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well you really lost that relationship. he if loved you he wouldn't have left you. if a man cheats on his wife , he doesnt love her preiod. now, if hes with someone else, then that other feamale has his attraction, and until hes ready to move on from her, theres nothing you can do to redirect his attention toward you. you win some, and you lose some. and unfortunately you lost that one. but he can be replaced with a bigger and newer model. just step out of your comfort zone and explore other possibilities out there. we woman tend to want to cling on to the old tried and true methods. well the method you had didnt work, and he was true to you, he has someone else. why would you want someone whose not even thinking about you , and to top it all off, hes sleppiing with her to.

Answeri was in the same situation as you, all did was ignor him and when you do that to a boy he will see you have moved on. when a boy sees that he don't like that cause a boy likes when he haves controle over a girl that is in love with him.
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17y ago

You can't get anyone to do something they don't want to. You can't change others, only yourself. What you can do is show your affection and respect. make your intentions known and disply all the qualities in yourself worthy of love. If it's the right match, the other person will develop similar feelings.

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15y ago

You may have a good chance at getting your ex back if you follow the right steps. First, if you are calling or texting them, stop. Give them some space - at least 30 days without contact from you. It may be really hard to do this, but bugging them all the time just annoys them and drives them further away. Another good tactic is to tell them that you agree with the breakup, you understand their reasons and they are valid. Do this by letter to avoid an emotional scene.

After 30 days or so, try and get together for a casual meeting. Be thinking of what went wrong and what you could apologize for. Then give your ex a sincere apology without placing any blame on them. This clears the air and can really make your ex open up.

Also important is for you to get out and have some fun. Don't sit around and mope. Desperate, unhappy people are not attractive. As you become more like yourself, your ex may likely be attracted to you all over again.

Just take it slowly and try your hardest to be cool, not emotional.

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16y ago

I'm sorry to say that if he loves someone else then you are going to have to deal with it. 'Ex' means they are no longer with their girlfriend and he's free to choose who he wants, but then again so are you! All of us had probably had this happen at least once in our lives and NEVER let any guy control you! Start going out with friends, have a good time, and before you know it you'll meet some nice guy that you deserve. You have lots of time so don't settle for less.

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16y ago

Try talking with him and let him know how you feel and what you would like to see happen between you two. Take it slowly and remind one another what it was like in the beginning and what attracted you two in the first place. Don't try to go back into the same groove you were in try to take a new road of communication and being open minded with one another. Be willing to try new things and make things more exciting with one another.

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12y ago
  • You can't make someone love you. Unfortunately, young love is frivolous often and it can bring a lot of heartache. When one is young it is not uncommon for either the boyfriend or girlfriend to break up and date others.
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15y ago

tell him the truth about you feelings and that'll do It is probably best to just move on.

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14y ago

sorry to tell u this but if its over then ITS OVER you need to find someone new.

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9y ago

You should not be trying to do this. This will lead you to no where. You are better off without him.

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