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Arranged Marriages

Arranged marriages are marriages agreed upon by outside parties. There is usually no courtship period.

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Who arranged marriage of Ann of Cleves with Henry VIII?

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The person who arranged the marriage between Ann of Cleves and Henry VIII was Thomas Cromwell, who was Henry's chief minister at the time. Cromwell hoped the marriage would strengthen alliances with Protestant powers in Europe, but it ultimately ended in annulment after a few months.

Iam madly in love with someone who is leaving me for an arranged marriage. I know that this means he does not love me properly etc...My question is - How do you move on from something like this?

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Moving on from a situation like this can be challenging, but it is essential for your own well-being. Allow yourself to grieve and feel the emotions, but also remember that you deserve someone who chooses you willingly. Focus on self-care, seek support from friends and family, and consider professional help if needed. Engage in activities that bring you happiness and eventually, with time, you will heal and find love again.

Are there arranged marriages?

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The parents make political or economic alliances or they feel that their child will be better of with a particular person, Arranged mirages also protect the cultural continuity of the family.

What religions engage the most in arranged marriages?

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The Hebrews were very into arranged marriage but I don't know of any MODERN religions that are into arranged marriages. They silly if you ask me...

What is the history of arranged marriages in China?

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Arranged marriages in china began in the warring states period. In different parts of china, there are different customs which are practiced during an arranged marriage. However they all basically follow the same principle of the "Three Letters and Six Etiquettes". The three letters consisted of the Betrothal Letter, Gift Letter and Wedding Later. The Betrothal Letter was the first stage of the marriage; this was the document confirming the engagement sent to the bride's family. After that, the Gift Letter would be sent to the bride's family, stating what types and quantity of gifts were chosen for the wedding. The Gift Letter would only be sent after both the bride and groom's family had accepted the marriage. During the period leading up to the wedding, the Wedding Letter is written to present to the bride's family on the day of the wedding. This letter was a final document which confirmed and commemorated the formal acceptance of the bride into the groom's family The six etiquettes were the six procedures the bride and groom performed before the leading up to and during the wedding. The first of the six is Proposing. The boy's parents would hire a matchmaker to formally present a proposal to the girl's parents to request marriage of their son with their daughter. If the girl's family accepts, the next step is called Birthday Matching. The matchmaker would access both the boy and girl's birthdates and times to make sure they did not conflict each other. This step was based on astronomy. After the birthdays are accessed and there was no sign of astronomical conflict, the groom's family would present the bride's family with betrothal gifts and the betrothal letter. This stage of the marriage was called Presenting Betrothal Gits. Next came Presenting Wedding Gifts. The groom's family would formally send wedding gifts to the bride's family. These gifts would vary depending on the local customs and traditions and family wealth. In order to conduct a wedding ceremony, a date is needed. This next step was picking a wedding date. This was when a astronomy book was consulted to pick an promising date to hold the wedding. Finally came the wedding ceremony, the last of the six etiquettes. At the start of the day to begin the ceremony, the groom is blessed by his father with adulthood and responsibility by kneeling at the ancestral altar as his father places a symbolic cap decorated with cypress leaves upon his head to represent the change. Then, on the chosen day of the ceremony, the groom and his party parades all the way to the brides house were the wedding begins. Meanwhile the bride is preparing to meet her groom for the first time. Her head is covered by a red silk veil with bead strings that hang from her phoenix crown. Dissimilar to Western style weddings, red is the main colour of the ceremony not white because in China, red is a symbol of happiness. When the groom reaches the brides home, the bride will come out, unable to talk to her future husband guarded by her bridesmaids and takes a seat on the sedan chair held by the grooms party. The veil is covering her face still so her groom cannot see her. While she is sitting on the chair, one of her sisters will shelter her with a red umbrella, while another sister will toss rice at the sedan chair. During this stage, the bride is supposed to cry to show that she does not wish to leave her dear parents. At last, the bride and groom reach the groom's household. The bride is not supposed to touch the bare earth so a red mat is placed for her to walk on. Before she enters the house, a flaming stone and a saddle are placed before her like obstacles she will overcome in her lifetime. Her groom help's her over these items in order for her to live a peaceful married life free of evils. Now is when the ceremony really begins, the bride and groom are led to the bridal chamber where the couple kowtows to heaven and earth and the family members do the same. The ceremony proceeds with a huge feast thrown by the groom's family to celebrate the wedding. After all the festivities have finally come to an end, the bride and groom head to the bridal room were the bride is able to reveal herself and take of the veil for the first time.

What was an arranged marriage in the Elizabethan era?

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During Shakespearean times, or the Elizabethan era, women had very little, if any, choice in who her huband would be. The legal age for marriage was 14 for males, 12 for females. Marriages were usually arranged to both families would benefit (prestige, wealth, land, etc.), and were usually children of people that the parents knew. The bride and groom would often meet for the first time ON their wedding day!

Are arranged marriages illegal in the UK?

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Yes, in the United Kingdom, forced marriage is highly illegal and is treated as a serious crime by law enforcement.



Definition and Information
Forced marriage is defined as an individual being pressured, threatened or forced into a marriage which that individual does not want to be a part of. It is a barbaric cultural practice which is performed by some traditional Arabic and Asian families.

Families which practice this barbaric act will often warn their children that they will face harm, will be killed or will "bring shame" if they do not go ahead with the marriage. This is a form of abuse, specifically psychological abuse, which is also illegal.
Women forced into marriage are often subjected to physical violence and sexual abuse.



The Law
The United Kingdom is a permanent member of the United Nations and strictly enforces the international human rights laws. Which also forbids forced marriages as it takes away an individual's human rights.

Aside from human rights, forced marriage has always been illegal in the UK.
However those put on trial before 2014 were done so with a long list of charges that were associated with forced marriage, such as assault and so on. But as of 2014, a new law was passed, specifically making forced marriages 100% illegal, which shortens the process of securing a criminal conviction and makes cases quicker to deal with.

Even if the parents take their child out of the UK to get force them into a marriage in another country, that is still a crime. Taking an individual out of the country unwillingly, even if the people taking the person are their parents, is also kidnapping. The parents and the others involved in forcing you into the marriage can be arrested as soon as they return back to the UK.



Victims, Reporting and Getting Help
If you are a victim of a forced marriage, believe you will be a victim or suspect someone to be a victim, please contact the authorities immediately. The law is on your side. You will be protected from physical harm.

There is no shame that will be brought upon anybody for your refusing to be forced into a marriage.
Your forced marriage will be cancelled (annulled) by the British court, since it is not a legally recognised marriage. The partner you were forced to marry and any family members that participated will be arrested. Any other individuals in the family at risk of forced marriages will have a protection order placed upon them by a judge.

There is also a charity called Karma Nirvana, which has been set up by forced marriage survivors to help others in forced marriages or at risk of going into one. You can find them in the links further below. This charity will provide you all the help you need once you are free.


The emergency telephone number in the United Kingdom is 999.

  • You will be asked what emergency service you require. Say "police".
  • Within seconds, you will be speaking to the police emergency centre.
  • The emergency number is free to call from any phone in the UK, including public phone boxes.
  • You can also contact the police by texting from a mobile phone. See the link further below.



Escaping
If you need to escape from somewhere, such as a home, to report the forced marriage, here are some tips:
  1. Plan carefully. It helps to know everyone's schedules and where any nearby access to a phone is.

  2. If you can, make an excuse to leave the home, for example state that you are going to the local shop. Use this opportunity to reach a telephone and call the police. Do not return to the home, wait for the police to arrive.

  3. If it is not possible for you to make an excuse to leave the home, try to find a chance to walk out of the house while the family are busy, for example at work.

  4. If you are locked in a room:
    • Best case scenario: Try to grab attention by flagging someone from the window and requesting they send the police to you.
    • Worse case scenario: If you are certain nobody else is in the building, put on some flat-soled shoes. If you kick the door just below the keyhole with the bottom (sole) of your foot. You will weaken it. Repeat a couple more times until the door opens. Don't use your toes (using your toes will likely cause them to break instead of the door).

  5. As soon as you are out the building, head to the nearest phone. If there is no public phone nearby, you can use the phone in public buildings, such as libraries, if you ask them and say it is an emergency. if a police station is within walking distance, head there instead.

  6. If you are at an airport and about to be forced to go to another country for a marriage, inform the airport security or an airport police officer at your earliest opportunity, for example when you're about to go through a body scan.



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Is love enough to marry and will it alone sustain the marriage?

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Marriage is, because of love.

Because of love, there's respect that leads to kindness that leads to patience and on and on it is sustained.

In what cultures is arranged marriages popular?

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Arranged marriages were very common throughout the world until the 18th century. In China, arranged marriages sometimes called blind marriages were the norm before the mid 20th century

Why were marriges arranged in Shakespeare's times?

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Marriages were arranged for different reasons, depending on who was getting married.

Royal wedding were arranged for diplomatic purposes to make alliances between nations and dynasties of monarchs.

Members of the nobility similarly allied their families with other families in order to strengthen their positions.

Middle class people arranged marriages for the purpose of allying families in the same crafts or trades in order to increase their wealth and abilities. Bankers and merchants wanted to extend the areas in which they could do business, both geographically and in clientele. Crafts people wanted to avail themselves of technology and other business assets, both in terms of property and in terms of reputation and connection.

There were other reasons to arrange marriages, which was to maintain the power of the family, and of its head. The old Roman pater familias was a very powerful person, and this power was not to be given up easily. He wanted to maintain power over what important things his family members did, and marriage was among them. He would not want a son or daughter, or a grandson or granddaughter, marrying without consent, as this would reduce his power and the coherence of the family. And in many place, the idea of consent was replaced by arrangement.

Remnants of this sort of power, familial and financial, still exist.

Do teenagers have the same views on marriage as their parents?

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not many people have the same veiws of life as their parents, partially because they are from two differnet generations in which some things that never used to be socially acceptable are now, especially not marriage. MY parents tell me to wait until i am at least 25 but when i think about it i would be ready for marriage and a family at the age of 21. watever you choose just make sure its a wise choice. although nowadays marriage is taken for granted and it is far to easy to get a divorce.

What is parents point of view on arranged marriages?

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The parents' point of view is that parents have the experience and wisdom needed to make better decisions than their children are capable of making, and marriage is too important a decision to leave in the hands of young, inexperienced people who will just make fools of themselves.

Why arrange marriage is better?

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Most in western countries or western influence countries love marriage is being followed and prefer, in the other hand in some Muslim & some Asian countries they prefer the Arrange Marriage setup. Which is better depends on the culture which you live in.

Are arranged marriages illegal in the US?

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no

As i know that no any whare illiagl the love marriage and arrange marriage.. Now every country give the permission both love marriage and arrange marriage.

What do you think about arranged marriage?

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I personaly think that I should get to know the person first and hang out for a while and found it if its better as friends or if you really want to marry them but thts just me. Do what you think is right

How many underage marriages are they in the US?

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What are the percentages of failed underage marriages in the US?

What is a good arranged marriage anime?

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Try Seto no Hanayome, for a comedy anime.

Do they have arranged marriages in israel?

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Not always.

Another answer:There are various levels of "arranged". To have a marriage in which the young couple had no say in it (as is done in certain other cultures) is rare in Judaism, since the Halakha forbids it. Rather, the parents and matchmaker try to present their son/daughter with what they believe will be a good spouse; and the final decision is in the hands of the youngsters themselves. It is well-known that divorce rates are lower in these circumstances.

Do Chinese people still have arranged marriages?

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For the Chinese, arranged marriages mainly occur in rich families. The reason is that if the rich match with the rich their empire will be bigger and larger. This will bring more money and more business and ensure that the business will not fall into the wrong hands but rather to the chosen ones.

How do you write a sweet email to a guy for the first time?

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let it come from your heart. say things you like about him and leave it open for him to reply. dont provoke him though, girls are here to be chased not to chase the guys ;) .f. Well, start out by saying how or why you are interested in him. Cite a time or two that you have seen him and just havent been able to muster the courage to approach him. Let him know that you would love to go out to some small eatery, that you know of that is intimate, and get to know him better.

What is the percentage of failures in arranged marriage in India?

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There are some basic facts to be considered first of all. That, from the puberty, till the age of marriage, many youngsters suppress their desires set by the nature. In other words, sex starvation is ridiculously high in India.

Often, other difficulties in life too makes everyone inclined to have a soul mate, other than major love affairs that starts by physical attraction. So, in brief, any marriage, not arranged, can't be addressed as love marriage, because, few of them make a bond of love, while others will have their own reasons to find a partner by themselves.

Considering the deep sense of love leading to marriage, is often been a success all the time and others ends up in failure.

In brief, love marriages are always a success, and in India, all marriages other than arranged are not clearly a bond of love and rather, a physical attraction only. Infact, arranged marriages are too prone for failure and recent surveys shows dangerous reports for divorce rates in India.