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How do you get someone to believe that you are truly sorry?
Truly Sorry! Be specific! Explain exactly what you feel sorry about! For example, if it's a question about words you used, explain, that maybe you should have used different words. Words can hurt a lot. So, taking them back is no big deal. But, of course, all of this can also be a power play. To exert dominance over another human being, to have them be subserviant to you, often evokes subtle methods to "control that person." And, part of that control mechanism, it to make them fall into that dreadful state of mind of feeling guilty. You must exact a response to your "specific" statement of "feeling sorry" by stating that "it wasn't easy for me to say I'm sorry and that I would appreciate it if you (the other party) would recognize that fact by saying so."
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If you and the person act like bestfriends, love like a new couple, argue like a husband and wife, protect each other like brother and sister, it's simply meant to be. If they… make an effort to love you also. This is in my opinion and everyone is different. But when you're just that close... it's love.
Answer When you can never stop thinking about them and when you constantly want to be around them, when you feel like no one is around when you two are together …and when you feel safe and never have to worry about your surroundings when you are with them. :)
most times not. ANSWER: Maybe some yes, but in reality most of married men will feel sorry for what they did because they get caught. During their affair they don't feel remo…rse because they are getting what they need and at the same time some will fall in love with the mistress.
The short answer is "No". But due to their "acting abilities", they can appear very genuine in their love for someone, when the real motive is purely related to self-fulfillme…nt and indulgence. They will have no qualms to drop their "loved one" when they have had as much as they want out of the relationship. This behaviour is very much tied to the underlying characteristic of a sociopath, which "winning at all cost all the time", and doing everything required to achieve this without any regard to conscience, morals or other's feelings.
You will know by the way they treat you and the way you treat them and the feelings that fall in between. Love is recipricated differently with each individual but you wil…l definitely know. But sometimes you can never be for sure, If u have been fighting with that person then you can never know for sure. If you love that person you'll show them not just tell them Answer I think when you are younger it can be confusing sometimes but as you get older and have been in relationships you will know if you are truly in love. Love can be so complex and confusing it can be difficult to know when you truly love someone. Also, there can be many types of love on so many different levels. You can meet someone that you love but it may not be a strong enough for a long-term relationship or marriage. As you get older and have experienced a few relationships you will definitely know when you truly love someone. When you accept that person for everything that they are, and are not, it is true love - you enter the relationship without intentions of "changing" that person. You don't have a wandering eye. You can be separated for long periods of time and there is never a temptation for someone else. You can't even imagine being with someone else. You have respect for that person. You will put their happiness above your own. You will defend their reputation when others, your friends or even theirs, put them down or make negative remarks. You can truly wish the best for them and his/her happiness even if you are not together. He or she is always with you in your heart and mind. He or she makes "your life a song" as in the song "At Last" by Etta James and later done by Beyonce. You want to be a better person and you become a better person. He or she can enter a room and your heart still races. True love stands the test of time. The feelings don't fade in six months like infatuation can. When you truly love someone it never goes away unless that person does so much to damage to you no normal person could love him or her. Even on the busiest of days and on your worst days, you think of that person before you go to sleep and when you wake up. You want to share things about life that you love with that person. You want them to share things they love about life with you. You want to know what they like, what they don't like, what they love, and you want to be a part of his or her life as much as possible. You don't need to "cling" to that person - you are still an individual and you allow them to be an individual but you want to share as much as you can with that person. You may want to be selfish with them because you love them so much but you are not because you know the love is strong and the relationship is better when both people are their own person in the relationship. When you truly love someone you will know without a doubt. Time always tells for sure. If you are in doubt, give the relationship time. Give your feelings time. There is never a rush for true love. If you look too hard you will never find it - it will find you when it's meant to be so be patient. Sometimes you will know immediately and sometimes it can take a while. It's never good to rush into anything but true love will win out when it's real.
Not equipped to apologizeUnderstanding that the other person does not possess the tools to offer an apology can help you to forgive them. We all see things from our own perspe…ctive and respond based on our own past experiences. Some people are simply not capable of seeing that they have hurt another person. Forgive them for not learning this lesson earlier in their life, and wish them well. Another problem with not forgiving someone is that it gives them power over you. Think about it. You're upset, maybe even raging about what they did. Probably spending much more time and effort on it than it's worth. Point in fact, you are giving them power over you because you are choosing to devote time and effort to the problem. But... if you forgive them for what they did it's over. Now, I did not say you're supposed to forget what happened, only fools forget. Just forgive them. After all, why should you let them ruin your day any more? The bottom line to all this is that forgiveness really is a one-way street. Though it's hard to forgive someone who does not show remorse, and may not even feel remorse, it is a decision that we can make regardless. For your own health, decide to forgive them. Forgiving is unconditional. It nourishes the spirit. ANSWERi see so many people abusing other people because the other person forgives them, its not on. no-one should abuse anyone and not be sorry and be forgiven to continue to do it again sorry is something we all have to be at some point to learn true 'moral values' and people who are not sorry end up with self grandourous beliefs,narcissistic tenancies and hurt a lot of people (and i know plenty of people like this, and plenty people who got like this due to never being asked to really be sorry ) if the person did this once, forgiving them will ease your mind that's true, that is indeed a power they cant take away from you but if they do it again, that will ease nothing. and by doing it again they then are taking the power away from you the person will have some problem that is making them internally angry and taking it out on you. forgiving them every time only invites you to be hurt every time, invites them to never heal whatever problem they have and that's not helping anyone. forgiveness is something that does have to be earned sometimes you cant go about forgiving everyone for everything all the time, look at society there would be no punishment, no law, society would be pretty much anarchy. people would do what ever they want with no fear of reprisal and confrontation and those reprisals, the consequences are part of the reasons we don't all go around breaking the law willy nilly is is really fair fair that you are a good person who can be sorry when you hurt someone but be hurt by someone who doesn't care enough about you to be sorry for that?. some people do things to hurt on purpose they don't need forgiveness, they need to be taught like a child stealing another's sweet that that kind of thing is wrong, forgiveness like everything else in life has its time and place. only you will know if this person deserves your forgiveness, and only you will know if they have done or are likely to do this again, and only you can know if forgiving them will make you happy. to forgive someone who isn't sorry, although it depends on what has happened , what they did, why they did it etc, i can say when i had to forgive someone for something that ruined my life, and who wasnt sorry i found that realizing and accepting that the person wasnt really to blame was what helped heal me and helped me eventually forgive them. forgive them by realizing that really internally they have a problem that causes them to act out, that maybe it isn't their fault (if that is true, ie maybe they have a mental illness or a disability) that maybe they are doing all they can to 'fix' themselves (as long as they really are) if they accept they have a problem and ask for help its always easier to empathise and consider what they must be feeling and to forgive them New answerForgiveness is not about the other person. It is about you. The word actually means- to give for. Anytime we have an experience that we would have liked to have seen go better, we can imagine how it could be better and decide how we will respond in a similar circumstance next time. In doing this you are deciding what you intend to give for a better way. This represents a more productive use of energy. The return will be productive as well. Do not insist that the return be from any specific person, place, or thing. That will keep things the same and the whole idea is to change. As your attention is used imagining what you want rather than what you don't want, you will experience more of what you want. With your attention on changing the other person, you're missing the point.
There is no certain way to love someone, you just fall deeply and it is amazing. Some people get nervous in the pit of your stomach, and some people blush. But if you are that… sereous about them, nothing can stand in your way, but yourself. Maybe even talk to them about it? Yea?
Telling someone that you are sorry should be an easy thing to do but many people are not so good at it. Just go to that person and say, "look, I'm sorry about....." whatever i…t is. If you are uncomfortable doing that, a letter or short note works well too in breaking the ice. If that person is unaccepting of the apology, which is sometimes the case, at least you know that you tried and you did the right thing by apologizing. Also try to avoid saying Im sorry, But..... and then trying to defend yourself as some people will start an argument from that point.
If you and her are dating and inlove without any fights nor trouble or being suspecious if hes/shes cheating on you . And if you can tuley trust her/him and he/she can d…op the same ting and you guys know you love each other thats true love
a girl truly loves you when she tells you how she feels about you, but it depends. its true love when you can each imagine being in peace while holding each other.
there is never any way to be truly 100% certain, the only way you can known is if they tell you. there are signs; looks etc, but these can sometimes be misconstrued as a…ttraction, friendship, not necessarily love. all you can do is wait for them to tell you or ask them
Say it to their face - no matter how dumb or cheesey you feel! Let them know that you will always be there for them ... and that you'll never ever let them down! Tell them you… want to be with them for the rest of your life and never want to be apart! Give them the world! Let them know just how much they mean to you ... And that they're truly special ... and no-one could ever replace them in their role in your life! Not in a million years and beyond! You'll love them to the end. This may be a little over the top - so you may wish to tone this down a little - just find a way of telling them that really suits you! Good Luck!
Best clue is what he does after this.
Act really sad, cry, and maybe even make up more bad things to the story!
Answer . Everyone makes mistakes and somtimes people can say things or do things they honestly regret. The only way you can say you are sorry is to talk to the person face… to face, look them in the eye and apologize AND MEAN IT! Tell them why you did what you did and tell them you aren't using it as an excuse. The person may not accept your apology or they may and it will take sometime for you to regain their trust back.
There are at least four things that could demonstrate this. Firstly, one who is truly sorry will want to make appropriate restitution if possible. This is usually done direc…tly to the offended party. Sometimes a simple apology will suffice, but at other times some other kind of restitution would be appropriate, such as if something is broken or stolen that belonged to another. Secondly, one who is truly sorry will seriously endeavor not to repeat the offense. If they are truly sorry they will realize the offense they have caused and so not repeat it. Thirdly, and somewhat connected with the previous, is a sense of empathy with the wronged party or at least an understanding of why the other party is aggrieved. Fourthly, there ought to be a sense of humility for offending another such that being sorry is required. This will bring with it a change of heart and possibly a greater desire to put others first. Interestingly, most, if not all of these are present in the story of Zaccheus, if not directly, at least by implication. Luke 19:8-9 (King James Version) 8And Zacchaeus stood, and said unto the Lord: Behold, Lord, the half of my goods I give to the poor; and if I have taken any thing from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold. 9And Jesus said unto him, This day is salvation come to this house, forsomuch as he also is a son of Abraham.
In The Bible
Truly believing in God is when you ask God to forgive you of your sins and turn away from your sins. You recognize that He is Lord of all, and you ask Him to come into you…r heart. Beyond that, it is fully surrendering everything to Him. God will bring you joy, peace, and comfort even through the trials. God bless!