How do you keep your husband around sexual?

Answer 1

I would say the best way to keep your husband around or aroused sexually is by stimulating his mind and emotions. Many women just think that the only way to keep the guy aroused or around sexually is by doing freaky or kinky or new things with the guy, but that doesn't mean anything when you and your guy aren't connected emotionally. Guys can have sex with any woman, but I would want my guy to set me apart. I would want him to be sexually and emotionally drawn to me and only me. The sex is much better and more special when your guy is connected to you on the highest level. I learned a lot. I was one of those women who was afraid to show how I felt about a guy simply because I wasn't taught that. I didn't grow up that way. I felt that showing my emotions was a sign of weakness in a woman. Warped opinion, right? Imagine letting that simple belief control your every action in a relationship. I began shielding my feelings from my guy, and my guy and I lost our emotional connection, but sex was still there. The only thing is...the sex was not as passionate as it used to be, and we had sex less, and it was not as good as it should have been. After a while, a woman and a man begin to notice things like that. I had to be the prideful one, the strong appearing one. I learned that that wasn't good. The guy wants you to show your emotions and tell him flat out how you feel. When you can be open and comfortable and be able to have fun with him, that's when that connection gets stronger. The man can want you sexually now, but imagine how explosive it would be if there was an emotional connection as well as a physical connection. That guy must be getting that happiness that he craves from the experiences he has with you, and he must know that he is making you happy as well. Anyway, I have digressed lol it's always good to spice things up in the bedroom. Try new positions, news styles of kissing, new styles of touching and arousing the senses. And please, no bringing other women into the bedroom. I haven't tried it because honestly, I'm not sharing my man with anyone! You risk your guy developing feelings for some other stranger. Total fail! Total disaster. Let that sexual bond be between only you and your husband! I've digressed again lol Add spiciness to that banging emotional connection and your man won't be able to get enough of you.