How do you get a girl to like you at 13?

Answer 1

The first thing you should do is pick something you like about her and tell her you like it. Compliments are good but only one or two things more then that and its kindof creepy. The best thing to do is just take a chance just be like have you seen that new movie about...it looks really good..want to go see it with me on Friday.. whats the worst that can happen even if she does say no then at least you know she isn't interested and you can move on.

Answer 2

teext her; email her; add her on msn or facebook and talk with her; talk to her face to facee. don't be shy around her. make her laaugh. flirt with her. ask her for huugs so she gets the hint that you like her ;)

make her feel speacial; compliment her; well that's allo i got. hope things work out for you.

Answer 3

The first thing you need to know is that primarily, a 13-year-old girl would be looking at 13-year-old boys, but depending on your circumstances, you could have a chance. There is no definite way (unfortunately) to get the opposite gender to like you. All you can do is show them who you are, and see if they have interest. Besides, if worse comes to worse and she doesn't like you, you're only 12. There are plenty more fish in the sea, if you'll excuse the cliche. Preteen relationships don't usually last that long anyway, so don't feel like you're missing out if all your friends have girlfriends/boyfriends. If they give you a hard time, say something cool like 'Haven't found someone good enough yet' or 'I'm in no rush'. Or something like that. Do you know the girl well? If you do, just act natural, and talk to her a lot. Ask her things about herself. If she appears to be interested (eye contact, nervous smile, blushing), result! If she's not interested (looking away, short answers, looking pre-occupied) then sorry, but no luck. If you don't, introduce yourself, then see above. But if you're too shy to talk to her, make eye contact. No staring, just a light gaze, until she looks at you, then smile. (Just make sure its the right kind of smile) Good luck.

Answer 4

i am going to tell you something that might be hard to believe but, the truth is that you cannot ever make anyone fall in love with you. if you do sucessfully manage to make them love you, watch yourself because it will not work because firstly, you have not been honest with them about you and secondly you have not been honest with yourself, which is something you should not deprive yourself of nor others as it is not fair and is cruel to a great extent. lack of honesty can also harm you and the one/s deprived from it when you and them find out-and believe me the truth always comes out. but i strongly suggest that you be yourself, try to have some confidence as this very is important and you will realize this later on. but hey remember be calm and always wear a smile on your face, what ever happens its not the end of the world.

good luck, kid.

Answer 5

I'm 13 and guys impress me when they smile at me! Plus if they flirt with me, complement me, text me, and shows signs of liking me without saying it... Those type of things are nice to treat a girl... plus it depends on the type of guy u r and the type of girl u like. If she is out of ur league there is probably no hope:)

Answer 6

It is only natural to have some sibling tension at this age. Try just talking to her. Pay attention to the things she seems interested in, and then ask her questions about them.

Ask her to do things with you. Try relationship building by sitting down and teaching her a new board or card game. Get out the frisbee and ask her to go toss it in the yard with you.

If you are a younger sister, ask her to help you learn how to do your hair or makeup. If you are an older sister, offer to do her hair or makeup.

For brothers or sisters both, include her in decisions. Ask her for help picking out an outfit for school.

Be patient. If things are rough between you, it isn't likely to be better over night. Keep looking for ways to spend time with her and include her. Let her know you value her ideas and opinions. Ask a lot of questions so she knows you are interested in her thoughts and feelings.

Answer 7

just be ur self and she will like you:)