How do they feel? They feel nothing. They just walk out the door and pretend you never existed. It is the victim of a N that has to move on otherwise they just destroy you. My husband lied to me and said he needed to think about our marraige and came back 2 weeks later and said he was not coming back. In those 2 weeks he was dating another woman, and had been for 6 months. He blamed me for everything. he lied about everything in our marriage and in his eyes it was all my fault. Now i have PTSD and seeing a clinical psychologist to help me over it. They dont care, they move on without guilt. So be in no doubt, just get help from friends and family, dont take the blame for anything and get on with your life. Its not easy, but you will get there.
No. He only feels bad that he lost his source of supply. i.e. what you could do for him. He found you useful - and now he has devalued and discarded you.. You will soon be replaced with another unwilling victim who is taken in by that charming act to lure all those victims in. It's a honed skill.
He only feels bad that the money - favors - sex - conversation - company - etc. that you offered is no longer there. As soon as possible.. he will replace you. Won't even bat an eyelash - that's how fast it is......... and repeat the cycle.
They are shallow people who make no emotional connections with anyone. You are property. A possession. Nothing more. Nothing less. You're a thing. An extension of the narcissist. They are hollow inside.. Their only quest in life is to win the "game" - get what they want and never consider YOU for a second. No empathy. Nothing.
They're a lot of fun..... but they are not reliable - trustworthy -and moods change with the wind. Like trying to catch sand in your hand. Consider yourself lucky that it is OVER.
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It's certainly possible. A narcissist may date another narcissist that is more selfish than they are to feel better about themselves. In turn say "i'm not as selfish as he/she is so that makes me above him/her). It's incredible and shocking the way people with this disorder think. It takes a lot of research to understand a narcissist.
Check my previous answer on narcissism!
NO. They may say it but they can't feel so they don't mean it.
Narcissistic women aren't much different than men who are. They are selfish; self centered; ego maniacal and only do things for themselves that make them feel go. Since you already know she is selfish and self centered and consider her a narcissist then it's better to break up the relationship and move on because these types of people will stop on you every chance they get to get what they want and don't care how you feel. Eventually the narcissist will dump you and move on.
Act pyscho or sumthing act crazy or be you and move on figure it out
No a narcissist will always be a narcissist. Don't get involved, you are free now. Be thankful you have escaped the worse time in your life and can move on. the narcissist wil try to make it look and sound like he is so much better to her, because that will further his need to make you feel like you don't matter, if you did, you would have treated you well, too. in reality, he is treating her just as bad as he did you, and probably rubs you in her face, too!
Narcissists are all about me, me, me. If you don't feel free to be yourself, if you feel that your fiance is controlling you, bail out. Chances are good you hit the jackpot.
To make the partner feel worthless
There are no victims, only volunteers! We teach people how to treat us. ALWAYS listen to your "internal guidance system," your God consciousness. How do you feel around this person? If you feel good then stay. If you're unhappy and the relationship isn't propelling you forward in your growth as a human being, then you must move on. The universe ALWAYS wants whats best for you. You just have to have faith, and trust the process.
Yes, sometimes a narcissist will contact their ex after a break up because the narcissist cannot imagine their ex with anyone else as the narcissist has a complex of being the greatest at everything including relationships and is ego maniacal.
They put on an act to suck you in. They mirror you. Deep down inside they are full of rage, etc., and cannot feel. They feel through the way you respond.