No. Whereas during the US Military's "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy, it would be viewed as a violation and cause for discharge, that policy was repealed effective September 20, 2011.
Since the repeal of Don't Ask Don't Tell (DADT), homosexual conduct is not a reason to be separated. If someone was discharged under DADT, and did not recieve an Honorable characterization of service, they can apply to have this upgraded. The Navy Discharge Review Board (NDRB) is expediting these applications. If no misconduct was involved, the characterization will change to Honorable, the narrative reason for separation will change to Secretarial Authority, and the re-enlistment (RE) code will change to an appropriate RE-1 code for the service (USN or USMC).
I don't think you can. You either has to be single or married to adopt. Just living together is neither. if you are in a samesex relationship and has gone through partnership might be possible though.
Anyone can do anything they want to as long as they truly want it. No, in Islam having a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship is not allowed whether your a male or a female and whether the bf/gf is Muslim or not. If you have anymore questions regarding the matter, just ask and I'll be happy to answer them. i gree in islam having a boyfrnd or a grlfrnd is not allowd but today no youngr generation follows it .....so if a muslim girl personlly like a non muslim boy...then it is not allowd in islam.....u cannot marry him unless he accpts islam...:)