Unanswered | Answered

Abused Men

Instances of men being abused by their partner – physically, emotionally or even sexually – are as prevalent as women abuse. Unfortunately, many of these cases go unreported because male victims have to contend with social standards of men being the abuser.
It is just a fasination.
Being abused when young leaves emotional scars that every abused child takes into adulthood. Seeing a Psychologist on a regular basis to learn tools to cope with the past abuse and realizing that a child has no control over such things, but now that the person is an adult they have total control...
easy what's the classic way of making a guy jealous... this does of course depend on if you have gone out with him and he dumped you or make a guy jealous like in a hard to get way. if he dumped you just go out with another guy and like still be friends with him so you can talk about having another...
It's wise to take some time out for yourself after a verbally abusive relationship because you have lost who you are. Give yourself time to get to know yourself and what you are capable of doing. Start going out with friends; have fun; take a vacation with your buddies (can be a long weekend and not...
Answer . Yes, more often than women or men think. Most men are brought up not to hit women and stick to that practice so when a man is hit, slapped, shoved, scratched or has things thrown at him or she is verbally abusive he takes it because most men feel everything is revolved around women being...
Unfortunately, there are no true statistics on how many men suffer domestic violence in a year. There are more men that suffer verbal and physical abuse than most people know and most studies on abuse of any sort have been mainly studies re women, children and elder abuse. However, in the past 10...
If you your ex boyfriend broke your nose in the past month and you have photos of your broken nose then yes, you can go to the police and press charges against your ex boyfriend and give them a copy of the picture or pictures of your broken nose as well as a copy of the hospital report when you had...
  Answer   No, it's not normal this kind of behavior, perhaps she needs professional help as she seems to be reaching out, but to the wrong people if what you say it true.   Good luck
Hateful means full of hate. And hate means to feel intense or  passionate dislike for something or someone.
First lets define sweatshop: The U.S. Government Accountability Office defines a sweatshop as an employer that violates more than one federal or state labor law governing minimum wage and overtime, child labor, industrial homework, occupational safety and health, worker's compensation or industry...
A man that is being abused by a woman can contact Mental Health in the region they live in and they will lead you to the Men's Abuse Program where everything is kept confidential.
  If he wants you to be happy, or some variation of him personally making you happy, then he cares. You will know if he doesn't care when you are sad and he won't be supportive, and acts completely self absorbed in day to day life.
Probably. If a guy hits once, he tends to hit againa and again.   ANSWER   I would not give him the chance to hit you again. I would leave, run, drive, as far away as I could, file charges and never talk to him again or even listen to what they have to say. The first time a guy hits you it is...
im trying to figure out if my husband has been in a previous relationship that he was verbaly mentaly and emotionaly abused
There are shelters for women and children, however there is little to noting for a father and children to go to. see link below
This is a generalization that is not always true. Some men abuse women, not all men. Some women abuse men, some women abuse women, and some men abuse men.
Instead of getting to the root of your wife's problem you have only ended up being an abuser as well and it's called 'verbal abuse.' Tempers flare and I can see why your temper did. However there are some causes for reactions from a wife:Take a good hard look at yourself first and see what other...
Ronald "Butch" DeFeo was a heavy drug user who had financial problems due to his habit. He also had ongoing issues with his parents, especially his father, due to his drug abuse and prior violent behaviors. There apparently was a great amount of tension and arguments in the DeFeo household; Ronald...
He knows you have freedom while he does not and being in prison is a difficult place to be. He has lots of time to let his imagination run away with him and may think you are dating other men. If you live near enough to the prison you must have visiting rights and if this is the case then go and see...
well it could be either you never know until you ask maybe he wants to be with you or maybe hes worried dat you might leave him you never know until you ask him whats going on and remember hes in prison hes gonna think alot about you :)
There is no Jodie DeFeo in real life. This character is an invention of the book/movie.
little star in scottish i believe
  == Answer ==     It depends on the situation. If most wives waited for their husbands to be motivated enough to entertain others or even go out then we'd be very lonely women. If he is using this to "get even" with you this is another story. If this is the case go out without him! ...
The elderly who are very ill have little control of what happens to them. Some elderly may have suffered a stroke or are too ill to speak and have suffered abuse either by one or more of their adult children or even some nurses in nursing homes (more common that one thinks.) If an elderly person has...
Who knows what goes through a humans mind, but here are a few reasons:Life InsuranceRage because he may have been cheating or may be leaving the marriage.If the husband is physically or mentally abusive to her. There is a point where everyone can crack one way or the other.If she has a lover and...
Answer   I have been abused by my husband and I have a wonderful support system. Although, we have been separated/divorced for almost 2 years now...I still think about going back and I'm not sure why. I think it has to do with the fact that I hope and wonder if he will change because I still do...
  yes i believe so i think that it gives the woman the3 authority and she feels like she has power.........................   <Starbuckz_luvr>
It was always thought that because women were considered the weaker sex that it was just woman that were abused and the statistics are still high on more women being abused than men. However, in the past ten years studies have found that yes, men certainly can be abused by their girlfriend or wife....
I've fought woman before who try to talk sh*t to me and put their hands on me or slap me and really they say man shouldn't hit a woman but I look at them like a man if they try to lay hands on me I believe everyone else should do the same forget what you hear.
If this is happening it is your duty to protect the children from your wife. If necessary you must get the authorities involved in helping you do this. As a start try talking to your doctor about this.
  Answer You can't. He will have to come to this realization for himself. You can make him aware of the red flags in a relationship, in the hope that he will recognize them when they appear - but convincing him is not normally an option. You also need to be aware of your own motivations. Are you...
Absolutely none! Narcissists think they are more intelligent than anyone else and they delight in baiting their victims (generally their mate.) They are often arrogant, will put down their mate and make them feel stupid and not at par with them in the intelligence bracket. They enjoy their own life...
yes craigslist is completely free
First of all, no one has the right to put their hands on you if you don't want them to. Don't believe him if he says he can. I'm not going to ask why he's pretending to be your husband, but you should call the police or contact an abused woman shelter. They are more qualified to help you find a way...
well abusers like him only focusses to their victims and how and what their next abuse scenario will be guys like him should be sent to prison and sentense a lifetime inprisoment though after i have many time and in many ways ask to get rid of this man and keep him away from me nobody does anything...
i don t know what else should be done if asked for help to get rid of this man and nobody does anything about it and they let him keep abusing in horrible ways that leaves no freedom and violates a persons human rights he knows every move and every breath you take and even he knows what he s done...
Well if he hits you take pictures of the marks left on you and make sure you keep them somewhere were he will not find them. Then show the police and he will be out your life. When he is in jail try to get enough money to move so he won't come back or move in with a friend or family member that...
They can't. When a girl hits a boy, they, too, have committed the crime ofbattery.
Yes she is pregnant by Julius and George and Elye at the same time!
If she is "pretending to like you", it may be because she wantssomething from you. However, it could also be you misconceiving her actions.
I'm sorry but I find the answer below extremely offensive and whom ever wrote it obviously has a strong veiw on this matter but no personal insight to it, abuse victims don't need to be told they are sick! That is what their partner tells them every time they get abused and can actually used by...
A narcissistic person is someone who prioritizes himself above anyone or anything else. Of course, a good amount of self-love is vital for one's self-confidence and survival but a narcissistic invidual just goes beyond the borders - where he or she becomes inconsiderate for others in order to...
Check your state laws to see if you are allowed to carry a recorder on you. If you are allowed, purchase a digital recorder and carry it on you at all times. This way you may have an allibi for some of her allegations, and the police will start to question her motives and/or honesty.
Most women who have managed to escape an abusive lifestyle with their partner work hard at leaving their abuser, getting counseling and putting their life into some sort of perspective so many refuse to come forward because they can't bare the memories or are ashamed of what they have put up with...
The presumption is that a woman wouldn't make up such a horrific claim. Also, people do know that they sometimes do, it's just that only the lowest type of woman does so if you're still with her, what does that tell them?That she's not too low down for you to stay with, therefore what she said was...
  Answer   The answer to your question is what's in your heart? If you wish to call him a thief then do so to his/ her face, and if he or she don't like it, they can always leave.
  Answer   Everyone in life keeps secrets, don't let anyone ever tell you that they don't keep secrets sick people included. Narcissists are sick people, they need help and they are known to be liars as well so watch your step around this person and always remember, what they tell you may not...
  Answer   She didn't call and so what? If you want us to answer a question for you, you have to be a bit more specific with your question as there is no way of answering this question there's not enough information to answer you with. Please ask your question again with more details.  ...
yes. he is the dummest person in dimensions 1-4
Answer . Believe it or not men and women can be friends. I have several male friends, and no, I've never slept with any of them. My husband has a couple of very good female friends and I have them over for dinner on occasion. If you know you love each other then there should be no cause for...
== Answer ==   I am into some pretty strange things, but this one always gets me. If you really insist on doing this, start out with just the two of you in the bedroom and ask her bring an imaginary strange into the room. Go from there and see how far she'll take it. Play it by ear as to the sex...
  es muy stupido como un babe   Puesto permitió que sus bebés tengan cerveza si usted los desea que vivan. En lugar les da 100% puro vineger. Esto prevendrá teniendo que cambiar pañales.   P si este trabajo de doesnt, les da laxitives
Alex U d!ck sh!t. U kn0b, u d!ck. U suck ur moms bawlls. U have social problems. b!tch. from Mat B, Leah T, Alex S, Sophie G, Jess A, and every1 else.
Answer . There is a big difference between a masseuse and an 'exotic masseuse.' In some cases exotic masseuse includes sex (but not in all cases.) Perhaps there was a little more going on that massaging to relax the client. This is something you are going to have to discuss in more detail with...
Mental abuse towards husbands is:Their wife constantly nagging at them 24/7A wife that is not willing to communicate with her husband and resolve the problems at hand.Calling their husband names such as 'loser' to 'you're a lousy lover' or, 'I should have married _____instead of you.'A wife giving...
  == Answer ==   It has not personally happened to me, but it has happened to a couple of my friends. It's basically simple ... you respect and are honest with your partner and communicate well and if one chooses not too then they can't expect much from the relationship. It takes two! The...
it depends how old you are,if your a kid then the best solution is to duke it out with the kid because no matter what the people say telling on someone makes everything worse everybody that's been a teenager knows that but if your an adult then by all means report them because adults should be more...
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser...
AnswerI answered this question nearly a month ago but perhaps i didn't make myself clear. To be honest with you, one of you needs professional help if not the both of you as there is something going on in your relationship that isn't healthy. I don't believe in Magicians so one of you has to be the...
Why Does Niece Like Unintelligent Men? . Unless you know these young men she is dating then it is you that is not using the maturity you should have by giving that young man a chance and getting to know him. It's a fact that young women mature much quicker than young men. Don't judge a book by...
Unless the person realizes that they are in fact in an emotionally abusive marriage there really isn't anything you can do. You can however, set up a type of intervention with said persons close friends and family. Maybe this will help them come to terms with their situation. Support and positivity...
If he come to the house you are living in and is abusive then you can ask him to leave. If he refuses to leave then call Local Police and explain why you are calling. The Police should then come to the house and talk with both you and the ex-boyfriend. Police will then decide if ex-boyfriend should...
Answer . Yes. If you hit someone you can be arrested. If it was clearly self defense they are not very likely to, but if there are criminal acts going on, officers can arrest both parties to a fight. .
It depends. If they hit you, and you hit them back, you could claim it was in "self defense", whether it was or not. It's generally better to avoid hitting them back and instead disable their arm in a lock or something. 
Males abuse or sexually abuse their children more than women, but there are a few cases where women sexually abuse their sons, but can be verbally or physically abusive by slapping, shoving towards their children.
First be sure that the Reports she filed are False. I too believed a boyfriend, that his ex-wife was filing false reports. His whole family joined in, they were very convincing that she was a liar, manipulator, vindictive, etc... It was not that hard to believe, she lashed out at me, lied about me...
It was very interesting short story. Relationship is  dependent on each other that is how it is evaluated. 
Narcissists need to always be complimented; dramatize their lifestyle or indeavors;adored; admired, etc., and it's 'running out of supplies' for the narcissist when they want to come back to the partner they were with. This means the narcissist is not being supplied to boost his or her's ego and...
You should take time out for yourself and ask yourself what you are doing or not doing for your wife. Perhaps she has asked you to fix one or more things around the house and you have not done so; perhaps you make messes and don't clean up after yourself (a wife is not maid service); you may not...
 If the person you need to apologize to lives where you do then  go to their home and face them and apologize face to face instead  of texting them or phoning them. If the person you want to  apologize to is an online friend then send them an ecard and  apologize. Good friends will try to...
Yes, Butch Defeo did act alone although he said voices told him to murder his parents and siblings. There is no proof that the house is Amityville was ever haunted or had any demonic action in the house and Defeo could well be Schizophrenic.
It's only been in the past few years that the battered male syndrome has gotten serious attention. The latest percentage of battered men was placed at approximately 36% or roughly 835,000 of the 2.3 million abuse cases reported yearly. Researchers believe that those figures are far from accurate for...
Age differences is the gap between two person. It is the range of the older person to the younger person. Basically, this is measurable by subtracting the lesser age from the larger age. - Shamgar
There aren't ' daddy lions ' . There a pride members. Thier size depends on the genes from the lions in which they were born. Therefore there is no daddy lion and the size doesn;t matter. Thier place is decided by their roar and how loud it is.
Put yourself in your wife's shoes. In 29 years of marriage you have treated her well and suddenly you call her the 'b' word. To some women that is sign that their husband is not happy with them and the wife becomes defensive because her feelings are very hurt. You are lucky that sex is the only...
People can tell if its a bad guy around by the way he dresses, the way he acts, and if eh gets in trouble a lot.
Why A Person Feels Free Within Themselves When Their Secrets Become Open: . The quote 'The truth shall set you free' comes into play. If someone is holding back deep, dark secrets about their past or even present endeavors and they tell someone about it then the burden of hiding the secret(s) they...
Answer . \nIt appears to me you are making things just too blasted easy for him. Make him work for your affections! Don't be there all the time, and when he tells you he's not ready for a serious relationship then say, "OK, fine with me. I think we should start dating other people." You see,...
You laugh at them and answer that they are simply displaying their own ignorance.
ok...so for me it was like he proved it to me. we were about to...yanno...;) and then all the sudden he like just stopped and told me that i didnt have to if i didnt ACTUALLY want to and i said i probably didnt like tomorrow i'd regret it. and he said that he would wait till i wanted to, no regrets...
  == Answer ==   What would it do to anyone? Nobody likes that kind of behavior and eventually, most normal people would find a way to avoid it.
  Because his mom wouldn't do it.
False reporting of spousal abuse is a crime because it taint's the character of the person being falsely accused. It is immoral, can cause damage in the accused person's life and the accused person should take legal action.
Mama Lola will be at the Voodoofest in New Orleans, Louisiana from  October 28 to November 5, 2014. You can call 504-522-2111 to book  an appointment for a reading on one of those days.
By not being an idiot.
Some bipolar people can be violent. They go threw like constant mood swings like one minute there happy and sweet and the next they can be sad or mean. But depending of person when they do get mean they can take it out on you. I have a family member that is bipolar so i have some experience with...
1 in every 40 people are being abused every year
if your offended by major events around the world then you wanna be involved in a fight or riot