How do you let someone go that isn't good for you even though you really love that person and they love you but you're not happy and you know you will never be happy with that person?

Answer 1

Think of this: everything happens for a reason. Just because you have to physically let them go, doesnt mean you have to let them go emotionally. Consider it a blessing that this person was in your life. Don't think of the bad times, think of the good times and smile. Be happy that you were able to be a part of this persons life. Offer to be their friend, and let them know that you will always be there for them if they need it. Life doesnt ever throw things your way that you cannot overcome. Some obsticles may be harder and i truly feel that if you love something enough, set it free. If it comes back it was meant to be, and if it doesnt, dont spend your life wallowing over something that wasnt meant to be. Hold your head up high. It sounds easier said than done, but trust me. It's the right thing, and everything comes in time. Don't force yourself to do something your not ready to. You will let go. See all the beautiful things in yourself, and reach for the stars Run as far away with it as you possibly can. And if you ever find yourself down, think about how far you've come and it's all because you took it and ran with it. The inly thing in this world that is going to carry you is YOU.. Maybe one day the person will open there eyes and see what they lost. If that's the story, then youre better that that. If someone really cares for you, they will be back, no matter how long it takes. This should be the perfect time for the both of you to figure out exactly what you want in life. Me and my ex fiance seemed meant to be. We were perfect for eachother. He let me go, i came back. I wish i could say the same for him. Its hard to let someone go that you want to be with, but it just won't happen. I am 21 years old. The advice im giving to you comes from the heart. Its something that took me a while to figure out on my own. Dont worry and dont be scared. Theres always someone out there going thru the same thing. One day in time, you will figure it out for yourself. You may get over it physically, but emotionally may take a while. Always listen to your heart. Its the one thing that will never fail you. If in your heart you fell its meant to be, persue it, dont be pushy, just let time take care of it. It always has a funny way of working out in your favor. Best of luck to you. Follow your heart and it will lead you to your destiny!!!

Answer 2

First, how do you know this person is not right for you? Does the person love and respect you? Is this a good person? If both answers are "yes", why do you need to let go? If other people are telling you this, examine their motives. I was told that someone was not right for me over 38 years ago. I married him anyway and he is the love of my life...my soulmate and a wonderful father to our three children. In retrospect, I would not change my decision and I am glad I followed my heart and not the opinions of others. If you must let go because the answers are "No", you should go "cold turkey" and not see or contact this person again. Involve yourself in activities where you can meet other people. You have to be available when the "right" person comes into your life.

Answer 3

In many cases a failed relationship can end just by ceasing to pursue it. If you never phone that person again, perhaps he or she won't phone you either. But if he or she does, you can at that point say, sorry, I am ending our relationship, it is not working and I am not going to spend any more time on it. I'm moving on to other things. Bye bye and have a nice life.