How do you catch a cheating lover?

Answer 1

You can hire a detective for weekends only, but they don't come cheap. I tried it with my first husband and didn't get much of a report back so I became suspicious. The detective was slacking on the job and taking my money. My sister-in-law and I banned together (she thought her husband was cheating on her ... my husband and her husband were brothers) so we borrowed a friends car and we followed them! We caught both our husbands in a bar with not just one girl on each of their arms, but two girls a piece. There my sister-in-law and I were working our butts off, keeping the house clean, etc., and these two loafers were having the time of their life with other women. That was it for the both of us, and we both got separations and then divorces. Oddly enough both of these guys begged us to come back, but we kept going and never looked back and I'm so glad neither of us did. We have both since met and married wonderful men and ones we can trust. If your lover is living with you, then check out his phone #'s on his cell when he's not around, and check his wallet. Low thing to do, but hey, he's being a darn sight lower than you. You can also check out credit cards to see if there are any entries for expensive dinners, hotel or motel bills. If you aren't living together then get a good friend to help you follow him especially on the weekend.