Leave, then empty the bank.
A compensatory narcissist would not be able to have a successful second marriage. This is because they would always be craving praise while belittling their spouse to make themselves feel better.
Everyone can have a good marriage. It depends whether or not they get married twice, I guess.
In a marriage between a young couple an work out. But both must make an effort to make it work.
Hire a hitman.
no but you work together to make it easy
Start looking for a new job.
The old saying, 'You can lead a horse to water, but not make them drink' rings true in this case. It is time for you to take control and tell your husband he either cooperates and sees a marriage counselor with you and tries to make the marriage work and if he refuses you will take it to mean he doesn't love you enough to make the marriage work and you will file for a separation or a divorce.
In my humble opinion, they have no chance of any meaningful relationship because of the inability to love. This is a very difficult combination; the borderline will have a deep fear of rejection and so does the narcissist. The Narcissist is likely to lie and cheat which compounds the Borerlines fear of rejection, the lack of empathy from the narcissist replays the early injuries to the Borderline. There is a very good book. The Narcissistic/Borderline Couple - A Psychoanalytic Perspective on marital treatment.
It is possible to show up a narcissist publicly, but if you do, the narcissist is going to be very angry at you. It is not always a wise strategy to make enemies.
No contact is the best way to part ways with a narcissist. You must remain consistent and end contact completely and forever.
You can't. If a person is a true narcissist, you can't 'make' them behave otherwise. Narcissism can only be modified by a professional and then only if the narcissist is motivated to try.
http://narcissismcured.com/Narcissism_Cured.html