How do you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?

Answer 1

Tell him the truth even if it means its going to hurt him. If you love him but you just got in the wrong croud tell him any way. He will want to here it from you not from some one else. It will hurt him if one of your friends tell him for you. If you can cheet then at leats br big and tell him face to face not on the phone not in a letter but (FACE to FACE) it help...... good luck because you'll need it really...

Answer 2

This depends on the type of guy your boyfriend is and what you intend to do about it. If he is the type that will go mad, then you need to take it very slow, sit him down and tell him that you have made some mistakes and you want to come clean so you can progress in the relationship. Tell him how much you love him, but you would rather not be with him but know you have been honest than stay with him knowing you have lied. Respect his response, he may not want to be with you anymore, or he may need some time. He will be upset, and you need to understand this. If he is likely to stay anyway, then just tell him what you did, and how sorry you are, try to keep calm even if he flies off the handle. well first you have sex with him to make him in a better mood to hear the bad news.then you suck his penis and swollow.then I would like to add first of all that men are just as sensitive as women,You will most probably break this guys heart and you need to imagine how you would feel if he had done the same. if my girlfriend cheated on me and told me i couldn't be with her.i love her and i know she loves me but i wouldn't be able to stand the thought of sleeping with her knowing some other guy has shared that passion with her . Knowing some other guy who doesn't give a crap about her used her for his own pleasure whilst she was enjoying it would turn me right off.i wouldn't trust her,wouldn't want to be around her and most of all wouldn't want to share any passion with her. the only way you can see how he feels is to make him go out one night and sleep with another girl just imagine him leaning over another girl sharing that passion with her. If you truly love him don't ask him to stay with you,write him a letter telling him exactly how you feel about what you have done and say you will never do it again (unless you intend to), tell him your there if he wants you back but if he doesn't then just to say.If you do want him you will wait until hes ready to see you again and not even think about anyone else.You are going to have to live with the fact that unless he does go and sleep with another girl hes never going to be able to feel even with you, once your even is when you will be able to be like you once were,if you truly love him you will understand when i say that in the letter you will tell him if he needs to sleep with someone else to feel even then you will still be there for him once hes done.So if he does cheat on you,then you cannot feel angry,or upset as he is only doing what you have done to him. sorry to be harsh but this is truth and im not going to mask it by saying things will be alright and he will understand just like that. you will have to make it up to him, and don't be shocked if you get hurt back, you have done this to yourself.

Answer 3

Your best bet is to not tell her. If you have to though then your best bet is to go to a place that you have control of, you are alone, and there are no weapons around. Be blunt, let her know what you did, why you did it, and your future intentions. She might leave, cry, or tell you that she cheated on you. Remember at this point you are telling her something you did in sorrow and whatever happens you cheated and that's why youre there.

Answer 4

NO easy way of doing it. Just come out and say it and see what he says. -If you know it was a mistake and you will not do it again then don't say anything, but if you cheat again, break up with him because obviously there is somehing wrong with the relationship and it is not fair to him.

Answer 5

You should be fair to your boyfriend and break up with him. Let him know you still have feelings for your ex, and that it's not fair to him to stay in a relationship where you have these feelings.

Answer 6

You just tell him. Ask him why he doesn't believe you; unless he has solid proof, then he simply doesn't trust you enough, and you should tell him this. After that, it is a personal issue between the two of you.

Answer 7

Be straight forward, honest and polite - you just have to tell him.

Answer 8

If it's your ex why even tell them...i mean i guess if it makes you feel better. But i really don't see the point, you would just be hurting them.