How do you handle your teenager getting a girl pregnant?
Support them both in any way you can. Try to remember that you're not the only one upset by this. Chances are, he is too, and he needs you to be there for him to help him through. Think about it: you've been the parent already, and he hasn't. He's not even going to know where to start. Help him and the girl in any way possible.
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But I will say this, I certainly hope you're not considering getting pregnant with the hope that you will then be able to get married. Marriage and having children is not 'kiddie play'. It's very serious business. It requires maturity, responsibility, and commitment (a *life time* of it). Anyone who… would consider bringing a child into the world just so they can get married, could very well be lacking in the 'maturity' aspect. If shes 18 or older but i would be careful if your b/f is older then 18 because he could face some prision time. If you are under 16 no there is no way you can get married without a court order and it is hard to obtain one. I am going through this with my daughter. (MORE)
Answer . \nI have been pregnant twice and the first time I knew about a week before I was due to get my period. I had this weird feeling like I was not alone anymore. (Not in some alien resurrection kind of way either). I knew I wasn't alone in a kind of soleful way. I didn't have any morning… sickness, my nipples were a little bit sore, but not anymore than right before I get my period. I had already started to get a little bit constipated too. I don't know how I knew, I just knew. I just felt it in my gut, no pun intended. (MORE)
Chances of Prenancy . She will have what is called a missed period. Where you don't get your period for that month. And if that happens then you should take a pergency test to make sure that she is pregnant.
Answer . Depends enitrely on the timing of having sex and when you are ovulating. Pharmacies sell pregnancy test kits that can tell from your urine in a couple of minutes whether or not you are pregnant. However, teens such as yourselves are quite fertile. Consider how ready you are to be parents… before continuing with sexual activity. If you are not interested in post-secondary education and he can get a good-paying job (say construction-equipment operation) and you think you can make a go of it as a family, you may wish to consider marrying in a couple of years. Teen marriages are statistically more prone to break up, but if you go in it with good plans and your heads together you can make a go of it.. Answer . \nHIGH (MORE)
you obviously need to stop asking them a lot of questions, you need to trust them more, and if they don't listen to you, then let them learn from their mistakes. If their ready, they'll talk to you and open up. Give them some space, but let them know (only once or twice so they won't get irritated) …that your there for them. The "I'm-here-for-you-i-won't-get-mad" talk won't work, trust me. Don't get into their business that much because trust me, teenagers HATES that, they'll think that your suspicious of something. My mom used to be all-over my face all the time, but now she isn't, and i learned from my mistake, i got to open up with her little by little, and that she trusts me more and i trust her more, i tell her what's going on with my life, not completely but still I'm working on it, but i know she's there for me. If the teenager is one of those who smokes and drinks and party up and got into new friends, then try asking one of his/her close friends that hates to see her/him like that to talk to her/him or a teacher that the teenager feels comfortable with and trust talk to him or her. It's not easy i know (even though IM THE TEENAGER and not THE MOTHER OR FATHER) how it feels (kind of), you worry about them, you hate them to see so depressed and alone. Try to even invite one of their close friends and get to know more of his/her friends (try not to do it in a suspicious way). Maybe for a week or two, try being his/her friend and not the mother or father, and maybe you'll learn more about him/her. Maybe he/she feels that you expects so much from him/her, try telling her/him that you don't expect and you should cut nagging them about it. (like maybe going to THIS high school when they want to go to THAT high school) no offense, but teenagers hates it when parents are trying to control their lives, (we all think this so don't hate us: "you had the choices how to live the way you want in you old days, let us live ours because we only live this days a couple of years and it's hello adulthood.) Remember: We live by choices, not by chances, so if you wanted to do something in your teenager days but didn't, it's not by chance, it's by THE choice YOU made. LOL....i actually remembered that, the phrase "we live by choices, not by chances", my sixth grade teacher taught us that, 20 ways of something of something, forgot....anyway, that's how WE feel, no offense. i really hope i helped, because its really a great feeling once you get along with your teen. I'm just some teenagers tryin' to help ;) (MORE)
It's totally a personal view. It will depend on the family. The view maybe anything from orthodox to modern.
Well, most of the time, they don't do it on purpose. Either they don't know the facts about sex and birth control, and they mistakenly believe they can't get pregnant when they can (like, they think you can't get pregnant the first 10 days after your period, for example, or they think you can't get… pregnant if the woman is on top during sex), or they just don't believe it could ever really happen to them. Or, they use condoms, but the condoms break. Or, they forget to take their birth control pills. Or, they pass out drunk at a party and get date-raped. Or they get raped some other way. And some teenage girls do get pregnant on purpose. Usually they have emotional problems, and they think that having a baby will solve these problems. Maybe they never got enough love and support from their parents, and they think that if they start a family of their own, they can replace what they never had. Or they are in love with a boy, and they think that getting pregnant will make him stay with them and get married to them. Or they simply have absolutely no idea how much work and responsibility having children is. (MORE)
Many women get bleedings during their pregnancy that is similar to menstruation so you can't rely on that to tell you if you are pregnant or not. Take a test. . Answer . Most do not, however some do. . Answer . No. Your body keeps that build up of blood in your uterus to support the embr…yo. The lining is where the egg embeds itself if it becomes fertilized. (MORE)
What you should do is confront the girl he got pregnant. Ask her what happened. Find out how long they have been seeing each other then your husband can't lie to you when you go talk to him. You know the truth. ANSWER You have some tough times coming your way. A cheating husband with a child by ano…ther woman. I do not believe that there is any reason to contact the other woman, because she is not the one that cheated on you. I do believe that you should walk away from your husband in order to get a clear mind.. ANSWER 2 You should not confront the other woman. Why would she tell you the truth? I am not sure what else you need to know. There is no question that he cheated. Take time to decide what will be best for YOU. You should not consider what will be best for the husband. Keep in mind that for the next 18 years, you will be reminded of his infidelty EVERY month when he pays child support. You will need to decide if you can stay in your present situation and not become bitter and depressed. That would make you become a different person. You can't change his behavior or the past. The only thing you have control of, would be your behavior. . ANSWER. He is your husband/partner for life. Although she was willing you're not married to her and now you should be strong and get out asap because you will never be able to trust in any part of your marriage. The cheating willl be on your mind all the time. It will consume you everyday and you will be miserable. Questioning him in every conversation because you have no idea if your getting an honest answer. Also if it works out he will probably want the child in his life and you will always be reminded of his cheating. (MORE)
I would not say Zac is getting girls pregnant but he did say he wanted a baby with Ashley Tisdeal but the HSM came and Vanessa Hudgens came and he is now dating Vanessa and is wanting to get Vanessa pregnant.
because the send too many text messages and spend their free time on social networking sites.
Teenagers mostly behave the way their parents taught them. However, teenage girls can be very emotional because that is their time to change to a woman. There is no special way to handle a teenage girl.
If you think about it theres many things you can do. Many people are against abortion but you could have one. Or if you are a teenage mum and want a baby but didn't want one at the age you are because you wanted to carry on with your education, you could have the baby and ask your mum and dad to loo…k after it until you finish your education. You could ask to see the baby when you want to make sure that she was healthy, safe and alright and you could make sure you were a big part of them growing up and you knew everything they did.. Teenage mums are very common and there's a lot of them on the internet. So you could find a good website on which teenage mums can contact each other and you can ask one of them how they got through it. And maybe you could learn from them.. Theres nothing you SHOULD do. Its up to you which method you choose to go through with. The only thing other people can do is give you their view and opinion.. Hope it helped.. x --- (MORE)
50% of course. They choose to have sex and not wearing a condom. He have to support her in her decision to keep the baby or not. If she chooses adoption he can have the option to take the baby if he wants. He will need to a job to support the child and trying to get along with the mother since they …will parent together for the rest of their lives. (MORE)
most likely the baby . if your a teen and pregnant you have to grow up alot and be alot more responsible... most likely the baby . if your a teen and pregnant you have to grow up alot and be alot more responsible..
ANSWER In general chances for pregnancy after unprotected sex are about 50%. But chances are increasing if unprotected sex happened i the middle of cycle and chances are decreasing if unprotected sex happened during not-fertile days.
Your breast and your butt and the way u use em. And your hair your height and maybe your make-up
No, the only possible way to get pregnant is if his sperm makes contact with your eggs, in the vagina.
When i take her out after a nice dinner, and shopping. We go back to my place to cuddle up to a movie and hot cocoa. My first leads to me lightly kissing her neck and whispering things in her ear she wants to hear. Once i begin playing with her breasts, she begins to massage my penis, and asks if sh…e can put it in her mouth to make it happy. After she enjoys her appetizer . I pleasure her without some oralreal sex sex. After that we decide to have sex, she prefers it without a condom since it feels better so i make her wish come true. I insert my penis into her vagina and u thrust my hips forward to meet hers , we switch positions after 10 mins as so she can ride atop me. She desides she wants to have sex from behind since she oragasms better. I ejaculate in her as she also climaxs reducing the acidity in her vagina and releasing her egg for a chance to have my sperm fertilize her egg. If successful my sperm will enter her egg, the tail will fall off my sperm once it enters and begins the pregnancy processing. (MORE)
Because it's not as unacceptable anymore. Because people are generally sexually active from a younger age now
Girls want a family as much as guys want new cars. They look very nice from the window but 9 times out of 10 when there's something that needs to be fixed it gets put off. Simply means that they want to to feel important. To much TV theses days children watch TV shows always a happy family with hap…py kids in a nice big house making a nice fat weekly check with the 2 car garage and 3 vehicles even though only 2 can drive. TV always wants to show you that no matter what happens the best will always comes out which isn't fact. They want maximum enjoyment with little work. Its only once they have a child do they realize how hard it is. They feel if they don't have the newest cars, the hottest bf/gfs, or newest phones then there not successful. They use theses things to blind themselves of reality. Look at my nice car my nice phone my nice etc.. Life must be so good for me. There young and immature. You shouldn't make any major life decisions until you are in your 30s at least then you kinda know what you want from life. (MORE)
I have a teenager who is pregnant and has done everything to move out. They have to be of legal age to move out which in most states is 18. They could become emanicated, however they must prove they can care for the themselfs and the unborn child without assistance. This must be proven in a court of… law. If she is being unruely and you can not handle her, there are programs out there to help her grow up. This way you can honestly say you have done everything you could do to get through to your child! She will be safe and learn life style changes that hopefully will teach her to be a good mom. She deserves the chance to be a mom if possible.. We have put our child in a pregnancy home for girls that need to have life styles changes. The girls can not be violent!!! These homes are small, overseen by Social Services and you are not turned away by your inability to pay. We volunteered $400 a month, we can afford that. If you can afford zero, that is fine. They get donations from churches, the federal government and other sources. The one my child is in has up to six girls, each have a private bedroom, bathroom, they go to school, church 3x week, group counceling everyday, charity work and indiviual counceling once a week. They have chores, wash their own clothes, cook for themselves or as a group. There is 24/7 supervision by experienced women. There is a security system on the building and you as the parent are in control of who they see, where they go and who they are allowed to talk to. Medicaid pays for the delivery weither you qualify or not, b/c the child is not living with you they will qualify. Adoption is not a requirement or stressed. Most moms parent their own children, my daughter is keeping her baby. We are pushing for guardianship of our grandchild, but moms have to be given a chance first. I hope she can parent her child, but we are here if she can't.. Why is my child there. She was doing everything to move out of the house! Lying to us, the police, her boyfriends parents, leaving and running away, yelling, cursing, accusing us of being bad parents and stealing. She was taking groceries out of the house b/c her boyfriends parents needed food and let them bring their clothes in to wash when we are not home and they were running all over the house. I have jewelry and cash missing too. She failed all her classes and refused to make up the grades by going to summer school. She was not gaining weight, not eatting, staying up all night, not doing chores, homework etc. Suppose to be at the doctor and then I find out she didn't go and it will be three weeks before they can work her in. Her boyfriends parents (man does not work, but draws on the family welfare benefits and lays on his behind) told her move in with them and they will get more benefits and take care of her. They promised her things will be much better with them. They are no longer allowed contact with my child. I can control this until she is 18! She hates me but she is safe and is learning the hard things in life and life style changes. TOUGH LOVE!. Folks there are answers and help! Please don't turn your back and let them run wild. That innocent baby deserves better and there is help. Search pregnancy homes or talk to your local churches. She not great but she is better than a month ago. She is in summer school recovering her credits, going to church, cleaning after herself, washing clothes, group counceling and stop fighting as much with other there. She has ran away twice and been brought back by the police. Place them far enough away where they can't walk home. She is five and half hours from my house.They can stay even after the baby is born with the baby or until 18. We will leave her there at least for six months and is currently 15 weeks pregnant or until the baby is three months old. Most moms do parent their own child and adoption is not a requirement or stressed in any pregnancy homes in the nation! (MORE)
it depends on what you believe is right for you if you want the baby to have you as a father or if you dont want to be tied down
i know a lot of teen moms and of course they have their what ifs but they never regretted their child...
she will either get an abortion or keep the baby. if she chooses to get an abortion (which im totally against of) but i think if she is still young and doesnt choose to ruin her life that will be the best option for her. if she chooses to keep it, then the best suggestion is to put the child up for …adoption. or who knows..if her parents are against both..she should choose to keep it, but ofcourse there are obstacles ahead.. . -lyndaa (MORE)
No it cannot, in fact calcium is known to help prevent serious health complications in pregnant women, so is actually good for pregnant women.
I believe it is because of parents and the opposite sex. I myself have been asked to have sex by a younger male and I'm in my teens. For females it is hard to say no when a male is pressuring you constantly. It may not even be the friends saying "OH, you should do this it will be fun." It may just b…e the fact that for a female a male is willing to have sex or for a male the female is ready to have sex. I believe it may also have to do with the parent maybe they are pressuring to hard to be a good child or they don't care. I myself say yes at 1-25 it is to young but for most younger people the number is decreasing while the older more mature people are trying to increase that number till the thirties. So what I'm trying to say is that its mostly because of the parents and the opposite sex. (MORE)
i am 18 i have a 2 yr. i dint get to live my life right , i don't regret my son but i did wish i would of waited but its also really hard ...
Both men and women can have conception problems. These do not usually become apparent until they have been trying for a baby for a couple of years. Medical investigations can find out if or what the problems are. Men, for example, can have low motility of sperm, or low sperm count.
- 60% drop out of school and only 1% of teen moms have graduated from college by the time they are 30. - you have to stay home most of the time to take care of your kid and you can barely go out with your friends again and some of them you will lose. - you have to live at home longer because f…inishing school will take longer or you will get a bad paid job. The father is also in school and can not help out that much finacially. (MORE)
The porn industry influenced a lot of teenagers thus they were impacted and caused underage sex and pregnancy.
They're getting pregnant because they're not be monitored, their parents obviously gives them "too much freedom". So, with that freedom, they get to do pratically ANYTHING they want to do with no guidance and help from others.
Raise the baby with or without the father's help Place the baby with an adoptive family .Have an abortion Apex:}
You handle with teenagers by giving them space but if that doesn't work you just try to get along with them and try to act more like their friend and if that doesn't work then just talk to them because their going through a lot so they might just not realize whats going on .
Every time you have sex there is a chance of getting pregnant. With other forms of contraception the risk is lower but there is always a chance. If 100 couples have sex without birth control over the course of a year, 85 will have a pregnancy.
Well I'm a guy... And if you think about it, probaly not. Would you want to be dogged on by someone?
Of course. Once one's body is ready to have a child, (read as: puberty) people of all races can (and do) have children. But puberty is a general idea of when you can have a child. People have had children before puberty.
Teenagers shouldn't get pregnant because the teen years are hard enough with puberty & other social experiences and problems too have too deal with a baby also. Teenagers might have the body of an adult but it doesn't mean the mind is grown up as well.
I don't think they like getting girls pregnant. They usually just lack self-control for pleasure. Girls you have to be stronger. You have the final say.
Plesae rephrase your question... Are you asking if your pregnant is it normal for you to have a heavy period?
Because they are having sex with a older guy who says he wants to ejaculate in them and that he loves them. #Some feels nobody loves them and they want a child thinking it will be someone who loves them unconditionally. # Many take birth control but not regularly or on time so it fails. # …Many many thinks "it wont happen to me" - the denial factor. # Many don't have the right knowledge - sex education. about how a body works. They think pulling out is safe for instance and that they know when they ovulate and that that is the only time they can get pregnant. Only 12% of all women ovulates on the same day each months. Another orgasm can also make you ovulate again. (MORE)
Always use protection. There are many methods and you can talk them through with your doctor. And always make him wear a condom. That is the only one that protects from diseases which can be much worse then getting pregnant.
Its not just a general question obviously the woman has to be ready and knows what she wants so you can just ask the internet that question you have to ask the girl
No, tampons do not stop a girl from getting pregnant. Tampons are amenstrualhygiene product, they are not a form of contraception.
Studies show that teenage girls get pregnant because peer pressure is being more active. If ur daughter is pregnant, it is most likely because of peer pressure. Kids saying things like, "Ur a virgin ?" or "u've never slept with anyone" makes girls want to sleep with someone....not to go around an…d tell the world but when her friend ask her those kind of questions, she can say, no I've slept with people before. Now, this is why she gets pregnant, she may ask her boyfriend or a close friend at school to sleep over one night, and the boy is either a virgin, is well trained and doesn't care, or is having to much fun and doesn't stop.....and ejaculates inside of her. Being a virgin, it takes her about ten seconds to realize what just happened and nine months later, she is a mother. """""I was a teen in that position""""""" (MORE)
Fecundity rate is higher in teenagers . Hormones running high and they fall in love. Many don't know enough about birth control or feel too embarrassed to ask. Some are convinced they will be together for life and a baby would complete their "family". There are many reasons but physically anyone …who has started ovulating can get pregnant. Even when their bodies are not enough developed for a healthy pregnancy and birth. (MORE)
I imagine the US can spend 8 billion dollars on better things than on teens who get pregnant by mistake or on purpose. It takes their teen years away and creates more poor people who don't get educated as much as they could. This can be prevented and that is why it needs attention. It also passes fr…om one generation to the next. Answer The fuss is not so much the pregnancy, but the lack of financial and emotional maturity to manage supporting and raising the child. If the teen keeps the baby, parents end up with extra responsibilities and financial drain. (MORE)
A woman of any age could get pregnant as a result of sex duringmenstruation. A woman can only get pregnant if she has sex during the fertilephase of her menstrual cycle; when she ovulates and when there isfertile cervical mucus present. Typically women will ovulate 14days before/after menstruation,… there will only be a viable eggpresent for up to 48 hours. However her body will produce mucusabout a week before ovulation that helps keep sperm alive for up to7 days. During menstruation a woman will not ovulate - the egg from theprevious cycle is long dead, and the egg from the current cycle hasyet to be released - however if she has a short menstrual cycle shemay have fertile quality cervical mucus present. Thus sperm fromsex during her period could live up to 7 days, by which time shemay ovulate. Birth control should always be used to prevent unwanted pregnancy. (MORE)
No way to tell. Depends entirely on which contraceptives you're using, how you're using them, and when/how you are having sex. And of course, if you're both fertile.
Even if you pull out, there is a chance that your pre-cum wouldhave sperm. The best idea is for you to use a condom--it is part ofthe deal when you are old enough to have sex without marriage.