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Communicating with your abuser is an art form. It is called "walking on eggshells".

If you think the relationship is getting emotionally abusive no need to talk...best to walk and do it fast.

Once the abuse begins in the cycle, it is hard to get out. The longer the cycle has been spinning the more difficult to leave.

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Break up with him, that will make him realize how serious his behaviour is. You should not be with him if he is abusive, that only encourages his behaviour. He will think, "well, she is still with me so I can't be that bad."

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What is he doing that is Abusive --- Not all Abusive behaviours necessitate breaking up a relationship.

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He will verbally abuse you by saying very hurtful things as well as play head games and constantly toy with your emotional state. It is best to get out of this relationship as soon as possible.

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Firstly you must help yourself by setting strict boundries that it is never OK to physically abuse eachother at anytime. He must attend an anger management program or class. Until that is done dont agree to spend time together.

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He would be constantly putting you down and he would never compliment you. He wouldn't respect you.

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