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How do you get over a guy who you keep going back to when you just want to leave him behind and get on with your life?
- You can't really get over a guy who you keep going back to unless you really want to it can be so hard and seem like the most impossible thing that can be done but that is not true if he doesn't want you then he is stupid and doesn't realize how much you are worth because you are beautiful and you have a sparkling personality and if he cant see that then he is a 'pompous fool' but then again don't just blame him for not wanting you there may be so many reasons and even if it is hard to accept you could be the reason why you might have pushed him away or not shown that you like him enough he tries so hard but you push him away because you don't know what to do if you are too fast then he will think you are desperate there are so many of the'se ideas in your head and in the end you don't show the real you and the real feelings you have for him first you have to learn to love yourself and when you have done this then you can love someone else and if it doesn't work out don't just blame him or yourself think about what you did wrong and make sure you never make those same mistakes again and don't think he's the one because there are so many guys out there and the perfect one for you is out there so don't just drown in your own sorrows have fun with your friends talk about it let it out it really helps feel upset there is nothing wrong with that but don't do so forever your worth so much and this guy cannot see that so why want him forget him it may be hard but give it time it really helps and just get out there and enjoy you only live your life once so don't let one guy take that fun away from you because frankly he doesn't deserve you! PS: listening to love songs never helps, listen to girl power songs like irreplaceable and feel loads more better!
- Hang out with your friends, go to lunch, have pool parties etc. Try not to have any down time so you don't think about him. keep yourself busy. Volunteer at the library, animal shelter, senior center, get lost in a good book. I find shopping always cheers me up. You will be over him soon enough if you stay true to yourself and do not call him or see him. Another guy who is worthy of you will appear when you least expect it.
- First thing on your to do list: Make a mental note to yourself "Once a cheater always a cheater" people like that don't change unless they have an incentive to change either through something dramatic happening in their life to cause them to see the need to change their evil ways or they finally meet someone that they really do fall head over heels for and want to spend the rest of their life with. I got bad news for you dear. You are not that person. And you will never change this man. He has made it very clear by his actions.
- In fact You my dear have sent this man a very clear message by your actions. "No matter how many times he cheats or what he does to disrespect you, you will always accept him back. You by doing this are not helping this man see the need to change his evil ways therefore you are encouraging his behavior. Let him GO let him see that there is consequences to his behavior he will never see this as long as he knows he can come back crying to you. If he loves you as he says he does his ACTIONS will reflect this not his words. Just remember that by accepting him as he is you are not only keeping the standards low for yourself as a woman which is only working to HIS ADVANTAGE but you are enabling him to continue on his wayward course with no consequences for his foul behavior if you really love this man let him go, stop sleeping with him and find someone more worthy of your affections who will respect you to direct your feelings towards. Take Care of Yourself!
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If a guy doesn't want to be with you then why would he still call and keep track of who you're seeing and get mad if you go out and keep calling and is he paranoid or just controlling?
LOVE He still likes you, definatly. Answer He's likes power ... and that all there is to it.
Dump her. Let me tell you what she is doing- She dumps you then she feels soooo bad at you hurting and that you cant live without her and of course she misses you terrib…ly (sniff sniff) so then she dumps him for you and everyone (except him) is happy again. So then finds herself in the same position where he can't possibly live without her either and she misses him terribly too. Oh God such decisions to make (throws hand against her forehead like a drama queen) She is living the "drama" honey while you both pay the price. You can do better than that.
When a guy says that he just got over a relationship and will maybe go out with me some other time is he telling me to back off or just to wait?
He is bascially telling you to continue to live your life. if he ever does want to go out with you then he will approach you but if you feel comfortable enough with him …you can gently let him know that you are always here if he needs you. remenber not to be anxoius or desperate or anyone whom you think he will fall for- always be yourself!
The guy can just be a natural flirt, and still remain friends. If a guy sees you more than a friend, he would try talking to you frequently, asking you out, being with y…ou. You can always ask him or ask his friends to cut to the chase.
What should you do when you like a guy and you think he likes you back like should you ask him out or just keep liking him and living life?
If you think you want to ask him out then go for it. If he asks you then you shouldn't have a problem saying yes.
You like a guy but you dont want to like him any more every time you think you are over him you just get dragged back in what should you do?
oooh tough situation.. if u can try to think of the bad things about him.. then try not talkin to him.. try not to flirt with him.. then things should be a lil eaier to ju…ss be friends:) hope this helps
How do you get over your ex the second time who keeps picking you second to drugs steals from you and lies to you then when you leave cleans up his life and all of a sudden wants you back?
Work on you personal self esteem issues
Every human reaction is different, so the answer is wide open.
It depends on how old the kittens are. If they are walking and have their eyes open, it is because she wants them to grow up, so she's trying to get them use to life without h…er. If they are young still, it probably means she's either young and bored of sitting around with her kits or because she wants to abandon the kits, probably because there has been to much human interaction with the kits.
How do you be pretty you'll try anything you just want the guy you love to love you back he doesn't go to your school?
I have had this problem before but the way i solved it was meet him somwhere take things slow start out as a friend even if you think your in love take it easy if you are alre…ady close to this person and he dont like you impressing him with looks are somtimes the answer but some times he likes you but doesnt say a word but meet him somwhere and never tell a guy you like him he will treat you different and that will screw everything up bake him cookies and a friends forever thing ♥anonymous♥
kissin you nd shagging u or feeling u up
Why does someone keep going back to a guy they keep breaking up with over a 14 year period off and on?
The person still may love the other person who keeps breaking up with them over a 14 year period. However, it also shows the person who puts up with their mates behavior is an… enabler and should have more confidence in themselves and expect more out of the relationship. Some people just find it difficult to move on.
say that the guy has lice and chicken pox or tell her u like her
Think about it this way: one morning you go to the refrigerator and pull out the milk carton. Bleary eyed, you open it and take a sniff only to find that it is very sour. You …glance at the carton, shake your head, and put it back in the fridge, saying, "It'll be better later." No it won't. Once it has turned, it has turned. There is no turning back. This is not to say that unlike milk, people can't change. They can. However, before you let someone who has left your life, either by your decision or theirs, you need to give them ample opportunity to demonstrate that change. If it was a good enough reason to break up, it is usually a good enough reason to remain so.
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I'd put on my dancing shoes & go! If you're out of the prior relationship, then you're free & single right?