How does a married man live with himself if he is cheating on his wife?

Answer 1

Stop the cheating! It seems in todays society few people really try to work out problems in their married lives. No one every said life was a rose garden. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. When things come too easy we often don't appreciate them.

It takes a man to want to reason out with his wife what the problems are in their marriage. Did a man ever think perhaps the wife is pretty fed-up too? It's so easy to walk away from hard things in our lives, but marriage should never be one of them especially if children are involved.

So many couples just think about their own individual feelings and not the feelings of their partners and most of all if they have children. Children wound very easily their parents don't get along.

I find often the children are wise and the parents immature. It takes guts to be married and keep it working. By cheating on your wife all you are doing is cheating on yourself. The other woman usually isn't everything she's cracked up to be and often married men will realize too late just what they have lost. If you cheat, get caught then your wife will leave! She too can find another man that will treat her the way she should be treated.

Quit cheating, grow up and start talking with your wife. Perhaps take a vacation together (without kids) and try to get to know each other again. Sometimes we not only lose sight of who we are, but also who our partners are.

If you leave all you are doing is taking that garbage tied to your butt along with you and you're going to be one lonely guy!

ANSWER:

How does he felt, no guilt and he said he doesn't have the hope anymore so being with this other woman was fine with him. Did he felt guilty the first time they slept together, he told me he did but not strong enough to stop. He even said that both of them prayed to God for what they did. From the man I married, his conclusion of guilt after the first timewas to have another sex with her so from there, what he did was justify.

Answer also: He can easily live with himself if others involved allow him to be an ADULTERER. Adulterers break the solemn that they made to their spouse at the time of their marriage. It is also a sin against God and a destestable thing in God's eyes. In ancient Israel the penalty for it was death. In God's eyes marriage is a sacred lifelong bond. It's such a disgrace nowadays when people view the marriage bond so lightly. Move on from a loser, adulterer who wants a wife at home and his other woman on the side.