When a woman decides to go ahead with an affair it's a big risk and usually both people will lose out. The man moves on either staying with his wife or go on to some other woman and the woman feels like her soulmate has gone. This is just the chemical reaction in the brain to that losing an exciting partner who catered on your needs. I know it hurts deeply, but I hope you have learned that there are plenty of single guys out there that you are best to stick with and don't get tangled up with married men. It's a waste of your life. The hurt does go away. Get out and start dating or at least go out with with friends and kick up your heels. Don't sit at home brooding over this love affair, because it never was meant to be. I think you are more angry at yourself than at the loss of not seeing him any longer. Women can feel like fools for not seeing this moment come, but many women get caught up in affairs. Now you know ... don't go there anymore! Good luck Marcy focus on your husband and never speak to this man again. Move on in your life. Living in the past won't help you. Live and learn. The more you hold onto this feeling you have for him the more it will eat at you. Move on and live your life. Consider it a good thing as it wouldn't have come to anything but sorrow.
Just go on a vaction to get a fresh start and then forget all the things that happen get it all out your head. Then if that don't work then tell it to a friend or go 2 a docter that will help u with ur problems and it will be good.
Answer There's no way in hell you will make her feel like she did when you first married. At that time, it was all glitter and gold, and now for some reason you are having sex with another woman and you don't say if your wife knows or not, but if she does know there's no way to ever win her heart again, once a heart is broken it's hard to mend it. The glitter and Gold have evidently worn off for you or you wouldn't be in another woman's bed would you.
Quite easy, the married woman needs to think the consequences that will destroy her marriage, and if the are children it will be a bit worst either. You need to make time for your wife so you can talk to her about what's going on. If you are always busy because of your work, then you need to stop and look behind you, see if your wife is wondering if you can still see or look at her as your best friend, lover, and a wife. Most of the married woman that end up cheating comes from the relationship that only one spouse is making the effort of saving the marriage. Do you think if you have time for your wife and you know how to make her feel love and special, she will be stupid to go and find someone that can make her feel like a woman?
I don't know the situation of your marriage, but you are the only one that knows your wife. Ask yourself is you making effort to just be with her or even just a walk in the park. Last but the least, I don't care if all men in this world is not a romantic, talkative, don't know how to show their affection but when it comes to our partner you must take that road of protecting, and loving her. You need to start appreciated her or what she is doing now will not prolong.
first you have to realize that you were never supposed to have a relationship with them. then you need to treat it just like anyother breakup. it doesnt deserve speacil treatment. go hang with some friends. or wallow for a while. then go back out in the world.
Just wait and be patient as time heals all wounds. But, you should take some time to think about it and learn from your mistakes.
If your lover is available to marry you, you'd get a divorce. If not, it might be lust and not love on their part. Be very sure that your lover is serious before you break up your marriage.
You should find another lover.
Doubt it if he has founded the love of his life there not much you can do
Miep and Jan were very much in love, and were married for over 60 years. They married because they knew they were "right" for each other.
I believe people should be happy and since you were both in love 23 years ago and that love has not gone away (why did it?) then it's unfair of both of you having an affair on your spouses and not coming clean. If you love each other that much then you should be honest to yourselves, your mates, get divorced and marry. True love (if we are lucky to get it) only comes around once. I have no idea why you didn't persue it 23 years ago. Remember, by cheating (and it is cheating) your spouses deserve more honesty and courtesy and, it appears you and your lover are very much in love. So, talk it over with your lover and then come clean with your spouses. It will hurt them, but you are hurting them worse by sneaking around. Marcy
A mistress can get over her married lover by setting boundaries, focusing on self-care and personal growth, and seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. It's important to understand and accept that the relationship was not healthy or sustainable, and to move forward with positivity and self-love.
Well just dont friet about it you will find a man of your own that you will get married to and you can get love sick over him
you should talk to the one you love and tell him how you feel. Also, tell him/her if he doesnt love his/her lover that he should talk to her/him about your relasionship with your lover. if he still loves his/ her other lover than maybe you should give him/her time to think things over.
Get over it. It is wrong, and you are just headed for trouble.
Once you get married, most likely.
you not over him go get him back if you still love him
The real question is "Do YOU love him?"