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How can you get away from an abusive relationship if you have nowhere to turn or if you are scared for your life?
You DO have somewhere to turn. As soon as he is away from you, get to a phone and call 911. They will send the police to help you. Tell the police that you are scared for your life, and you need to get away, they WILL HELP you, I promise. Take your kids, if you have any, and get away, before he kills you. It seems hard, but I PROMISE you, you can do it, just get away, the rest will work out. You can email me any time and I will do what I can to help you realize that it is ok, and getting out of the relationship is the best thing to do.
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You can get away! Part of it is physical, getting away from your abuser...and the other part is mental. Are you convinced it is now time to go? Sometimes, we fear making the descision and escaping but if you are scared for your life (and for your children if you have any) then you MUST go. There are places to hide (women's shelters, churches, police).... You'd be surprised how people will respond....Someone will help you. Please leave NOW.
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How should you help your daughter leave a verbally abusive and controlling relationship and does this type of relationship usually turn violent towards the wife and the children?
Answer You have not mentioned if your daughter wants the help. It's important that she comes to you and ask for help. Try to find out from her if he has j…ust been verbally abused or if he has been physically abusive as well. This means pushing, shoving, slapping, kicking, throwing things at her or the children. Although very painful for you to listen too and the fear of something terrible happening to your daughter and your grandchildren, it is very important you find time to sit down with your daughter and have a heart-to-heart talk. Let her talk and you listen. If you have experienced any abuse in your life then this is the time to pull the magic out of the bag and relate this to your daughter. If not, then you must learn as much as you can about abusive relationship, the law and how best to protect her. If your daughter is agreeable and ready to leave her abusive husband, then please contact your Women's Shelters or Women's Centers. If you find them difficult to find just call your local Mental Health in your area and they will give you the phone numbers. Next, you should accompany your daughter to meet with the counsellor at the Women's Center and she will be asked questions. Women's Centers are there to protect and will lead your daughter and yourself in the right direction to get good help (also legal help.) It is very important to seek legal council and there is good help at Transition Houses for Women and Women's Centers. Your daughter and her children will be protected by these agencies. Be prepared yourself to need a little protection because if her husband flies into rages you will be the first one he will come to trying to find out where your daughter is. God Bless Marcy
It just wouldn't work out. I speak'm too good of English. Some one once told me, that you have to choose what you win or loose. They said 'you cant have everyth…ing' and told me not to love in vain, because love doesnt set you free. If you dont take chances you never have to loose... Do you know what that taught me? To live in fear. I lived my life for two years like that and all it brought me was the pain I was trying to prevent. You can stand on the sidelines and watch your life pass you by, so safe, but feeling more lonely than ever before... But one day you have to get up and realize, so what if it hurts me? So what if I break down? In life there's so many turns you can't see, but all we want is to be happy. I had to realize that I dont care about all the pain in front of me, because I just want to be happy. Dont let fear stop you from living. Look hun, pain is a part of life. The key is to understand and learn from your mistakes. So that at the end of the day you're not lonely; you've just made it easier to be happy in the furture.
I love my boyfriend but I'm moving to another state we're still keeping our relationship but when I am away I am scared he'll cheat on me what should I do?
First of all, if you are that insecure about your relationship, then it will never work long distance. If you can't be together, then maybe it's better to cut the tie and move… on. listen, I'm going through the same thing. Honestly all i can say is that do you really love him? If you do, then let the relationship flow, if it doesn't, then im really sorry, but it really wasn't ment to be. If you try and be too clingy he might cheat, but its not because he doesnt love you.. that's just guys. and feeling insecure is natural, my boyfriend is the most perfect guy ever, im his first girlfriend, he never has so much looked at another girl, and yet i still have this horrible feeling inside of me, even though i know he wont cheat, i think im just jealous that he wont be spending everyday with me. So, just keep things natural, and it should be fine.
An abusive relationship has a broad meaning, it could be physical, mental, or emotional. And it can be all three. Physical abuse is when someone hits you and it is visab…le to the eyes. Mental and emotional abuse is harder to detect and sometimes you don't even realize it until it has zapped you of you energy and your self-esteem. I have lived in an emotional and mental abusive relationship for 21 years so I know the signs. Trying to get out of such a relationship is harder because the abuser tries to make you think you are the crazy one. I have tried on a number of occasions to leave the relationship only to get sucked in by his promises of change. I hope you are not in an abusive relationship and if you are you run and never look back.
after you scary her you just chase her down, use mean look so she cant run, get her health down as low as you can without killing her, and then try to catch her
Answer Check out this website for some good information. Just click or copy and paste into your address bar. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic…_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm
Sometimes you are able to. It all depends on the relationship. I know you and your partner are deeply in love and you probably can not see yourself with out him or her. You ne…ed to sit down with your partner and decide if you both want to put in the effort, and counseling to fix your relationship. If it does not work, then no you can not fix an abusive relationship because it just is not meant to be. When you think about it, you should not try to isolate, control, or limit the one you love because that is not true love. If you have the thoughts of leaving your partner, then you should because if you were truly happy then you would not be having these thoughts. Moving on is a very hard thing, but with great friends to keep your mind off of him/her, it is possible. I experience this myself.
Answer Mental abuse is when someone is calling you names, putting you down, you can never do anything right, they constantly argue with you or they don't give you… a chance to form an opinion. Withholding sex is also mental abuse if the person is using it to get their own way. Demeaning the person constantly in front of family and friends. Interfering with your work by phoning and arguing or demanding you come home or be home at a certain time. Keeping tabs on you 24/7 or not allowing the person to see friends or go out and have a good time or not allowing the person to have some head space of their own. Basically, disrespect! Physical abuse is kicking, scratching, punching, throwing things at the person, throwing the person against the wall or on the floor, hitting the person with an object, throwing objects at the person. Causing bruising, black eyes, missing teeth or broken bones. Men are abused much more than a lot of society realizes. Most men were brought up not to hit women and most don't so some men take the abuse. There are programs out there for abused men. Just phone mental health. A man should never feel embarrassed, weak in any way for trying to get this help. If you are looking for the definition it is when you are invovled romanticly with an abusive man/woman. You should not have a relationship with these people. If they "love" you they would not do these harmful things to you.
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Yes. Ive watched several shows where it says that sharks tend to stay away from dolphins. That they are afraid of them.
No. If you are in any kind of staredown or conflict with a tiger, a human is going to lose. The tiger could pounce on you and tear you limb from limb - it has no need to b…e scared of you for any reason.
Answer: The word "ghost" is a term straight out of the pagan religions of men... and it conjures up different images in different men who believe in such things. It still han…gs on today in the form of lucrative Hollywood productions, pagan religious observances like Hallowe'en [or all-hallows-eve]... and in the hearts of men. "Ghost" is mainly a product of the belief in the false doctrine of the "immortality of the soul" foisted on mankind by Satan in the Garden of Eden ["...Ye shall NOT surely die..."]. The Bible clearly reveals that "the dead know not any thing" -- Eccle.9:5; but Satan's teaching was believed [and in some cases, preferred] above God's revelation to this day. Spooks, goblins and the "ghosts" of supposed dead people walk the earth in the hearts and minds of men... not in reality. The word "ghost" found in the KJV Bible is the result of the superstitious beliefs of the time in which it was translated. "Ghost" is not the original word inspired by God's Holy SPIRIT [sometimes translated 'Ghost' in the KJV]. Its use in the Old Testament of the "KJV" Bible is generally translated: "give up the ghost"... which really means "to exhale one's last breath" and die. The superstitious translators substituted "ghost" for "pneuma" in the New Testament, which should rightly be "Spirit" when speaking of God's Holy Spirit. [for instance, Matt.1:18 should read: '...she was found with child of the Holy SPIRIT" - not 'Ghost'] There is a "spirit realm" revealed in the Bible, however, that entails "real living spirit beings"... the created "angels of God." We are informed that "one-third" of these created beings allowed themselves to become perverted by one called Satan the Devil. Men care little about things they can't see, however, and in the course of time, "ghosts, goblins, spooks, spirits and demons" have become muddled in men's minds... and all basically fall into the categories of myth, superstition, fun, games and entertainment. The answer to the question, therefore, is that there is no such thing as a "ghost." That is... if one is thinking that "ghosts of dead men" walk the earth. So, the Bible doesn't "scare away ghosts." There are such things as "demons" or "unclean spirits" however. And the Bible doesn't scare them away, either. In some cases in fact, demons will use the Bible for their own purposes: "And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers [angels are 'ministering spirits' - Heb.1:14] also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works." (II Cor.11:14-15) Satan himself used "Bible scriptures" for his own purpose to tempt Christ: "...and saith unto Him, IF thou be the Son of God, cast thyself down: FOR IT IS WRITTEN, He shall give His angels charge concerning thee: and in their hands they shall bear thee up, lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone." (Matt.4:6; see Ps.91:11-12) The Bible isn't a book of "magic spells" that you hold out in front of you, like a "cross in a ridiculous Dracula movie." It's the Divinely revealed Word of God that's: "...profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness; that the man of God may be [become] perfect, throughly [thoroughly] furnished unto all good works." (II Tkm.16-17) The Bible isn't for "show." It's not a "talisman" to be held out in front of you to ward off evil spirits. The Words within its covers are to be EATEN! It's intended to be "read" by those with humble hearts and minds. Its Words feed and nourish such hearts and minds with God's Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding, that: "...ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the Devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." (Eph.6:11-12) The "protection" of the Bible is the "Armour of God" within the scriptures digested by the reader. Truth, Righteousness, the Gospel [good news] of Peace, Faith, Salvation -- these components of "God's Armour" aren't applied externally... but internally. If you have "ghosts"... you've been misled... and holding the Bible in front of them won't scare them away. "Seek ye out of the Book of the Lord, and read..." (Isa.34:16)... and be edified in the ways of God. This will dissipate the "ghosts"... and the internal Armour of God will help you stand against the spirit realm.
In Cat Behavior
loud noise, being thrown into a pool, and if something is charging at the cat with great speed.
Priests will bless your house. Tip: if there are demons/spirits in your home, don't talk about it because this will encourage them to stay.
What are the chances of a woman being abused all of her life and then finally being in a relationship that doesn't involve abuse but leaving him for another man who is abusive?
Answer . \nThe chances are extremely high that a woman who has been abused will by-pass good men and end up with another abusive man.\n. \nI work for an Abused Women's Cen…ter and I really could never understand this behavior in women until I talked with many abused women (of all ages.) Then I began to understand:\n. \nFor years these women were brain washed and constantly controlled into believing they were nothing .. lower than a snake's belly. They were repeatedly told they were stupid, ugly, useless, couldn't cook (even though the food was cooked just fine) and everyone thought they were stupid and ugly. Many women were mentally abused, but some were savagely beaten and that was certainly a terrible sight to see. Most of us have talked about it, heard about it, but until you visit some poor woman in a hospital with her jaw broken, both eyes blackened, teeth missing, and broken limbs the message doesn't seem clear until you have experienced this. The first feelings I had was a rage where I wanted to take the man that did this and beat him with a baseball bat, but of course we have to let the legal system do something with these misfits (and not much is done I might add.) To my surprise over 89% of women go back to the abuser or find another abusive mate.\n. \nJust like a sexually abused child they will always run to their abuser and not the person that is loving and good to them. These women also need to constantly please their abuser, but never succeed.\n. \nI began to ask questions of these women and ask why. I wasn't condeming them, but trying to find the key to stopping them from making these same mistakes over and over again and fearful that one day it could all end with their own death.\n. \nSeveral told me that they couldn't function out in the real world which they had been alienated from for so many years. They lived in fear, had few friends around (abusive men usually will keep his wife or girlfriend away from family or friends or threaten their mate with the beating of their lives if they say a word.) The constant mental abuse had taken their toll and they had a lack of confidence and truly believed all the things their abuser had said to them. Some go to court and some of these abusers do prison time, but it's not long enough and seldom does the abuser get psychological counseling to help straighten them out. \n. \nMany of these women have children and it's difficult to start out with nothing, try to pick up on their education or get a job and then they have to worry about day care and on and on it goes. Many of these women were tired years ago from the constant abuse so have little energy to go forth in life.\n. \nIf a woman has the courage to go to a Women's Center there is all sorts of help. Their is Legal Counsel, care for their children, psychological help for both, a start to finding a job, and programs to boost these women's egos so they realize they are indeed very important in life and are survivors. We call it "Empowering!" We NEVER teach these women that all men are bad, but help them be more selective and not get into the same old patterns they have lived under for so many years. Some of these women make it and come back to volunteer because they are so grateful for having a good strong life and many have met good men and settled in to a peaceful and loving lifestyle with their new mate.\n. \nIt can be done! It takes courage. Any woman that takes this much abuse is a very strong woman and obviously a survivor so all she has to do is direct that strength in a more positive fashion so she can have a good life for her and her children if she has any.\n. \nWomen aren't sitting back any longer taking this or watching other women take it, and many of us fight in different ways to protect these women. Women get right up the noses of government to make the laws stricter so these so-called abusive men (I used the term "men" lightly here) get good hard time in prison. Believe it or not child abusers and men who beat women have a very rough time in prison by other inmates. \n. \nSo, if you or any friend you know is going through this get them to a Women's Shelter and they will help out a great deal. There is always hope!\n. \nMarcy
In Animal Life
Moles may be frightened by slowly walking along the molehill they've left in the yard. Another method could be by installing small windmills near where the tunnel is locat…ed - the vibrations will scare the mole away.
The answer is quite simple as your taught it every time you go into a grade. Like school. But to state it simply. It is because other planets like Mercury,mars,venus,and s…aturn are filled with toxic gases. Uranus,Neptune,Plute, etc are to cold and have gases too. Earth has life because it has oxygen and Co2, trees and plants which put off oxygen.