How can you get girls attention?

Answer 1

I'm a girl and I can tell you that we love attention. Compliment us on how we look and stuff like that. Be very sweet and kind to us. If you are trying to get a girl to like you, but she just won't budge, then you might have to move on. Maybe she'll see what she's missing? Also, show how you feel towards us! It depends. Most girls like guys who are nice and considerate and who are compassionate. They'll like a guy who will compliment them kindly without saying anything disgusting. For example, saying that her hair looks really nice today or that her eyes are really pretty. Don't stalk them and try to get them to notice you that way, because that can very easily be a huge turnoff. Offer to help her with her homework or something like that. Be as kind and gentlemanly as you can because girls like to feel when they're being appreciated by somone. This way, you will be referred to as a nice person and not someone who just tries to get any girl they can because they're deperate. Good luck and all the best.

Answer 2

Well, it really depends on your situation...

Scenario 1: You've known him forever and you're kind of friends

Option A: You need to get to know his friends and ask them if he likes you

Option B: Make a move... in gym class 'accidentally' bump into him while jogging with him, in the pool you can have a few friends and yourself start a splashie fight, at lunch explode some Gogurt or something... that will be sure to get him laughing... and liking ( <3 )

Scenario 2: You kind of know each other and you talk occasionally

Option: Try to do the same thing as Scenario 1, Option B

Option: Have a friend put in a good word for you, or try to become better friends

Scenario 3: You've never met the guy, but you like him because you think he's cute

Option: If you don't know him at all, why do you like him? You should like someone for who they are, not how they look!

Option: If you really like this guy, despite what I said, try to become his friend... if he doesn't know you, he'll never like you!

Good luck!

Answer 3

Well id like to start of by sating that I'm a girl.

and if you want a girls attention be yourself.... and as cheesy as that sound it works. and try not to be one of those guys who thinks he can get any girl, because that's a MAJOR turn off but try not to be to shy either, because then we wont notice you. but even if you dot get the girl you want now just note that for every bitch out there there's one girl that want to be loved, try to find that girl.

i agree, be yourself and don't be a jerk and soon you'll find yourself in her heart. honestly this stuffs cheesy but it works like magic

Answer 4

In general, girls are better at socialising then guys. They know how to "read' peoples' emotions better, so can kind of get the mood of the place. It isn't just girls that get more attention though. It's mainly personality types- if you are an extrovert you like being around people... they help you gain energy. If you are an introvert, you prefer some personal space to relax and "re-energise"

Some tips to win people over-

+eye contact- shows that you're interested in them and what they have to say, and proves you're honest (shifty eyes can mean you're a shifty person)

+mirroring body language- SUBTLY mirroring someone else's, posture, gestures, tone of voice and facial expression. (don't freak them out though)

+smile- makes you feel more relaxed and others will "automatically" respond to it as well

+nodding- persuades people to know that you're paying attention and value their convo. It can also encourage the other person to keep talking.

+open body language- gives people the impression that you're friendly, relaxed and easy to talk to. (dont superglue your hands to your sides or have your hands in fists, or fold your arms, because it puts a barrier between you and people leading to negative convos etc.)