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How long does an abuser stay away without ending a relationship?
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How do you know if an abuser is sincere about changing their ways?
He/she probably is, but is it possible? Most people who become physically abusive are unable to manage their anger and if they successfully suppress it for a while, it will just make the next event more explosive. You may think that you love your abuser and you may think that he/she loves you. But the simple fact is, NOBODY who truly loves someone would ever want to bring harm. In general, the more the abuser tries to suppress his/her behavior, the more likely it is that there will be enough anger in the NEXT event that it could cause serious harm or even death. Leave the relationship now. Get away to a safe place and if you still want to pursue the relationship demand that your abuser seek counseling. You can even attend the session if the counselor thinks it's a good idea. But never be alone with your abuser until/unless the counselor thinks it's safe. Without therapy, abusive events only get worse, they never get better. Most cities have women's shelters where you can go to get away from your abuser. If you're female, go there and stay for a while. Talk to other victims and some of the counselors. Getting away from the problem and in touch with others who have been through it can help you gain perspective. You cannot change your abuser so save yourself.
Will my boyfriend be an abuser if he yells at his mom?
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
Can you leave the country to get away from your abuser with your child?
Yes its very legal some of my friends and there mums have ran away
How can I put away your abuser for life?
YouÊ may not be able to put your abuser away for life.Ê You do need to protecct yourself and file the appropiate police reports, to be sure that charges are being filed and he or she can face prosecution for the acts of abuse.
How would abuser react to you dumping him after he lied about having a heart attack?
He'll react like the abuser he is. You've allowed his abusive behavior on you, and he'll respond to you as he always does. Do you think that by leaving him that he'll just goes away? You're whistling in the dark. The only way to dump him is to put a barrier between the two of you - a person or distance. WHY CARE the key thing is an abuser... do you really want that type of a relationship? gotta take care of your self first.
Type of relationship that can become abusive?
I am sure there are lots of ways a normal relationship can become abusive but there is one that sticks in my mind: A serious relationship. It is because if you are mainly the girl in a relationship (it is mostly the girl playing the victim and the guy playing the abuser) you are more into love than he is so therefore you push yourself into that serious relationship. As he knows you pushed yourself into the relationship he thinks he can control you now and since he knows it is serious he thinks that you won't run away because you love him.
Can an abuser easily forget his ex girlfriend who broke up with him?
Once the abuser realizes he does not have control of her, eventually he will give up and move on. Sounds to me as if he needs to seek help. Stay away from him. Don't answer phone calls. If he keeps bothering you, press charges against him. But no, the abuser will not "easily forget" about the ex-girlfriend.
How can a man walk away from a 2 year relationship without any explantion?
the only way is that he had no feelings in the first place.
How could you resolve domestic violence?
An abuser needs to take a walk around the block before becoming abusive. If the abuse happens twice, the abused partner needs to take a walk away from the relationship. It's better to leave the cops out of it. Take a walk instead.
What is a diminishing relationship?
a diminishing relationship is a relationship that is fading away slowly....
Is assault common after the abuser probabtion ends?
If you ask this question, its because you are worried, if you are worried, its because you KNOW its going to happen again. GET AWAY from the ABUSER, is the ONLY answer, go find yourself a GREAT guy that would NEVER hit you.
If your cousin is in an abusive relationship how can you get her to stand up for herself or get out you of the relationship?
Don't think of your cousin as weak, for she isn't. It's far more complicated as you know and the justice system hardly protects women at the best of times. Unless she has come to grips in herself that she needs to get away from her abuser there is nothing you can do. It's like an alcoholic admitting they are one before they can receive help. If she has been thinking of ways to get away from her abuser, there are "Abused Women's Centers" in your town. Phone these Centers and get some information and pamphlets from them and when you are alone with your cousin let her read them and see if she is interested. If she isn't then back-off. She just isn't ready. I know you can hardly believe she is putting up with type of life, but the abuser has the victim so confused they don't know if they are coming or going. The abuser also does a good job of taking the victim's self confidence away and that is what is lacking in your cousin. There could also be physical threats and some abusers will even threaten to harm the family of the abused. Go on www.google.com TYPE IN: Abused Women Learn about it and just see how difficult it is for your cousin before you go barging in and adding more fuel to the fire. You are a good cousin, and I would be concerned too, but learn about it, talk to your cousin when her abuser is not around and go from there. If she doesn't want the help then walk away. Good luck Marcy
