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The easiest way to grind is butt to crotch. Just press your butt against where you think his is and move your body to the rhythm of the music. Don't press too hard on his ! Remember this is a sensitive area! You don't want him to be uncomfortable. If you feel him moving you a little it is probably because you are pressing TOO HARD. Think of it as massaging his crotch with your butt. Make sure you move with the music. If you have trouble finding the beat, then try just moving your body with his. If you are going to do this, then make sure you press up pretty hard against him, so that your movements still feel good for him. If you're good at moving to the beat and you really like the guy, then try dancing with just one of your buttcheeks pressed very firmly on his crotch. He will probably use his hands to guide your body to exactly where he wants it when he realizes what you're doing. Let him. Guys get really confused if you start doing really sexual dancing, but won't let them touch you with their hands.

If the guy turns you around and wants to dance crotch to crotch, then you can either straddle each others legs or you can dance between his legs. wrap your arms around his neck, and if staring into his eyes is too awkward for you, just rest your head on his shoulder/chest. If you're straddling each other then just think of it as rhythmic dry humping. Press your crotch against his and do whatever feels good for both of you. if you are dancing between his legs (this is usually what happens if the guy is a lot taller than the ) then press your body against his and either move your hips in circles or roll your entire torso all over him. You may even want to put your arms around his waist instead of his neck if he is significantly taller.

What to do about those hands?

If the guy touches you somewhere that you are not comfortable with, then don't hesitate to move his hands. just gently place your hand over his and slide it to a place where you are more comfortable with him touching you (like your hips). if you don't want him touching you at all, then try holding his hands (away from your body). That way you don't feel uncomfortable and he doesn't feel rejected. if the guy rests his head on your shoulder, put your hand on the back of his neck or run your fingers through his hair. if he touches you somewhere that you really enjoy, encourage him by interlocking your fingers with his or giving his hand a gentle squeeze (this lets him know its okay to give your butt or thigh or breast or wherever he has his hand a little squeeze too).

Final Advice:

Don't do it if it doesn't feel good. Don't be afraid to sweat. Don't worry about who's watching. Don't freak out if he gets an erection.

Do make sure you smell nice if you know you're going out grinding (spray perfume in your hair or on your clothing, it wont taste good on your skin if he starts kissing/sucking/nibbling your neck and shoulders). Do wear clothing that won't get in the way of your bodies being against each other (large belt buckles are a bad idea. Do try to keep your feet planted firmly on the ground.

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The easiest way is butt to crotch where the guy will start out with hands low on the hips. Usually if the girl wants to grind she'll begin in a figure eight motion to the beat of the music. Don't press to hard! If the girl begins to press up onto the guy with one buttcheeck then the guy will use his hands to guide her exactly where he wants it. If you don't feel the other person then try grinding a little harder to get them into it and make a little soft sex noise. It might help. Don't be conserned if the guy gets a boner it makes the grinding better for the girl and the guy if you work with it.

Now for the hands! A girl can just dance with her hands in the air especially if she's not very interested in the guy. If she is a little more interested then she'll put her hands over his on her hips. Now if the guy wants to feel the girl he has to slowly move his hands a few different areas. Either to her inner thigh, in her crotch, to her butt, or to her boob. If the girl wants him to touch her more, she can gently guide his hands to wear she wants them. The girl should either respond by moving his hands to a different spot or back to her hips, or leaning further into the grind if she likes it. If this happens then the guy should give a little massage to the area. The girl will really enjoy this and probably give you a better grind.

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What you do is put your bottom against his crotch and then you both move back-n-forth in close contact. He may reposition you so making it feel better for him, and the more you grind the more he will feel good. It is usually done whilst dancing to music.

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The girl sometimes pulls the guy or if the guy gets some balls he'll ask the girl and hopefully thay dont turn him down(i've never been turned down just to let you know) than she will pop her but move it around and commonly he will move his penis onto the girl's but in either a circular mothion or up and down. EASY!

Another way is if it is penis on vag he moves up and down(commonly)

Last example is if in a line of people(circular motion)

what i do is when the guy in grinding behind you just take his hands and guide them where ever you want to to be like on you butt or your boobs, hips or crotch. if you are still grinding then he likes it so move into the grind more by rubbing hard against his dick and make a little sex noise. if you have him rub something he might keep rubbing by giving a little massage. try moving towards a wall or something so you are not the center of attention and have the guy push you against the wall but keep swaying to the music. let this happen a little longer then guide his hands up you shirt alittle to either your boobs or you back. leave one of his hands on your boob and guide the other one down your pants, unless you are wearing a skirt then go up the skirt. keep swaying to the music.

then put your hands up his shirt and down his pants to his dick and give him a little something there. move to a more private place and practice other things like maybe shedding a few layers of clothing to make it more steamy. and by this time you should already be making out so just have fun with it and hopefully you end up having sex or at least oral. i hope this has helped you to know what to do when you start grinding with a someone!

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For grinding on a guy at a club/party:

The guy usually comes up behind you and will hold your hips and just start dancing. Usually I'd ask a friend to make sure I wasn't grinding on a really ugly guy and I'd recommended the same.

He will generally start the grinding but as a girl in front you have the control to grind whichever way you want and however hard etc.

*Just move your hips in circular motions to the beat of the music and make sure you and the guy you are dancing with's hips are in sync.

*In the case of front grinding, do the same

*It is better for him if you can change things up once in a while, so bend over further, put your hands up to head level, put your hands on top of his, or on his legs.

*If he keeps dancing with you, that means he likes it so you are doing it right. You can try anything and just go somewhere and practice somewhere if you are saving it for something particular.

learned from personal experience

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Grinding is basically just sex, standing up, to music. the guy stands behind the girl, and they move their hips up and down or in a circular motion. the guy usually puts his hands on her waist, and the girl flails her arms in the air. Trust me, I know from experience. :P

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dont overthink it. just move with her ass and follow her lead if you dont have any moves of your own

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You just go with the flow. Follow what she's doing when a girl is grinding on you she's leading so you follow. You'll get it

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12y ago

There are many ways to "grind." some may find grinding a certain way more pleasurable than others trying the same technique. So you should find what's more suitable for you.

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Put them on her hips

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