How do you know if your friend is sleeping with your husband?

Answer 1

They may be overly concerned with each others business, personal and private. They may be nervous around each other around you. You may find them together at each others houses for little or no reason at all. You husband may want to do things for her to "help her out, alot" She may know a little more then you have told her about his daily activities. You have a few choices, continue to observe and the next time all of you are together and a little hair on your neck stands up, say, you know I get a feeling that something just isn't right here, is there anything I should know. If they get really bent out of shape and each go pouncing off to different corners they might be hiding something. If they stand there calmly and ask" Whatever do you mean" and you say, well sometimes I feel out of the loop with you two and it shouldn't be like that. See where it goes. Also, there are private eyes that can help you or you can get your own survailence equipment and set it up. Are they touch, more then your other girlfriends, do they make frequent jokes, that are just between them, do they seem to make there appearances better just for when they are around each other. Only you will be able to find this out and I hope its not true for you but if it is the only thing you will loose is two, rotten, lying cheating rats that deserve to be kicked into the sewer. Your better off without them but get as much money from your soon to be ex that you can, because you deserve better.

AnswerOne good tester to find out if there is something going on is to go out one evening with them and then end up back at your place and say after a night cap that you're going to bed, any decent man will say that he is coming too and come to bed WITH YOU, not in half hour, an hour or later etc. Doesn't prove they are sleeping together, but something is definitely going on.

Answer 2

When he/she is sleeping with another person you butt! you know if they stop talking to u, compleatly ignore u no matter how much u text/call them. and if there mad at u when u did noting to them. oh and if they think ur cheating on them.

Answer 3

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By making time to talk to your spouse. What you need to do is talk to your spouse first, make sure that it's not plan so your spouse will not be making some excuse or if they are, really having an affair, they might plan on what to tell you in case you find out. Be smart than them and be sure that it will not back fire.

Answer 4

Unfortunately, if you have to ask, then you might already know that it's happening. Generally speaking, where there is smoke, there's fire.

Now, you may not know for sure unless you catch them in the act, you may be able to tell by certain behaviors of both people.

Your friend will act one of two ways, generally...she may become more interested in coming over to visit, calling you more often, wanting to go out shopping with you, buying you little presents, pointing out other men to YOU, and any other weird behavior that varies from her usually self. She may bring up your relationship with your husband more often and/or ask about your happiness...This could indicate feelings of guilt on her part.

If she is under the impression that your husband and her make a better pair, she may simply withdraw from you and stop responding to your calls or emails. She may also imply that you can do better for youself, etc. and she may try to pry further to see if you might know that something is going on. She might even turn on you completely and for no reason that you know of and that is when you know that your husband has her good and loyal to his side of the problems that may (or may not) exist in your relationship.

NOW, your husband will have his own behaviors to look out for: is he more loving and attentive than usual? Is he coming home later than normal, but seemingly still interested in relations with you? Does he seems happier in general and maybe he is buying some nicer boxers or more 'trendy' clothing, cologne? Does he ask about your friend more often, as "have your heard from _____lately?".

But, he might be acting more distant from you and hiding his cell phone, sending text messages and running to his phone when he hears a new one arrive. He might be having his bills (cell phone especially) sent to work or a friend's house. He might be taking cash out of the bank with no good explanation for where he spent the money.

Putting the two of them in the room together will speak volumes: are they uncomfortable around one another when they never used to be? Do they avoid standing close enough to one another to accidentally touch? Do they not make the usual small talk that friends and spouses would usually make with one another: i.e. "hey _____told me that you went golfing last weekend with ____" or "I hear you got a promotion! congratulations! when did you find out?" It's more what they don't say that tells you a lot...If they don't ask things, it's because they already know...

They might exchange looks that make you feel like they are having a silent conversation or maybe he invites her to the garage too look at his new workbench and comes back 5 minutes later looking flushed and going straight to the bathroom...

Or, you could JUST CONFRONT THEM- and ask them.

Answer 5

The best way to know is to hire a private investigator

Answer 6

If you ask him and he says "Yes."

Answer 7

If she acts all wierd around other guys