How do you stop a narcissist sibling?

Answer 1

You can't stop them. The best you can do for yourself is learn how to maintain your independence from them and keep yourself out of their line of fire as much as possible.

First, you should read up on the disorder. There are dozens of good websites sponsored by well known hospitals and other respected institutions that sponsor web pages devoted to Narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. Narcissistic behavior is predictable. If you have a good understanding of narcissism you will have the tools to deal with it more constructively. Here are a few pointers:

• Keep your distance- don't get too close and do not let them into your personal life. Do not share any personal information to the extent possible.
• Be practical about the disorder- you won't change them so step back whenever their narcissistic behavior rises to the surface.
• Avoid conflict generally, but
• Define some limits- in some cases by not responding to inappropriate behavior you reinforce it- for example: if you must have continued exposure to the narcissist do not allow him/her to "tell you off", raise their voice at you, or treat you with disrespect.
• Do not try to argue or reason with them- your winning or convincing is counter to their world view- they will not allow it.
• Gain more understanding to enable you to work as constructively as possible.
• Give practical support when and if they ask for it.
• Maintain your own social contacts so that you can minimize the time you have to spend with the narcissist.
• See related links.

Answer 2

From birth there has always this thing within me, something that when I love something, my heart tends to amplify, it's a sensation that I sincerely hope everyone has had. It has awarded me with some of the most amazing people, had experiences that were life-altering. We have many firsts, but but I safeguard mine, it's viewed by my family as narcissistic. Y

You see I am gay, the type of gay who listens to classic rock,cars, and has no idea about Lady Gaga, Madonna, and the only reason I know who Bette Middler is because she dated Tim Mathason during the filming of the most important college movie ever...Animal House.

So as you can see I don't fit in most circles, I have extremely amazing friends, the kind you know. Really know. You see them for all that they are, and love them just the same. The best part is that they are seeing the same in you, and they still want to be near you.

There is nothing like wasting time with you there were there times were so animated, life was happening, and not just happening, but the kind you feel, you tell yourself "it's happening," right now life, the kind that makes your heart ache. The first time you read Gatsby, really heard music, saw your first concert, when art was everything.

You See I am billed a narcissist By my older Sister.

You see It may sound ridiculous, but I do not comprehend jealousy. I just cant feel that suffering greed within me. Recently my father showed me letters written by her in her teen years about how much she hated me, they hurt to say the least. At one point my parents had to have a meeting discussing the content.

As a gay man you learn quickly to never get got standing like a teapot, or how to check your nails, we are viewed as locusts. Doppelgängers, when the Truth is we choose to learn as much to pass as we can to avoid a beat down few of has the Patience for.

You people bore us so we pacify you. This has made my past rather quiet. I've nothing to hide, but there may be others involved. Again I am named narcissist ho do I change this impression, or am a over-itrospected narcissist?

I often feel the kindest when I avoid holidays, that if i'm said problem, I shouldn't be there. Than allI hear my family express their disappointments to my sister and cousins. In my opinion appreciation should be addressed to those who showed up.

If i'm in the wrong i'd like to know. The other problems are that i'm billed despondent or vague on purpose, as an abused child I learned to make light of tragedy, it's my defense mechanism.

So is it me?

While making this decision, my most embarrassing fact about me is that basically I'll technically still be virgin. Did I mention I'm going to be thirty? It's sad on a cracker. I just never thought what it takes, hell, I still don't. But it's cool with me.

And what I wonder most is will this go on forever?

It feels like We (my sis and I.) work so hard to show what we aren't, but secretly worry the other thinks this about us, We show our worst selves.

And as I have said I am a very private person, I suppose because puberty happened a little late, but why must people violate one small request. This is what pisses me off, "my Trigger:

" and it's like they do it on purpose. Than am I still the narcissist?