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How do you get over a guy who you keep going back to when you just want to leave him behind and get on with your life?
- You can't really get over a guy who you keep going back to unless you really want to it can be so hard and seem like the most impossible thing that can be done but that is not true if he doesn't want you then he is stupid and doesn't realize how much you are worth because you are beautiful and you have a sparkling personality and if he cant see that then he is a 'pompous fool' but then again don't just blame him for not wanting you there may be so many reasons and even if it is hard to accept you could be the reason why you might have pushed him away or not shown that you like him enough he tries so hard but you push him away because you don't know what to do if you are too fast then he will think you are desperate there are so many of the'se ideas in your head and in the end you don't show the real you and the real feelings you have for him first you have to learn to love yourself and when you have done this then you can love someone else and if it doesn't work out don't just blame him or yourself think about what you did wrong and make sure you never make those same mistakes again and don't think he's the one because there are so many guys out there and the perfect one for you is out there so don't just drown in your own sorrows have fun with your friends talk about it let it out it really helps feel upset there is nothing wrong with that but don't do so forever your worth so much and this guy cannot see that so why want him forget him it may be hard but give it time it really helps and just get out there and enjoy you only live your life once so don't let one guy take that fun away from you because frankly he doesn't deserve you! PS: listening to love songs never helps, listen to girl power songs like irreplaceable and feel loads more better!
- Hang out with your friends, go to lunch, have pool parties etc. Try not to have any down time so you don't think about him. keep yourself busy. Volunteer at the library, animal shelter, senior center, get lost in a good book. I find shopping always cheers me up. You will be over him soon enough if you stay true to yourself and do not call him or see him. Another guy who is worthy of you will appear when you least expect it.
- First thing on your to do list: Make a mental note to yourself "Once a cheater always a cheater" people like that don't change unless they have an incentive to change either through something dramatic happening in their life to cause them to see the need to change their evil ways or they finally meet someone that they really do fall head over heels for and want to spend the rest of their life with. I got bad news for you dear. You are not that person. And you will never change this man. He has made it very clear by his actions.
- In fact You my dear have sent this man a very clear message by your actions. "No matter how many times he cheats or what he does to disrespect you, you will always accept him back. You by doing this are not helping this man see the need to change his evil ways therefore you are encouraging his behavior. Let him GO let him see that there is consequences to his behavior he will never see this as long as he knows he can come back crying to you. If he loves you as he says he does his ACTIONS will reflect this not his words. Just remember that by accepting him as he is you are not only keeping the standards low for yourself as a woman which is only working to HIS ADVANTAGE but you are enabling him to continue on his wayward course with no consequences for his foul behavior if you really love this man let him go, stop sleeping with him and find someone more worthy of your affections who will respect you to direct your feelings towards. Take Care of Yourself!
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If you're in a relationship with the person then that's just to break up from you and normally they don't make any effort afterwards to stay friends. But if you asked them for… a relationship and they said that, they may not think of you that way. It's up to you but if you want more it might be too painful just to socialise. If your not really into him, and he seems to be a good friend, consider nothing happened, find another guy, there's always another one out there.:)
Why does the guy you like almost run when he sees you leaving the room and walk down the stairs right behind you and keep looking at you?
Well its most likely that he has a crush on u i guess... but what do you mean? Where does he run? If i were you, I would probably have a suspicion that he likes me. Wish u the… best :)
It depends on the person themselves. It's all those wimps who talk behind others' backs. If they did have guts, they'd say it to your face. I guess, like girls, they tal…k behind someone's back when they don't like that person or think they're weird. Other times, they'd talk about others' physical impressions (especially girls). Why do we talk behind others' backs? Because we just want to let it all out. For guys, it's probably the same as well. But I doubt that guys gossip about others as much as girls do.
Either that or he finds the topic of conversation fascinating or amusing.
Why would a married man spend lots of time with you and tell you he loves you and wants you and then just go back to his life with the wife and do men even care what they are doing to women?
Answer . Do you ever care what you are doing to the wife is the question! Cheating with a married man who has a wife and possibly children is plain wrong and I think you kn…ow that. By going with a married man you are hurting his wife and possibly childern. I can't understand why young women think they are the one and only in these men's lives and will win him over and snag him into marriage. It seldom happens. If he cheated on her, he'll soon grow tired of you and cheat on you too.. Most young women are flattered an older man may have the hots for them, but the truth of the matter is these men are always selfish and aren't thinking of your feelings one bit. If what I say isn't true, then why is he hurting his wife? Do you think she honestly deserves this treatment? Don't buy in to the garbage he may tell you about "she doesn't understand me", "she's lazy", etc., because those are usually lies and ones to win you over. What are you going to get out of this? I'll tell you ... you'll get used, you'll lose your dignity and end up looking like a fool.. If young women like you pick up these types of men and listen to the lies they are telling you then you have no one to blame but yourself. There are lots of single guys out there, so you have to ask yourself why you feel you need a married man.. If you were smart you'd dump this guy really quick!. Answer . I think most women are in this situation for material reasons. Married men already have great experience with how to treat a woman and spoil her nicely. She sees them therefore as being far better as potential suitors than all the available single guys out there because they haven't yet stood the test of marriage.. Indeed I think its very selfish for a girl to date a married man and she has but herself to blame. My guess is she's not looking for a permanent longlasting relationaship but a temporary fling she gets a kick out of. . Otherwise why else would she do that when there are a lot of single guys out there that are looking for the one true love of their lives and are willing to commit to one woman?
What does it mean when men keep leaving you and going back to their exes and is it coincidence or is it you?
Answer . \nThink about this one .... Why do you keep dating men that have an ex? Could it be that you feel safe and that you don't want to make any commitments? These are… important questions to ask yourself, because it appears that you have a difficult time with a serious relationship. By dating so many men who have ex's, you basically are letting men use you and now you're beginning to feel the pinch. Don't you think you deserve better? If you were serious you would either date a divorced or single man and not one that still runs back to his ex.\n. \nNo, it's not you. Most men with ex's go back. Sometimes a couple may feel bored in their marriage and think the grass is greener on the other side and have an affair. Once they have proven to themselves "they still have it" then reality sets in and they often realize they do love their wives.\n. \nMany people will never admit either to themselves or others that they really want stability in their lives. Having a wife and kids is a great feeling or just going through life with a steady partner, but like anything else worth having it takes work and a lot of effort to keep a married life balanced. Sometimes there are bumps in the road.. Answer . \nPeople will only do to you what you allow them to do. If a woman continually allows a man to come back to her after having left her for an ex, the man will always think that he can get away with it. I know.............but you love him. Learn to love yourself fist and you will be much happier. Good luck.
Answer . guys can be dogs.they will usually be shady towards you if they are not interested,however some guys will be nice to but still only want to be friends,if he flirt…s with you by smiling or trying to impress you with his jokes,or even hints around by asking you if your seeing anybody then hes most likely interested.make sure hes not just trying to get in your jeans though,cause guys can be sneaky.. Answer . \nIf he acts rel funny when he is around you he wants to go out with you.
Dump her. Let me tell you what she is doing- She dumps you then she feels soooo bad at you hurting and that you cant live without her and of course she misses you terrib…ly (sniff sniff) so then she dumps him for you and everyone (except him) is happy again. So then finds herself in the same position where he can't possibly live without her either and she misses him terribly too. Oh God such decisions to make (throws hand against her forehead like a drama queen) She is living the "drama" honey while you both pay the price. You can do better than that.
If you have a sore that is not healing completely, you should see your doctor. There is something that is inhibiting the healing process and it needs to be checked out.
How to tell if a guy wants you back: Will hang around the places you are at Will ask your friends about you He may phone or text you He may get a girlfriend of your…s to speak to you about him If he has not done any of the above then it's unfortunately wishful thinking on your part.
The best (but not easiest) way would be to find another guy that DOES like you back. It has been said many times, but there are plenty of fish in the sea, and you just h…ave to keep trying.
cut them off.if they are going behind your back, then they certainly arent your friend.
What does it mean when a guy pokes you on fb and then you poke him back and then he pokes you back and you poke him back and it keeps going?
i dont really know but i am trying to figure that out
Answer . you'll know when he wants you back if he's calling you asking if you got a man or he starts inviting you places trying to get you back. like sometimes they'll be l…ike what happen to us. next thing you know he'll maybe ask you out or he'll be give me another chance he'll bring up the topic when ever there's a chance. Answer . you'll know when he wants you back if he's calling you asking if you got a man or he starts inviting you places trying to get you back. like sometimes they'll be like what happen to us. next thing you know he'll maybe ask you out or he'll be give me another chance he'll bring up the topic when ever there's a chance
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What do you do if a guy you just met wants to get involved without getting over his previous love and doesn't want to spend any time away from you?
This is not a good sign. Possessiveness and control freakery are sometimes precursors of abuse. Those are all red flags and I wouldn't adventure any further. My ex boyf…riend left his previous relationship only 2-3 weeks (unknown to me) before entering into ours. He moved in with me right away and before I knew if he was becoming verbally abusive (again unknown to me) because they do it subtley. Also, after our relationship ended, he moved into another relationship within 2 weeks, they were living together by one month and married by six months...I would be things haven't changed with him. I feel sorry for her and her children. God Bless
How come a guy tries to talk about you bad or just tryin to tick you off behind your back on purpose?
It seems he may be jealous of you and possibly like you. I realize it sounds unrealtistic but it is possible or he may be just a bully and mean.
If your boyfriend turned into a total jerk and you keep taking him back after you dump him cause you love him how can you just get over him and stop this?
This will be really hard to do but you have to stop taking him back. I did it too and it wasn't because i loved him, it was because I just hated being alone and single.T…here are so many guys out there, you gotta go get one, trust me if we have the same reasons, then he can make you feel just as good.But it all depends what you think will turn out best...honestly it's your choice to do what you want and i cant tell you otherwise.My best wishes go to you.good luck.