Can you help me I really like this girl and need some advice?

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What's the problem?

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It just feels great when I talk to her. I'm 13 so I have no idea what love feels like. I just know that when I'm around her it feels right. My friends all think she is gross, not for any particular reason, they are just immature. She considers me a friend and maybe more and we see each other every day. She comes to my sporting events like football which is really cool and her parents have known me since I was 4 and like me a lot. Whenever I'm not around her I feel like there is something missing and the song "somebody to love" by queen kinda relates to my situation. I really want to be like more than friends with her but not in a creepy way and still have my friends. Please help me out, I feel lonely without somebody to love.

A:If you need advice you need to ask a particular question relating to this otherwise we don't know what to answer. You could look on the web for teen dating advice sites also. A:It sounds like you're doing OK. You're 13 so you don't need to be worrying about serious dating, but you can certainly be more than just another friend to her. It sounds like you're already someone special for her if she comes to your sports and talks to you every day. Can you spend a bit more time with her, like at lunch or after school? Things will develop slowly if you just keep on the way you're going. Buy her some little thing for her birthday, or at any time, and say, "I thought you'd like this." Ask her to help you with your homework!! LOL! And don't worry! She likes you a lot already!

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Hey, I'll tell you what I've learned growing up. At 13, your friends are immature and they judge people for all the wrong reasons, the fact that you are able to see past what your friends think and like this girl for who she is is a great quality to have! I guarantee that some of your friends think she is cute too but are too scared to admit it because they too are scared of what everyone else will think. If you really like this girl, I say go for it. If you act like your friends are crazy for "thinking" she is gross, you may learn that many of them really do not think this way at all. You never know until you try; we learn by taking chances in life whether they turn out the way you wanted them to or not. It's possible you could learn a lot by going out with this girl and years from now if you don't take the chance right now (despite what your friends may or may not think) you will look back and regret it. I can guarantee you that; you will never know what could have been.