How do you talk to your girlfriend when you are on a break?
If you and your girlfriend are on a temporary break, then you need to be subtle in the way you talk to her. Speak in a calm and quiet tone, this will show that you are remorseful and reassure her at the same time that you are serious about your relationship
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Everyday things Why don't you talk to her about her fave things like her fave colorand fave shopping mall? Or what about thing happening in your lifeand ask about hers.Hope th…is helps!!! ya right that will never work SHE WILL THINK YOU ARE GAY!!!! justflirt with her tell her how pretty she is (this may sound like youare tying to get in her pants try to avoid sounding that way) orjust talk to her about every day things like random thoughts or askher how her day went AND LISTEN it always works No she will not think you are gay. You talk about her interest andthings you have in common. And if she wants to talk about a fightwith a friend or drama just listen. And Kat is right. Besides onlydumb blonds fall for that stupid "oo you're so pretty!" trick. How to talk to your girlfriend As a girl who grew up with brothers and male cousins, and who hashad several close male friends, I want to share with you guys outthere an insiders look into "How to Talk to Your Girlfriend". Iknow, it may seem sometimes like she is speaking in a completelydifferent language, one whose vocabulary consists of a lot of"feelings" and "emotions". The following guidelines, however, aregeneral relationship rules of communication that both sexes shouldfollow. 1. The "What's Wrong" trap: You fellows probably already know thisone. You ask your girlfriend, who is staring angrily at thetelevision, and not responding to your small talk, what is wrongwith her. She answers, "Nothing". I call this a trap because youcan either pretend to believe her, thus making her angrier that youare not sensing the obvious, i.e. that something IS wrong, or youcan continue to question her until she yells, "I told you itsNOTHING!" and storms out of the room in tears. So instead ofasking, "What's wrong?", ask, "How are you feeling?". The firstquestion carries an assumption that there is a problem; the secondis an invitation to discuss her feelings without a need to "fix"anything. Men tend to want to be relationship repairmen: ifsomething is broken, they want to fix it. Women, on the other hand,want to discuss the problem so they can work through itemotionally. We often feel there is no quick fix, and only want asympathetic ear. If your girlfriend looks upset/angry, don't viewthe situation as a question of right or wrong, or something thatcan be "repaired", but rather as an opportunity for her to tell youhow she is feeling free of judgment or solutions. 2. How to respond: After you have avoided the "What's Wrong" trap,and inquired how she is feeling, don't assume the response is aboutyou. The one thing worse than asking "What's wrong?" is asking"What did I do?". She may have had a bad day at work, or problemswith her friends or family, or she may just be feeling down. Ifthis is the case, just listen sympathetically. (Or pretend to besympathetic, if you are actually confused and overwhelmed). A goodresponse is, "Wow, that must have been really difficult to confronther like that", or, "It's understandable that you would be angryafter that happened". A bad response, and one that a lot of men useis, "Well, you shouldn't feel that way". This is actually one ofthe worst things you can say to your girlfriend. Even though youare trying to snap her out of it, and make her realize that she isover-reacting (at least in your opinion), she will see that as youdevaluing her emotions, which, to her, are completely valid. Thetruth is no one can tell another person how they should feel aboutany given situation, and saying this will only make her more angryand upset. By demonstrating that you give credibility to herfeelings, you can help her calm down, and build a strongerrelationship in the process.
talk about how she feels. or how her day was. or just talk about girl stuff.
My girlfriend says were on break and that she still loves me but wont stop talking to her ex What do I do?
Answer . "DROP HER LIKE A HOT PATATO"
need a better question
What should you do when your girlfriend wanted a break but when you ask her out or talk to her she doesn't want to talk to me?
When someone wants a "break" it usually indicates they are second guessing the relationship, there may be someone else, may be letting you down easy, possibly does not want a …commitment and/or more specifically a commitment with you. Also, when your on a break you usually take a break from one another which would mean that you don't talk or go out together etc. Unfortunately her specifically not wanting to speak with you at all would indicate that she is not interested in you at this time and it may be in your best interest to consider this over, let her be, let go and move on. You need to be realistic and see things for what they are.
Your ex girlfriend should have given a reason to you for breaking up and it's called 'communication.' No, you aren't wrong for talking with her for a week. Often young people …are fickle and life is an adventure and they may stray from one partner to another. Perhaps she wants to be friends and not so serious or perhaps she may be still interested in you. It would be to your best interest to be friendly with her, but start dating other girls. If you don't she could control your actions and you could miss out on a lot of fun. If she really cares about you she'll come back.
What do you do if your girlfriend wants a break and you give it to her but then she starts talking to other guys?
you wait until your old enough to date!
I heard my girlfriend talked to her friends and she said she was going to break up with me can someone tell me why she would break up with me and how to solve it I really love her?
If she's so heartless that she doesnt have the decency to tell you before everyone else then she's not worth it. Love is a two way street, there's no point hanging onto someon…e who doesnt want or deserve you. Speak to her about it and your honesty might make her change her mind but she sounds like a sneaky bint who's not worth it anyway. >.> Love doesn't really exist. Second Answer: There's no way to know why she's breaking up with you but if you really want to keep the relationship, you need to talk to her. It sounds like there's a problem with your communication since she's telling her friends important things about your relationship before discussing them with you. Talk about what's been missing for her, what you're willing to do to correct those things, and what you want from her in return. Remember: a relationship is between two people. You both need to come to the discussion as equals. You could suggest a trial period of being back together to work on the issues but have a date on which you'll decide...together...whether you'll keep going as a couple.
if he is tlking about breaking up with gf then say srry but "ur just not right for me i have other interests and ur just not one of them i hope we can be frends"
Maybe. But bear in mind, he is still with his girlfriend. So best case scenario, he breaks up with her, dates you...but then talks with some other girl about any problems you …and he are having.
When your girlfriend talks about breaking up you should be asking her why she feels she needs to end the relationship. Communication is the most important tool one can learn i…n your life. Talk to her and find out if your relationship is worth saving. If she does not give you an explanation and she talks about breaking up realize that you are in control of your own life and the best thing you could do is tell her you are tired of her threatening to break up with you so you are going to break up with her and do so. This may shock her into realizing she does really care for you or, she may never come back, but that is a risk you will have to take. It is unhealthy to stay in a relationship where one partner is unsure as to whether they love you or not.
What does it mean when a guy talks to you a lot then gets a girlfriend and stops talking to you then they break up and starts talking to you again?
Ur his second choice. Or he doesnt wan he girl he is with to thin kthst u 2 are together so he ignores you which is wrong. One day he Might see u as just a midnight booty ca…ll or a friend with benefits.
Why is it when i'm dating my girlfriend we have nothing to talk about but when we break up we have a lot to talk about?
maybe you have nothing in common.
It depends on your age. Its nice just to have someone to sit next to after age 80. Younger folks have more energy - needs.
If you are suggesting that girls who have boyfriends should be forbidden from ever talking to other males, you are far off track. But if you must break up with girlfriends b…ecause of this, then go ahead. You are doing them a service.
When you and your girlfriend talk on the phone it is really awkward and you do not want to break up with her so what should you do?
The next time you see your girlfriend be honest and tell her you are not comfortable talking on the phone (perhaps text her instead) and if she loves you she'll understand. Al…ways be honest with your feelings. . The number one thing you should do is be more confident, find more funny things to talk about, and dont worry about it. If you worry about then its just going to get worst. So taking her to a movie or a function will make it really interesting, and you can have more to talk about. But dont worry if your smart enough to ask you must really care about her.