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How does a narcissist behave in court when they owe you money?
Children are a reflection of the narcissist.. They, like you, are property. Possessions. They are moved around like the furniture. Will they be involved with their k…ids? No. They are too irresponsible/immature to be good Fathers. Don't set good examples for their kids, at all. Can't be bothered with the day to day child rearing required in raising children. Usually let the Mom get stuck with it. When the kids are good.. the narcissist will take all the credit. Bad? He doesn't know you.
Dissecting the motivations of a pathological partner is an exercise in futility and one of the reasons you were involved in a toxic union to begin with. Basically, we try to p…roject rational thought and sift through crumbs of our experience with them for signs of their humanity. We want to matter, feel valued, feel affirmation or love from a disordered individual incapable of it. They just can't. It's like trying to ask someone without a functioning spine to run a marathon with you without a wheelchair. It's natural and understandable to ask. Asking is what makes you a loving, compassionate person to yourself and others. You want to learn and heal because you are motivated by altruism and fulfilling human connection. Commendable qualities that will serve you well moving on. A narcissist has unchangable, abusive ideas of reference and justifications for their behaviors that kick in as soon as their worldview is required to empathize with others. Therefore, they are transitorily aware of their behavior, but able to dismiss it quickly as an alloplastic defense to protect their false self. To be discounted and discarded by a narcissist is a blessing. Self abuse that lingers in asking why is one of the reasons healing from the pathological union is so difficult. You've assumed their worlview, seen and felt yourself a recepticle for their shame and self-hatred almost frozen from the ability to move on, feel joy, self-esteem or a sense of goodness and trust in community. So, yes their predation of your essence is natural for them; but more importantly is profoundly unnatural for you. It can't be changed. No amount of love or perfection in you will ever compensate for it. The relational harm to your psyche, your heart, your spirit, friends and family, your job and finances will only accmulate in tme. That's what pathology does to a non-disordered person. Folie-a-deux or the alligator death roll - it is what it is. I'm sorry for your pain. I know some people who lose themselves in every recognizable way staying in it and trying to manage the severity of the harmful behavior impact, but they live a quarter life in fantasy, develop stress disorders, suffer miscarriages, addictions, depression... On and on. Every partner he has suffers. He feels something like fleeting attachment without loyalty, but he cannot love. He can parrot expressions and mannerisms of it, but he does not feel the way you and I may understand feeling. Think of it as an "urge" with a lack of impulse control where you and I may be motivated by care for another or a spirit of mutualtity. It's difficult to grasp and explain, but just know the less exposure you have the better you will live and the less you will suffer. Focus on you and your life and motivations. Find your joy. Remember, with a narcissist it not what it appears to be. The actions are reality, the words are superficial instruments to trap you. Your confusion and your pain is real and trying to lead you to a better life. Fly with your inner angels and trust yourself.
YES & NO. Depends where you 'sit' with the Narcissist. If you are Supply, and you like nice things, dinners out etc, then they are very, VERY generous. ie If the Narcissist in… your life is your boss, they will advise you how you can claim expenses, pay for your lunch etc. If they are your lover, they will buy you flowers, treat you to a surprise gift, support your choice of home to 'jointly own'. I they are a parent, they will buy you your entire Xmas list, spoil your children, and your spouse/partner, treat you. In the early stages, it will be to impress YOU. Later, it will be done to impress your family / colleagues / friends. The overwhelming reason is to make themselves - not you - feel superior. HOWEVER... If you are no longer in favor (for reasons they have said or ones you have absolutely no idea about, but to them there is justification for discarding / mistreating you), they will ENSURE you get the reverse of their prior treatment. i To summarize, the early stages nothing is too much. The latter stages they will ensure not only do you miss out on their prior generosity, but moreso, you haven't appreciated his supremacy, SO YOU MUST SUFFER. Trouble is, you wont realize whats going on in the early stages, it's just the latter stage that gives you your wake up call. Its all part of the 'Idealize, devalue & discard' cycle.
Sometimes. They take what they want - money, sex, time, energy, resources.... They sure do....
Yes. But do they have anything on paper to prove that you owe the money? If not, then smile & walk away; if it's in writting, then OOPS... ya' gotta pay.
Yes. They acually don't have an acuall life that they can ever make money out of their own work. They need money as supply for power. Be carefull living with them because even… if you have feelings for them as a human being ; all they care about is your money and attention. Just run away asap
yes you do, but maybe the heirs will forgive the loan that was made.
Yes! Don't you watch Judge Judy? That's what Courts are for. "Don't take the Law into your own hands, take them to Court".
Answer The best option when filing a petition for the dissolution of marriage is to adhere to the factors as outlined in the state laws governing divorce (…adultry, abuse, etc.) Other matters should only be broached if the divorce is contested on custodial, property division issues and so forth
Can the court take your income tax refund for money owed on a repo and do they base the payments on income amount or do they get it in large amounts?
They WANT it in as large of amounts as possible but they take what they can get. wage garnishemnt can only take 25% of your DISPOSABLE income. You should get a notice telling …you what they can and cant do.
In Texas can a mechanic who claims you owe him money have a recovery agency repo your car without first filing a mechanics lien through the court?
"WHO CLAIMS YOU STILL OWE HIM MONEY"???IF you don't owe him money, CALL an ATTORNEY asap. That's simple. IF you DO owe him money, paying it is the cheapest way to get your car… back. MERRY CHRISTMAS
Answer I believe what is meant in which court should a lawsuit be filed, as that is the procedure for procuring a judgment award against a debtor. … The best option for a person who is going to represent themselves (Pro Se) would be small claims court in the city or county where the debtor resides. Lawsuits for debt that exceeds the maximum allowed in small claims are filed in the state circuit court of the debtor's city or county of residence.
If a verbal agreement was made to repay money owed to someone can they use an email stating the agreement in court?
Answer A contract is binding, whether written or verbal. The advantage to having something in writing is that you have proof. But if a case can be reasonably p…roven, a verbal contract can be upheld in court.
My ex husband placed property in his girlfriend's name. Can I place a lien on that property for money he owes me pursuant to a court order?
You need an attorney to give an accurate and well informed determination on this matter. You cannot place a lien on any property without a court order to that effect.… If your husband has refused to pay money that was ordered as part of a divorce action then you need to return to that court and file a motion for contempt of the court order. You can request that the court issue a judgment lien that you can record in the land records. As part of your motion you can inform the court that he has arranged to hold title to his property in another person's name to avoid you as his creditor. The court may allow you to attach that property. You should call the attorney who represented you in the divorce. They are familiar with your case, familiar with the court and know the steps you need to take to get your money.
to get what they need and finish the job they have started like burn down a building or something...