You haven't mentioned whether you are the mother or father, whether you were married to the other parent or whether you ever established your parental rights legally if you're the father. If you are the father and you haven't had any contact with your child for nine years it is likely that you never established your paternity. You may need to do that now if the custodial parent has any objections to your desire to obtain a visitation schedule. When you establish your paternity the custodial parent can request a child support order and seek back support.
Keep in mind that your sudden appearance will be disruptive for the child and the family and you should try to respect the custodial parent's right and desire to minimize the emotional effect on the child. You need to take things slowly since your child was not given the opportunity to develop a relationship with you. You will be a stranger. You should contact the custodial parent or guardian to arrange a time to discuss your desire to become part of the child's life. If you are not on good terms perhaps you could enlist the help of a friend or relative to act as a go-between initially. You should try to keep the process friendly and cooperative.
In this case, you can not force the mother to be in contact with her child, neither can the court, however, you are, and by all means, entitled to child support. All you need to do is, file for it.
Of course because they are still his children and he is responsible for supporting them.
Yes . you need to talk to a lawyer you have the right to see your child???
Yes you can, but will need to go through the courts. Or you could still go after him for child support through the courts, they can make him pay.
It is rare that a court removes parental rights due to non-contact. A parent may still have some rights to their child regarding contact, and perhaps even some visitation, regardless of that being exercised or not.
If she is still nursing a child.
There is no statue of limitation in California on child support but it's usually not more than 18 years unless the child support agreement says differently. Your child is not a child and has not been for many years so I don't know why you are still paying and why you have found it acceptable to do so for so long. You need to read the agreement you signed and if this is not correct that you are still paying, you need to contact a lawyer and get the money back from the child's mother. If it is correct and you want to end it you have to go to court so the judge can end it.
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Yes of course! your a child in laws eyes until your 18 years old
furthermoreFurthermore to the question is that the exgf doesn't want to be with me due to the fact that I will still have contact with the child and the child's mother, and of course that i will have a baby....what do we do??? AnswerDon't choose the guy who has a child with another girl. That is a complication that will last 18 - 21 years. That was his mistake - don't make it yours.
No a custodial parent can not kick a child out of school if the child is still a minor. If the child is 18 years old, the parent may kick them out.
As long as they remain established.