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Abuse is...
- Her incessant criticism about the man on a personal, such as...
Nobody but me loves you - look at you!
And other general remarks meant to hurt your feelings.
- Vicious mockery
- Emotional blackmail
- Odious lies
- Name-calling such as: "You're an idiot"
- Physical Abuse (hitting, throwing objects, stabbing, strangling, etc)
- Withholding needs (shelter, food, water, etc)
- Frequent belittling and humiliating you in front of the children, co-workers or friends.
- Peddling guilt on a CONSTANT basis.
- Damaging or blocking your career,
- False accusations to the police.
HOW DO YOU RECOGNIZE IT? When she really-really swings into action, you going to feel like she has all the power, you have no power, and you're losing your mind! You will get very upset! You will have trouble with your short term memory, you will feel like a prisoner, and you won't understand the situation you're in! This can go so far that you might start thinking that you need to get yourself checked for dementia! I was in an abusive relationship Counselling Helped but the first thing you need to do is recognise you are being abused.Its important to remember that it is the abuser that has the problem & that they are using you to express that.The Police & others often view abused Men with little tact,but this is because others can be very judgemental.It is important to work on improving your self-esteem.If you are on your own at least you will be safe & not have constant anxiety.Your abuser will try to isolate you from your friends & family,to make you more dependent on them or even manipulate you via them.Remember Blood is Thicker than Water.
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How What if your ex husband abuser get remarried and look not abuser to new wife?
Give him time. He will.
Is it possible to forgive your husband when he sexually assaulted your fourteen year old niece?
It is possible to forgive anything but that doesn't mean forgetting. I would not want a rapist / child abuser as a husband. They will only attack again. A wife of a child abuser isn't a real wife.
Is it normal for a victim who has figured out her abuser to want to scream 'You are an abuser and you need serious help' during an argument?
Not to scream it, but definitely let them know
If the father is not even living in Canada with wife and kids does he still get the custody?
As compared to what? Is the mother a child abuser? It depends on the circumstances.
How does a narissistic nental abuser twist things so people think the victim is the abuser?
They do it very skilfully. It means that they must be able to know how to put on a convincing act.
The power relationship between the abuser and the victim?
The victim has no power or they would not be abused. The abuser always has the control. Children and the elderly are victimized often in society as well as men and women. The abuser will start out by abusing psychologically and 'put down' their victim until they leave their victim confused with no self confidence. The abuser may threaten to leave their victim (this is terrifying to the elderly); leave the wife and take the children; talk of killing the victim or anyone that is close to them. The abuser often isolates their victim so their victim has no family or friends to turn too and they have to suffer in silence and depend on their abuser.
If your wife keeps yelling at you to get you do do something until you get mad and yell harsh words to get her to stop are you a abuser?
yes and no. you should tell her to stop, but kindly . but whatever reason could possibly make her push you? That's the reason she could be the abuser
What actors and actresses appeared in Women Who Kill - 1983?
The cast of Women Who Kill - 1983 includes: Brian Syron as The Wife Abuser
If you unintentionally make your spouse afraid one time during an argument Should you be labelled an abuser considering it was not intended and an Abuser knowingly repeats his Abusive ways?
Well if its UNintended, then no it doesn't make you a abuser. The abuser continues his abusive ways even after it's been brought up to him or her. Just be sure to talk to your spouse about this problem. Let them know that you are sorry for what you did and you did not mean to do it.
Was David Pelzer a child abuser?
No he is not a child abuser.
Why does a drug abuser take drugs?
Who would want to know about that? Look it up on other websites.
How do you answer a question by an abuser if you know whatever answer you give will invoke violence?
answer without bias - this will not invoke anger or answer with confusion
