Can a man love his mistress?

Answer 1

Definitely, not because a married man is having an affair, it doesn't mean that he can't love his mistress. there's a few reason why a married man can fall in love with his mistress, such as;

1- she's a bit younger that his wife

2- she listen to him talk especially about the problem he have with his wife

3- she knows how to please the married man in bed, not like his wife

4- the mistress is a new woman that he never met before because he

is married.

5- she always make time for him when he needed companion, not like his wife

always busy with kids and household.

6- she can make him feel very special not like his wife

Answer 2

for me yes a man felt love for his mistress despite the fact that he is married its not just pure lust that is involve but also love

ANSWER:

Unfortunately most married men do fall in love with their mistress. Is it normal? I would say yes and no. One reason why man fall in love with his mistress is, she is new in his life, qualities that she have his wife don't. This new woman in his life always have time for him and his wife is to busy taking care of things at home or maybe their children. The man I married also fell in love with his mistress for the reason that she have times for him, she is a religious person, and she listen when he talk. This are some of the things that he told me why he never had a problem loving her. So over all, yes most married men who do have affairs will fall in love with their mistress.

Answer 3

yes

SangKai: `'A woman who illicitly occupies the place of wife' is one of several definitions given by the Oxford English Dictionary, Oxford University Press 2009. to define the word mistress. Interestingly, it also defines mistress as A woman who rules, or has control. Another definition which is rare is 'A woman who has command over a man's heart; a woman who is loved and courted by a man; a sweetheart, lady-love. (Now avoided in ordinary use except in unequivocal contexts.)

The question can a man love his mistress I take it in the context whether it is allowed for that man to love his mistress when he should love only his wife. This question relates to the question of ethics. What is morally right and what is morally wrong. The issues of morality are then very subjective. Different custom yields a different view. Not so long time ago, it was hardly wrong for a Chinese man to take mistresses. The practice was hardly frowned upon. The mistresses even get the right to inherit his man's property when he died.

The Muslims may marry up to four wives at a time subject to certain conditions, and although the second the third and the fourth lover attained the status of legitimate wives, by analogy the effect may be the same in that the first wife has to tolerate the coming of another woman into her life and realising that her husband's love is no longer her's alone, that she has to share the love with another person.

Is it allowed then for a man, who has a wife to love his mistress? In the examples which I have given above, both cases presupposed the knowledge of the wife (or the first wife in Islamic context) that the husband love not only her but there may be another person or other persons. Does this in any way alleviate her hurt feelings?

It is my personal opinion, that, be it with the wife's knowledge or not, be it the so called duty of the wife that in her religion she is advised to give way for the husband, be it the condone of the society under the precept of customs, be it in the name of love of the wife for her husband that she is afraid of losing her husband that she adamantly determined to accept her fate, a woman is a woman who would not want to share the love of a man she loves and that is how we should, as a man, reciprocate and love only her. But certainly human feelings are complicated, that you may love or think you love someone today but tomorrow the feelings have changed.... In that case, it is certainly the best thing to go a separate way rather than having a one-sided relationship. Having said that, if you can call your feelings towards your wife 'love', then why the need to find another one? You may love your wife while at the same time love another woman (but should not love this other woman with the kind of love you love your wife), but as a human you are liable to biases and discrimination and the fact that you may at some point substituted your love for your wife to another woman which settles the issue that you should not take a mistress when you are in love with your wife.

Answer 4

Yes of course they can and do. Brief Encounter that classis forties film dealt well with the starting of such a relationship. The problem lies with morality, not necessarily subjective morality but rather objectice morality and each case is different. Women fall in love with married men because they are something you cant have, which everyone then wants.

Answer 5

I believe they can. Depending on what time of marriage they have I suppose... If they are getting nothing emotional or intimate in their marriage then it can happen.

Answer 6

A man under any weak circumstances of his life can have feelings for anyone.