How can others tell if a couple is really happy to be married to each other and not just acting happy to give the appearance of a happy marriage and are there any give-away signs?

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Answer just look at the way they look at each other, the eyes wont lie, look at their body language, is it in contradiction to their behavior. Does their "loving" behaviour looked forced? Maybe, although you don't want to hear this, maybe its best you dont interfere, its better that they sort this out by themselves! AnswerOh no... I don't want to interfere or meddle with anyone. I am just curious if an outsider can look at married couples and sort of be able to tell who might be happy to be married to their mates and who may not be, and maybe even tell if a couple is likely to breakup. Even in a church membership, where the couples mean to stay together for the duration, some are covering up their unhappiness by putting in the act of being happy. Even so, many have split up and it is usually a surprise to everyone if no blatant behaviors have occurred. AnswerI'll say it stronger. It's none of your business. It's unchristian to look for signs of failure. Quit it. If, on the other hand, you want to help save those marriages, then look into proven church programs that strengthen Christian marriages. Excellent programs are available through every Christian denomination and sect, Work with your pastor or priest to bring those programs to your town or to your church.