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How do you convince your girlfriend to have sex before marriage?
You don't. You let nature take its course. You said she is your girlfriend, but not your fiance'. So maybe to her, its not serious enough to make such an intimate commitment. If you really love and care for her, don't pressure her or come online looking for some nut to give you advice on how to sleep with your own woman! Maybe she's not necessarily waiting on marriage...maybe she is trying to determine if you really love her or if its a game. Sounds more like game since you're on here asking this BS question. you cant convince a girl for sex. when she is ready she will tell you and it will just happen. you cant make her do anything she doesnt want to.
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Well, I believe in sex before marriage. One of my uncles has 2 children but he's not married.
In the Islamic religion, it is prohibited to have sex before marriage. In the Qur'an, unlawful sexual intercourse between a man and a women not married, called zina in Arabic,… is prohibited in Surah al-Isra (surah 17), verse 32, where Allah says: "And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way." Just as a side note, this isn't only the view of Islam, but the view of the one GOD. In the Old Testament of the Bible, it is said in Deuteronomy 22:22-24: "22. If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel. 23. If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her; 24. Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour's wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you." In this aspect, Islam shares the view of Judaism and Christianity in outlawing sex before marriage.
No. There are certain sexual sins that you can commit against other human beings & I don't think I need list the grotesqueries that would qualify. I assume you are a person of… legal age for sex talking about having ordinary sex with another of legal age, so you aren't going to be on that list. Most Christians believe the Bible does teach that having sex before marriage is a sin. Yes it is a sin it says in the Bible. You should open it & read it. Answer Most Christian denominations say that sex before marriage is a sin, although some denominations are stricter than others. Anecdotally. those Christians who have had sex before marriage are in the majority, so it can be beleved to be a sin that receives forgiveness. yes it is bad because in the bible it says no sex till marriage and it is a sin and you see what could happen if you are young you may use condoms but you could get pregnant hiv aids a lot of crap do you want to take the chance? :] well i think its bad but its not something you should yell and scream about. we all do sins but we can be forgiven if we just ask god to forgive us and turn away from what we were doing. I've never had sex before so i really can't tell you not to do it. I'm not your boss. but i can say that a lot of bad things could happen to you if you did have sex before you are married. its like this: you're giving your body to all these men and when you find mr.right how will he feel if you just gave all your love away to people who didn't deserve it . all i can say is sex is a special thing i lost my virginity to someone i loved and i thought he loved me buti got cheated on and i regret it and people bring things up like you'll go to hell if you have sex before your married probably isn't true God is powerful but also merciful. First off, I am a virgin! But I DO NOT think that sex before marriage is "bad". I believe it is a personal choice. Yes, the Bible says you shouldn't do it but it also says you shouldn't cuss...and how many people have you met the don't cuss AT ALL? Point is we all make mistake. God forgives. Maybe more people should wait to find Mr. Right but who says you can't find him when your in high school, and to young to marry? I have made the choice to wait, not because of anything other than the fact that I want it to be with the person I love unconditionally. things get better when done in time....before marriage its time for one to setlle ones carrier rather than thinking about sex....according to the prophet(saw) it is a sin
Roman Catholic AnswerCatholics certainly believe that sex before marriage occurs in some cases, but they certainly do not approve of it as it is contrary to God's intention fo…r our life, and it is a sin.
No, it is not allowed. It is strictly forbidden to practice sex (oral or intercourse sex) before licit marriage per Islam religion.
Buddhist believe you can have sex before marriage as long as you're in a loving and stable relationship
In general the Buddhists are realists. They know things like premarital sex, anger, theft and other unskillful events occur that are in opposition to the Eightfold Path. Howev…er such activities are not prohibited, just advised against. One's life is ono's own concern.
Christians believe that sex is something that should be saved for marriage. They believe that because... If youre having sex you must be doing "it" for a reason. The reason …is usually that you love them or have feelings for them . Am I right? Every time you have sex with someone you leave a little piece of your heart with them. Mostly because you have feelings for someone when you have sex. Your Heart is not something you can give away and just take back. Your Heart is like a glass (like a cup). You can put some milk in it and you can pour the milk out or drink it but, there will always be a little bit of milk in that cup (even if its only a drop) until you wash it out or rinse it ( which represents starting over new). You can't restart your life. Once you lose your virginity its gone forever. Don't you think you should give it to the someone you love more than anyone and who youre going to stay with for the rest of your life. If you have sex with all different people you are going to leave a little peice of your heart with each of them (the little drop of milk). Lets say you have sex with 30 men/women before you get married. That's 30 pieces of your heart that you just gave away like it was some extra change. Then in order to give your entire heart to your huband/wife. Its like he/she will have to marry everyone you had sex with. And you can do that. You wont be able to all your heart to the person you love the most because you already gave it all away. If your engaged. and you mean why cant we have sex now? Then you should wait because an engagement can be called off. After youre married, youre married. You can legally get a divorce but, you spiritually cant. You can NEVER take back those words "I DO" . You can legally not be married but, you always will be. When you say something stupid you cant rewind and fix that, So how can you rewind and take back those words. I truly hope this helped you!
That depends on your own personal choices and morals. All I can say, is that it's not wrong in the way that, say, murder is. It is really up to you. Are you READY for sex? Are… you responsible enough for sex? Will you use protection? Will you step up to the plate if you do get pregnant (or get you girl pregnant)? One reason a sex taboo has been installed in us all is that an adolescent who doesn't always understand their emotions and felings are not ready for the commitment of sex. Sex should be special, with someone special.
dont do that. let her go for it when shes ready. you dont deserve to be going with her if ur forcing her to do anything she may not want to do.
Perform oral sex on her first. Usually they will reciprocate. Perform lots of foreplay also. She can get turned on so much that she will go down on you eventually. I agree, s…ometimes the heat of passion will overwhelm her and she will do something without thinking about it or vice versa. ask?
lol my bf was pretty sly... if she is a virgin tell her you kow a way you can have sex without her losing her virginity... and then all you have to do is convince her anal doe…snt count..make sure she's as clueless as i was back in the day :P haha
I personally think you should wait until you are married. However, sex before marriage is NOT illegal in most countries. Most religions, however, consider it inappropriate to …have sexual intercourse before marriage.\n I personally think you should wait until you are married. However, sex before marriage is NOT illegal in most countries. Most religions, however, consider it inappropriate to have sexual intercourse before marriage.\n I personally think you should wait until you are married. However, sex before marriage is NOT illegal in most countries. Most religions, however, consider it inappropriate to have sexual intercourse before marriage.\n I personally think you should wait until you are married. However, sex before marriage is NOT illegal in most countries. Most religions, however, consider it inappropriate to have sexual intercourse before marriage.\n
You could ask her real nicely, set the mood by asking her when your girlfriend is there.
Ask her. If she's not comfortable with it, respect her decision and get over it. Orrr....Don't listen to what this person said at all, and keep nagging until you get what you… want....Like Try on your birthday for example. If she declines, she obviously hates you.
First 13 is to young, but I was 15. Anyway if you want to have sex with your girlfriend you must first tell her that you promise to use a condom and gain all of her trust. Swe…et talking can usually help, too. Never rush the girl because you could loose her along with many other people.
My teenage girlfriend won't tell me about what she's done sexually with her past boyfriends yet i know she hasn't had sex before but why does she keep it from me and how can i convince her to tell?
ok she wont tell u cause she may wanna keep it private. but if u tell her what u did with ur past gfs (if u have. not bein mean or anything) and then she'll prob open up to u …too. hello. I am the one who wrote the question and i have told her everything i ever had ever done. Yet she still persists to keep it hidden