't seen since high school. We were all turning 50 in that same year. We had a blast. Keep the conversation with him to the point, and hint around that he can ask you and your husband to his place, or perhaps invite him and his wife to yours. The latter is better because if he doesn't want to, then he's up to something. Good luck Marcy I agree that when we get to mid age or around 50 we have a desire to relive or revisit things from our youth. More than likely you are a good memory to him or even the one that got away. Talking with him once probably is not a bad thing. My advise is not to continue the contact. Even if you are in a good marriage you could be tempted by this old love, especially if he was your first love. There seems to be some kind of real power in first love relationships. You never forget that person no matter how old you get. I am in my early 50's and recently spoke with my old boyfriend that I dated for 4 years before marrying my husband of 32 years. It was strange but actually very nice to chat with him. That connection will always be there. You have to be careful because many unwanted affairs have started just this way. My advise is to be very, very, very careful and don't encourage him. Let him know you cannot have ongoing contact. Best Wishes. Grace from the Northeast