The answer depends on your marital status. An unmarried mother has sole custody of her child in most jurisdictions unless and until the father has established his paternity in court and requested joint custody.
If married, it is called 'abandonment' and you have it automatically when he left you. If he returned to your life at a later time, he would have to pay back child support. The court would never allow him full custody if he just abandoned you, unless you were proven unfit to be a mother.
Here is a tip, when the baby is born, do not put the father's name in the blank on the birth certificate. Just have them leave it blank, do not put "unknown" or the real father could use that against you saying you slept around and don't even know the real father. Leaving it blank means he will have to prove his paternity in order to have visitation. Most guys (especially the type who run away) will not go through the trouble.
If the couple are married the mother must place the spouse's name on the birth certificate or sign an affidavit stating that the spouse is not the father of the child. Such action will negate any possibility of support or total custody paternity has been established. If the couple are not married the law presumes that the mother has full custodial rights until the alleged father has established paternity and has received custodial rights from the court.
Contact the father so custody can be givin to rightful parent.
As long as she has Power of Attorney.
You have to get a lawyer and file for custody. There are some agencies that can provide free legal counsel, contact your local child protection service.
Unless the biological father has relinquished custody, he can ask the court to grabt custody in case the mother dies or cannot take care of herself.
No. You need to contact the state that has custody to determine your rights. If you go and get the child you may be guilty of custodial interference.
You indicate they have "Contact", but what is the status of Custody? If the Father has visitation, partial or shared custody, legal& or physical....No, you cannot change the Surname of the child without the Fathers explicit consent!!
No. If the child's' mother calls the police you could loss custody of your child and possible go to jail. If I was you I would contact a lawyer who specializes in child custody cases. If you can get a notarized letter from the mother saying it is okay and giving you full custody.
No. If you are not married the mother have custody automatically since birth. The only way for the father to get it is by proving paternity in court and he can then petition for custody, visitation and pay child support. Until then he can not stop her and the child form leaving. If you are married she can also leave with the child and so could you since you both have equal right to the child then.
No, you slowly make it harder, i.e. first use half, if father continues declining, file full custody
Father must petition for custody and court will weigh what situation is best for the child
The court can do nothing until they are able to contact her.
How often is the father awarded custody of the child over the mother in North Carolina?