What would you like to do?
He can be "fixed". I fixed mine. I agree with Lorena, he can be fixed, but not by her. First of all he has to want to be fixed. If he decides he wants to change his abusive w…ays, then he needs to get professional counseling. Either from a minister or a licensed counselor. Until he does this, try suggesting to your friend to seek counseling herself. Tell her it will help her help him. Unfortunately, he doesn't think he has a problem, while at the same time he gets more and more violent towards her. While she doesn't tell him she thinks he has a problem, she tells others that she thinks she can still fix him despite this going on for over 1 year now. My concern is that she is going to get physically hurt in her efforts to do this.
How can you convince your friend about the misunderstanding about love between him and his girlfriend?
Answer . You didn't go into much detail, but I take it you don't approve of the girl he is going with and don't feel he loves her. Although you may see things in this girl… you don't like it is really none of you business. You are a good friend to care, but your friend needs to find out what type of girl this is. That's what relationships are all about. Because you don't care for her, doesn't mean she isn't a nice girl and no one could know her better than your friend. There are things between them you will never know. You have to make sure if you are a female friend that inwardly you aren't jealous of this girl, and if you are a male friend be sure you are not jealous of losing your friend and feeling alone.\n. \nThe best thing you can do is stay out of it and let the relationship either blossom or fade.\n. \nMarcy
How can you convince a friend that her husband is an abuser when he controls all the money and she says she has to keep the peace by not talking to friends and family because it makes him angry?
Answer This woman is living the life of an abuse victim every day. If that doesn't convince her on her own, nothing else will. Abuse victims have more aga…inst them than "not seeing" the abuse. They see it. They just figure out ways to adapt and cope. Even if they do these things subconcsiously. You can't convince someone of something unless they wish to see it. You can't force her to go to therapy, or read self-help books or even to get angry and fed up. She needs to do it on her own. It's incredibly painful to witness a friend involved in an abusive relationship. I know. Just make sure she knows you're there for her when she needs you. Unfortunately that's the most you can do right now. ~ T Suggested reading for you: Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them by Dr. Susan Forward. and When Love Goes Wrong: What to Do When You Can't Do Anything Right by Ann R. Jones ~ T
That is a hard question and not the easiest thing to deal with, esspecially if your friend thinks it is their fault or that things are not that bad. Talk to them let them hear… your concerns. Be adult about it, and avoid making them feel like you are just bashing on the significant other, they can retaliate. Sometimes you can suggest that you watch a movie involving some of the things they are going through. Enough with Jennifer Lopez is a good one. That can help them see it from another persons perspective as being a bystandard and not the one with all the emotional blindness.Make sure you are also understanding, by being demanding that they listen never helps, and the more upset you get twards them the more they are going to defend the other person. Remember you can't make them, but maybe by you coming forward it will give them someone to lean on during the separation. Just to know someone is there to listen can change everything. You cant convince them. Give her Lundy Bancrofts book, "Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men." Let her read the book in peace. Dont grill her or tell her she "should" anything. Let her gather her own strength and make up her own mind. Tell her her positive qualities and encourage her to make the right decision but do NOT try and control the outcome. Shes had enough control. She will appreciate any advice from you more if you are supportive and not bossy or talking down to her. Best wishes.
Answer You have to be really serious and tell him what you think.Don't hold back in this matter. I think so too. but if that doesn't work, just kill his girlfriend…. That one will always work.
Answer I would say first ask the friend in a casual conversation her view on it. If she doesn't believe in it, look for another friend. Past experience, …be careful, you may fall for the other.
just don't!! leave her alone and let her decide when she wants to have sex with you, it's her choice not yours. you would do this if you genuinely cared for her and if you don…t, and this is all you want, end the relationship before you hurt her even more and take something special to her. she is not an object, no woman is. there are many who are willing to have sex with men easily so until you are looking to settle down i suggest you look out for those sorts instead of harassing young women like your poor, sensible girlfriend.
Just enjoy her company, be friendly and faithful. Treat her with respect and as a partner in the relationship. Words won't do it. Don't just charm her and make promises y…ou aren't willing to keep. Make sure that she knows you are happy being with her and that nothing else in the world would come close to making you as happy as she does. Make sure you are being a good boyfriend to and make sure that she knows you care and are trying.
My girlfriend is afraid i will embarrass her in front of her friends so How do i convince her she has nothing to worry about?
wel all gurls freak about guyz imbarrassing girls cause they r scared theyre freind wont approve so dont push her and once u guys r going more steedy she will feel more …confortable
you try to get proof that she's lying and then when u get it, show it 2 ur friend
well it depends if she istraditional or not. if she wants to wait to marriage then don't try to convince her. if not then try to serenade her. to do that do sweet romant…ic things if she i a romantic girl.
What should you do if youre still friends with your ex after you break up but their new girlfriend or bf convinces him or her that youre out to get their new girlfriend or bf?
Well then this person isn't the best for your ex if she has to do that to get into your ex's life. Just tell him that politely and that you just want the best for him. B…ut first, be sure that that's really what happened. M
Physically abusive? Call the cops. It is no more acceptable for a woman to beat a man then it is the other way around. Or leave her. Dont put up with that. Verbally/Mentally a…busive? Let her know how she makes you feel...ask her why she treats you like that. If she doesnt stop....again....leave her.
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It is up to you if you want to rat him out or keep him safe! i say you tell her before the same thing happens to your friend. but make sure that it true, you wouldn't want t…o make any unnecessary drama
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Try to trick him or get wasted is what i do
this cracks me up, but seriously why would she want to do that?! unless he's fit.
say you're worried, later things will get out of hand. If he doesn't accept that he has abuses his girlfriend you should probably report it.