If you are not sure you should see if there is any reason that feels good to you to keep the relationship going. If it is only sexual you may as well keep him if he performs well enough. Just make him wear a condom because you wont know what sort of STD,s he may have picked up. And let him know why.
Answer 2 (ALTERNATIVE)Since the question is worded as if you are asking me personally, I say that depends on a lot of different factors. I feel that cheating is wrong in the sense that in order to cheat, it must be happening behind the others back. Biologically, it is highly unlikely for somone who cheats to not do it again. It is however possible to remove the 'behind the back' part of the equation making it possible to eliminate cheating.
If both people in the relationship are of the non-jealous type it might be possible to work something out to make the relationship an open one. You would need to set ground rules for what is and is not allowed to be talked about as far as encounters in the open relationship. As long as both can come to an agreement where no one feels left out, you could be exclusive with each other as far as 'love' but both have your fun of casual encounters on the side. Keep in mind, for this to work love must be there for both of you. You both would have to be genuinely okay with this arrangement.
Another think that you could consider is adding others such that the encounters are in the same room. For example, one time you can find an extra girl to join you and another an extra guy, or you could find another couple. Just make sure everything is fair and everyone is really okay with this arrangement.
WARNING: If you do this, be sure to properly protect yourselves from STDs and get tested regularly!
I would.
Because the one who's cheating doesn't recognize that what they're doing is wrong and then gets mad at their partner. It's called being a hypocrite.
Talking about issues with your partner is the best thing you can do, resolving issues could save a failing relationship.
You should be able to trust your partner. There is no physical way to tell. You need to work on your relationship. Consider counseling.
A mate that cheats and is caught cheating is in full denial because they are angry and humiliated they got caught and that is the only reason they are humiliated ... their secret is out! Some people who cheat may have had one or both parents who cheated; they could have been cheated on by one or more girlfriends or boyfriends in their lifetime and feel that most people cheat anyway so why can't they. Anyone who cheats on their partner no matter what they reason is spineless; lacks self confidence; is immature and lacks empathy towards their partner and is using them as a 'safe place' where they know they can still have a secure lifestyle. The partner who cheats has the option to realize they no longer love their mate and should be honest about it and leave the relationship or at least separate before starting divorce proceedings and go to marriage counseling if they both feel they want to save the marriage. If the partner still cheats then their mate should take their secure and safe place away from them and kick them out. Cheating on a partner causes that bond of trust (essential in a good marriage or any relationship) and trust is not easily earned back.
I strongly advise you not to cheat, if you or your partner are not working out, leave, or have counselling. Do not get into a relationship you don't want to be in.
Try to get the spark back, and try to trust the person again. Make sure your partner proves to you that he/she has changed. You never know if they're lying or not. Be careful, and good luck!
no but he was in a partner relationship for something else no but he was in a partner relationship for something else
You are better off without them
It's a double standard. The cheater continues with their behavior but expects their partner not to betray or transgress from the relationship. The relationship is the foundation they expect to return to when they tire of the affair--if the other person strays or leaves, they lose that "balance". In some cases, the cheater is so emotionally removed from the relationship that they don't care if their partner cheats as well. everyone wants their cake and to eat it too
Honestly... If this person won't leave their partner, then that means that they are happy. You can't force someone to leave their partner because YOU love them. Either hope and pray that eventually they do leave their partner, or try and find someone new.
ANSWER:If your talking about yours and his relationship, wow it will be impossible. It doesn't matter how much you love him or her what's going on is not right. It's about self survival.