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The following applies to American culture. Unlike women, men don't usually have the luxury of waiting for the opposite sex to approach them with come-ons. Therefore, most men are forced to be the initiators of contact between the sexes. Opportunities for many men are limited, for a number of reasons (physical appearance, emotional maturity, confidence level). Therefore, whereas women may flirt just to see if they're "still attractive," most men normally don't waste their opportunities for vanity's sake. Men have definite interpersonal goals in mind, which can range from casual sex to seeking a life partner. When it comes to dealing with the opposite sex, most guys picture themselves in two categories: 1) clumsy, 2) smooth. Guys know that women want to see confidence, and so the self-image he has of himself may clash with this unnerving knowledge. Thus, we see guys who try too hard, guys who bluster and brag, guys who are totally intimidated. Experience with women (more than maturity) allows a guy to be "smooth." "Smooth" is not necessarily a bad thing, for its general definition is, "not sending the girl running in the other direction." As for flirting itself: when a guy DOES flirt, it means he has enough experience with women to have a certain level of confidence. Flirting activity can range from simple conversation to all sorts of closeness, and its meaning can be anything from friendship to marriage. If all of this sounds confusing, it is because men and women think differently. HOW GUYS FLIRT
He stares at you alot,
uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation,
he "hits" you.
He mocks you to make you laugh.He calls you cute or pretty and it makes you smile.
He worries about you and your problems along with his own.He is PROTECTIVE. He always stays close when he can.He looks STRAIGHT in your eyes. He listens to you and remembers the things you say
.He will sometimes say something to remind you you've said it in the past.He takes pictures of you even though you say you hate it.
When guys flirt they:
1. Compliment you
2. Try to make you happy
3. Smile at you sometimes
4. Look at you (IT DOESNT MATTER IF YOURE LOOKING OR NOT)
5. Act like they are only a really close friend.
It is really, really hard to tell when a guy likes you but its not impossible.

Get your friends to help you out.
Ask them for advice. Ask them if they think someone likes you.
If they think a guy likes you, ask them to help you out.
Your friend could act as a spy for you. They could watch you that guyacts around other girls.

If your friend doesnt really want to help, you can always do it yourself.
Just watch how this guy acts around you, then how he acts around other girls.
If he is calm, and cool around you, he probably likes you.

REMEMBER: If you dont have any, you should get some guy friends.
Dont tell them that you are suspicious about another guy. Build your trust with them and they will tell you if one of the guys that they are friends with likes you.
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How to flirt with a guy?

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How do you get a guy to flirt with you?

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Talk about things they like and laugh at jokes even if they are not funny do things he likes but no notes

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Why does a guy flirt with you?

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