Hi, Spend time with your dog. Make sure she feels comfortable in her home and attached to members of the household. Here's some guidelines on how to stop your dog from going to neighbor's house: http://dogtime.com/escaping.html
You can get the male dog neutered, this should stop him from urinating in the house as much as he did.
The sound of a ringing telephone in your neighbors house from you calling them to tell them that their dog is barking and disturbing you. You can also call Animal Control if this is during the "quiet hours", perhaps after 10pm and before 6am.
Keep your dog inside the house
you would give the owner of the dog an anti stress pill or two to calm them down and then give them a bone
give it some sleeping pills and have sex with it. you'll stop fantasising about it then. you'll just be remembering.
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Buy a leash. ;)
A dog does not stop going into season no matter what age she is, unless she is spayed.
It may be scared or sick.
you take the dog outside take him outside the household.
As much as you want to spend. Why not just buy your neighbors house and move your dog in...
potty train it