How can you talk to the girl you like for the first time when you find it really hard and you can't think of the right words?

Answer 1

Just take a deep breath, think positive and try to be yourself. Find out from other people what shes intrested in and what she likes to do, then you will be ready to talk to her. You should be kind, nice, gentle, sweet and thoughtful, and not just flattering. And most important of all, talk to her like a normal person, and don't feel awkward in the heat of the moment!

Heres a quick list:

1: Be confident(Think that shes lucky that she has someone like you that is intrested in her)

2: Make her laugh! (She'll feel more comfortable being with someone who has a nice sense of humor and who makes her laugh often.)

3: Try to stay calm(dont back down just because you feel nervous)

4: Greet her by saying hello or hi(If you want to be casual, go with HEY. Once you get past that, make her laugh. Don't try too hard - just make her laugh)

5:Compliment her(Just dont say something too wierd like woah you have pretty eyes, just say nice shoes or whatever else you can think of)

6:Get to know her: (Ask about her hobbies later on but first ask about her intrests...try not to ask questions that she will probably say I dont know to)

7:Show relaxed eye contact(dont look around too much, just act normal)

8:Close the deal at the right time(When you sense that both of you are having a great time, ask for her number. A good line is "Hey, I really enjoyed talking to you; I would love to talk again. Could I have your number?" Or you can just say "Hey ____ (name there), can I have your number?" Add some of your own spice to it. Just never say- Hey beautiful, I'd like to call you up sometime, but I don't have your amazing number... Could I get it?" or anything like that unless you want to earn a nicely deserved slap across the face.