How should you tell your 19-year-old boyfriend that you're pregnant if you're 14.?
I think that you should just try to explain to him what the situation is and then ask him what he wants to do that way your not alone through the whole process just tell him yeah it will be hard . im 14 and 6 month's pregnate and i used a condum every time but one time i was on my period and the condum busted Answer First thing you should do is tell your parents or a friend they may be able to help you more than he can. Make sure it was him that got you pregnant. Is there any possibility it was someone else? Tell him when you are both alone, be very calm and just explain to him what happened. If he doesnt understand or gets upset, let him go. He's probably just as scared as you. You also need to be prepared. He may say he hates you and he wants no part in it, or he may be very understanding and want to support you. Dont have high expectations. Once you've told him, it's up to him to make the next move. Good luck You should realize that he will in 85% of the situations bail. Also you should realize that at 14 you never should have had sex in the first place. Also, it is possible because of the age difference that he may be prosecuted should your parents choose to press charges.
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Answer . \nI found out 13 dpo with a faint pos. hpt. First response early detection test.It is diff. for every women though.
Well I thought I would just offer my experience in having your period while pregnant. First of all it is possible I had my full period for the first 4 months of my pregnancy. When I went to the doctor when i finally stopped she informed me I was 5 months which the ultrasound confirmed. The ironic pa…rt was I can taken a pregnancy test at home and by the clinic which both came back negative when I was 3 months.There for I didnt think I was pregnant what a shock to find out you are 5 months. I was informed by my OB that is not common but not unheard of, My body doesnt produced enough of the hormone that tells women they are pregnant. So a ultra sound is the only way for me. Anyway I have a beautiful 2 year old boy. Who is just full of it. (MORE)
Answer . No. Being pregnant/having a child does not emancipate a person. Until the age of 18, one is a minor and their parents have the authority to decide where the minor can/can't live. If you leave home without your parents' permission, then you are considered to be a runaway and your paren…ts can have you picked up by the authorities and returned home. Under Michigan law, your boyfriend could be, and likely would be, charged with harboring a runaway (punishable by up to 1 year in jail), and possibly other charges as well along the lines of interference with child custody. \n. \n. \nMichigan does allow persons 16 and older to petition the court for emancipation. In order for emancipation to be granted you would have to prove, among other things, that you are capable of fully supporting yourself and your child (rent, utilities, food, etc) *without any assistance* (note: they would likely consider child support to be legitimate income and not a form of assistance). Although Michigan statue does not state so, most judges would also require that you remain in school. Your parents would be notified of the hearing and they would be allowed to contest the emancipation. You would have to prove to the court that it's truly in your best interest to live on your own. That's not always an easy thing to do, and you would have to have legitimate, valid reasons. Just not getting along with your parents or wanting more freedom is not going to be enough. Please note that the purpose of emancipation is to allow a mature teenager to live *on their own* No judge is going to emancipate a teenager for the purpose of living with her boyfriend. \n. \n. \nWith all that said, here's a link to emancipation info for the state of Michigan:\nhttp://www.bostoncoop.net/lcd/emancipation/michigan.html (MORE)
saying i love u may be the hardest word to say to a person. Just becasue of the fear of how they would react. the easiest way i can think of telling them is when you two go on your next date look him in the eyes and tell him how you truly feel...i know it is hard to say but if you can do this he wil…l see how much u care and say the same thing back to u. (MORE)
I think you should jus tell your'e parents & if you really love him nothing & nobody should put you guys apart(: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/User:Prof_Irwin_Corey 19:49, 5 Sep 2009 (UTC)~~ A 19-year old man who gets a 15-year old girl pregnant is bad news. Forget the statutory rape for which he is …liable, the 15-year old is not ready to be a mother. Talk to your doctor, your parents or someone whom you trust about this. This is NOT a good situation, and you are far too young to even THINK about being a mother. Yes...If your boyfriend is 19 years old and got you pregnant he doesn't seem responsible or caring. You are PREGNANT. You have much more important things to worry about than breaking the news when your dad hates the loser, sounds like he has good reason. And I'm pretty sure that if he even did like the guy then that would soon change -------------- well i had my baby girl when i was young (I'm putting young because i don't want everyone who looks at this page to know, lol), and now I'm 18. if your partner and you are solid then that's great - it's only when your relationship is a bit rocky, trouble happens. having a baby at a young age cause's a lot of stress for everyone involved but i would change it for the world. think of the baby and not yourself....what's better for it? if you and your boyfriend are serious, sit down and talk - there are always other possibility's such as a relative looking after the child. As for your father....he only wants what's best for you. he might not like him but your boyfriend is your choice, although i would think about WHY your dad doesnt like him - there could be a good reason. (MORE)
What should you do if you're family is falling apart and you're only 14 and pregnant and your family will kill you if you tell them?
Answer . The ideal choice would be for the young lady to seek the aid of a teacher, counselor or other trusted adult to aid her in informing her family. If that is not possible the following organizations can be of assistance, all communication is kept private. Planned Parenthood, (toll free) 1-8…00-230-7526, http://www.plannedparenthood.org or Birthright (toll free) 1-800-550-4900, http://www.birthright.org. Another website that might be helpful to the young lady and give her the opportunity to discuss her situation with her peers, is Teenline Online. The websit is staffed by teens who are trained to counsel other teens and supply helpful information; http://www.teenlineonline.org Please keep in mind that phone and internet usage can be monitored. (MORE)
\n. \n Answer \n. \n. \nUsually when you miss your period though there are some tests that can show positive before you miss a period, they don't really add anything as up to 50% of pregnancies are lost with the period anyway.
If your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore and you might be pregnant with his child should you tell him that you're pregnant or just keep it to yourself when you find out in a week?
\n. \n Answer \n. \nFind out for sure that you are pregnant and then tell him. He deserves to know and you need child support from him if you keep it. Consider adoption if you don't think you can support this child emotionally and financially, but please don't consider abortion.\n. \n. \nI a…m sorry, but I feel I have to add something here. Whilst I agree that you should find out for definite whether you are pregnant, and telling your boyfriend is the right thing to do, I have to strongly advise that it is your decision at the end of the day, whether you keep this baby or not. PLEASE find out about ALL your options, whether it be adopting or, if you feel it is the right thing for you, to terminate the pregnancy. No-one has the right to dictate to you what you do. I really hope everything works out for you. (MORE)
What should you do if you're 17 and moving to Florida in a month and you just found out you're pregnant and should you tell your boyfriend?
17, Pregnant, & moving to Florida . Talk your Mom & Dad...let them know what is going on. Then talk to the father of you child and if he is 17 like you, have you parents talk to with his. You may not want to do this, but what your doing is asking the people who love you to help you with a tremen…dous responsibilty.. Answer . Yes, he deserves to know.. Answer . \nYes, you should tell your boyfriend, By him being the father of the child he definitely has a right to know. Coming from a mother, its better to tell him now than later, (MORE)
What should you do if you're 12 and you got pregnant by a 19-year-old guy and you're 7 months pregnant and your parents noticed you were getting bigger and you're scared to tell them you're pregnant?
Hunny, you need to tell them. For the babies sake, there could be something wrong with it. My advise, is to tell them. I know your scared. A lot of kids would tell you to make up some lie, and say you didn't know how old he was, but me being a teenager myself.. I think you should just tell them the …truth, tell them how far along you are, and how old he is. Tell them you made a mistake, but not to penilize him for it, because it was part your desision too. There are alot of adoption services if you arn't wanting to keep the baby. And you can go to HOPE, to get the baby checked out. They're all over the place, it's free, and their really nice, and will talk to you. I wish you luck :) Wow... how did you get yourself in this mess... you have to tell them, it is too far along to not have the baby but... adoption is an option... this baby could kill you (MORE)
How can you tell your boyfriend that you're ready to get pregnant by him and you're only 17 years old?
I don't want to sound rude but I have to tell you that you should wait a bit longer to have a child because they are not all cute and cuddly. They are very expensive to have and to take care of. The prenatal vitamins and doctors visits will cost you 60.00 a month. That is if you have no other issues…, health wise. Then the hospital is about $6,000 depending where you live. Then the baby comes along and you have monthly wellness checkups for the first year. That is if the baby is healthy. If the baby is sickly or has other health issues your talking thousands of dollars. Then you have food, diapers, clothing, toys, etc and that monthly could be up to 300-400 dollars a month, depending where you live. Does your boyfriend have a job, do you? Do you understand that a baby is a life changing event. You have so much you still need to do to experience life for you and there is plenty of time left for a baby. Go to college or start a career that you are interested in. Travel and enjoy yourself for another 5 years or so and definitely have some money saved up. Please think about this a little more and don't forget the guy has to be ready, too, or you'll be raising baby all alone and that stinks... (MORE)
Answer . \nIt all depends on how you feel on it. As for me I would tell right away, but that is only because my husband wants one just as bad as I do. If you don't tell him right away it really isn't that big of a deal, but just keep in mind that every man deserves to know whether they fathered …a child.\nP.S. I hope that help...at least just a little.\n. \n-Ashley- (MORE)
you can do a pregnancy test at your doctor. if you don't want to be tester, missing 2 periods in a row is usually a sign of pregnancy
you have to wait until the next period if u want 2 know it naturally .If ur period is missing then it may be concern that u are pregnant,still it is not confirm that ur pregnant... then u should go for pregnancy test 2 confirm pregnancy ..
The best way is to take a pregnancy test. You can either buy one somewhere like a supermarket or chemist or get one done at the doctor. You can have false negatives but rarely false positives, so if it says you're pregnant, you probably are. The other symptoms of pregnancy are: Missed period Fe…eling/being sick Certain smells/foods/colours make you feel/be sick Needing to pee more Headaches Exhaustion Moody and emotional Sore/tender breasts a pregnancy test will obviously be most reliable. but other symptoms may be;; breast tenderness enlarged breasts morning sickness constipation stomach cramps cravings Good luck.. (: it normally takes a week to be fully protected. (MORE)
Answer . Well unfortunately you both were part of this and there is no easy way to tell him. The best thing you can do is be honest and just tell him - then go from there. Good Luck!
Yes, tell him and he may forgive you, or just don't tell him and just break up with him. If he asks why, just say "I have something going on in my head right now" .
Answer It's a little late isn't it! You know better and you're basically immature and if you had lost feelings for your boyfriend then you should have broken up with him before seeing another guy. Face the music and be responsible for your own actions! No matter how you tell him it's going hurt. So…me guys (depending if it's the first time their girlfriend/wife had an affair) are willing to forgive and forget and help raise the child (they are few and far between though) and if he is one of these guys consider yourself lucky. However, it's only right you tell the baby's father it's his child (if you know for sure.) Face the music! theres no easy way to tell him this happen to me she told me she the baby was mine we got married. and 6 months in she told the cops i hit her. and they belived her cuz of my anger mangment class a use to take. i go to jail amd she gets her green card then i found out its not mine. (MORE)
You need to take a pregnancy test to find out if you are pregnant or not. You can buy one at the supermarket or chemist or get one done at the doctor's or nurse's. If it's positive and you're pregnant, you need to get booked in to see your doctor ASAP so that you and your baby can start receiving me…dical care. If you're on birth control pills you should stop taking them until you find out that you're not pregnant. You also should not smoke or drink alcohol or caffeine until you know you are not pregnant. (MORE)
Go with honesty You tell him through open, honest, and direct communication. He should appreciate that. Then he can be more careful and sensitive your first time together. Tactics When or if you ever start talking about being sexually active, you could say, "Oh, did I ever tell you I am a virg…in?" and then continue your conversation from there, but remember it's not embarrassing to say you are a virgin; you should actually feel proud on the inside, because many people may regret not being a virgin anymore or losing it to the wrong person. (MORE)
Only thing that can tell you that is a pregnancy test! GOOD LUCK . Home pregnancy tests can detect the HCG pregnancy hormone as soon as your first missed period.. Doctors can detect the HCG hormone as early as 9 days past ovulation with blood work.. It is usually safe for couples to share the new…s of their pregnancy with family and friends after the end of the first trimester, or 12 weeks gestation. (MORE)
Answer . Just tell him why would he be mad? I'm a guy... . Answer . Your fear has nothing to do with the issue. Yes, you may feel uncomfortable, but he has to know. In addition, he is equally responsible for the event, and he needs to own to the reality of that. That being said, I cou…ld understand your fear, if he was under the impression that you were under some type of birth control, and for some reason you did not take that responsibility seriously enough, and missed or discontinued the birth control. Then I could understand him being angry. Still, he has to know. (MORE)
You're in love with your boyfriend who you've been off and on with for a year It was mostly physical now you're in love with him How do you tell him that you're in love with him?
you can say: we have had a bumpy relation ship but that's because i loved you and I wasnt in love with you but now im am in love with you and I do love you. hope you will understand that and I hope we can start all over, pretend the past never happen? I tryed that on my x and he said he loved me too…. (MORE)
Home pregnancy tests can detect the HCG pregnancy hormone as soon as your first missed period.. Doctors can detect the HCG hormone as early as 9 days past ovulation with blood work.. It is usually safe for couples to share the news of their pregnancy with family and friends after the end of the fi…rst trimester, or 12 weeks gestation. (MORE)
\nbest way, find an appropriate time that is just the two of you, and flat out say it.
Some people tell when they first find out. Other people prefer to keep it a secret for two or three months. It's up to you, whenever you feel the time is right. I think you get more attention when you wait - because nine months is a long time. If you are having it in only five or six more months peo…ple get more excited by the news and they don't have to wait so long for it to be born. (MORE)
It's important that you tell an adult that you trust, such as a parent, older sibling, teacher, relative or school counsellor. You need to see your doctor because it's important to start getting medical care for you and your baby to make sure everything is going well. You should eat a healthy diet a…nd start taking prenatal vitamins to keep you and your baby healthy. You need to think about whether you want to keep this baby or not. Adoption is always an option. Eventually you will need to tell your parents or carers, and it's best to do that sooner rather than later. They will probably be angry at first, but hopefully they will be a huge support to you. (MORE)
Answer To confirm whether you're pregnant or not, you need to take a pregnancy test. You can buy one at the supermarket or chemist or you can get one done at the doctor's. If it's positive, it is important that you book an appointment to see your doctor so that you and your baby can receive healthc…are. Answer You can contact Planned Parenthood in your area and have a test taken. They will then present your choices; keep it, give it away for adoption or have an abortion. (MORE)
it depends on the kind of relationship your in. if it makes you uncomfortable, you need to tell him. im 15 and i still havent let a guy do that. its too weird for me. i dont know, it just depends on how you feel about each other. :) i hope i helped! personally i think it's fine/ but make sure you …really like him doing it to you! it hurts a bit 1st time, but then it's fine. however if he does this to you he's probs gonna move on to sex, so be careful! only let him finger you if you are totally happy about it. im 14 btw :) (MORE)
It's ok, your parent isn't going to kill you no matter how mean they are sometimes. It's going to be hard but you need to tell them, all you've got to do is ask them to chat and or that you need to tell them something important. It will be harder for people that are not as close to parents as others… are but as i siad, you have to tell them or you'll end up in a big mess ! ust come out with it slowly, or however you feel. They will obviousy be in shock so you may want to divert your eyes to the floor to dodget their looks as it may make you feel better, this also looks like you know what you've let yourself in for. I didn't tell my parents that I was pregnant i only told mybest friend becky but she didnt kno, so she brought it up at dinner. My parents found out that way and I was so scared of what they were going to do. Dont do what I did. TELL THEM ! (MORE)
The best and most reliable way to find out if you're pregnant or not is to take a pregnancy test. These can be bought from a pharmacy or supermarket, or can be done at the doctor's. A pregnancy test can be taken 3 weeks after sex. Some other symptoms of pregnancy are: Missed period Headaches Feeli…ng/being sick Needing to pee more Certain smells/foods/colours making you feel/be sick Exhaustion Moody and emotional Sore/tender breasts Food/smell cravings pregnancy test! you can do a pregnancy test at your doctor. if you don't want to be tester, missing 2 periods in a row is usually a sign of pregnancy Some symptoms include not havening your period/being late, morning sickness, growth of belly(then you would now) and i got this off of a web site: A missed or a delayed menstruation cycle is the most reliable symptom of pregnancy.Implantation Bleeding is the earliest symptom of pregnancy. This happens about eight days after the conception resulting in spotting and cramping.Swollen/Tender Breasts is another early symptom that can be seen after 1 or 2 weeks of conception. Many women may notice that their breasts have become tender to the touch or have turned sore.Fatigue or a feeling of tiredness that may begin within the first week of conception is also a early pregnancy symptom.Nausea/Morning Sickness is another well known symptom that may show up after about 2 to 8 weeks after conception.Lower Backaches is another early symptom of pregnancy.Frequent Urination occurs after 6 to 8 weeks of pregnancy and is very common symptom of pregnancy.Darkening of Areolas or the skin around the nipples.Food Cravings for certain kinds of food indicates a presence of pregnancy and can last throughout the period.Rectal Bleeding.go here for an online pregnancy test: http://www.baby-parenting.com/pregnancy/online_pregnancy_test.html (MORE)
Say F*** you, you got me preggers. jk. Have a nice dinner and confront him the good news.
Answer: Just tell him.. Tell him that you are pregnant, it's his, and that you want to keep it... Now I don't know if you care about what your boyfriend thinks, but if he doesn't want it then he will probably leave you. And I don't know how old you are. But before you do think of keeping it, mak…e sure you can provide for the child, you need a secure, steady job and a big apartment. A baby is not a pet. If you keep the baby then you need to forget all about doing what young people like to do, like partying and having time for yourself. (MORE)
If you're pregnant with chlamydia, you should get treatment as soon as possible. There are safe and effective treatments for pregnant women. You should ensure that all partners are treated, and that you abstain from oral, anal, and vaginal sex -- avoiding sex even with a condom -- until treatment is… complete. You should be retested three months after treatment, and retested near the time of delivery. (MORE)
I have been in the situation the best thing to do is to wait until your period is a couple of days late, then go get a pregnancy test. If the result is negative and you didn't want to be pregnant u can breathe a sigh of relief. And next time remember to use protected. If the result is positive you h…ave three options abortion, adoption or keep the baby. It's best to think this through before making any quick decisions If you do decide to keep the baby it's best to tell someone asap as you will need to receive the right antenatal care to keep you and your baby healthy. (MORE)
This depends on where you work and how supportive the company is of pregnancy. In most places, it is a legal requirement to give pregnancy leave to a person who is pregnant. Further, it is illegal (in most places) to fire someone fore being pregnant. In a supportive place, you should tell your… boss as soon as possible, after letting your family and friends know, of course. In a not supportive place, this depends on how you feel about your job, and if you want to keep it. Since you're asking this question, we will assume you want to continue working there after your pregnancy. Occasionally, there have been cases where women were 'fired' or told that they were 'resigning', shortly after letting an employer know that they were pregnant. These cases are mostly illegal. If you suspect that your employer might try something like that, it may be better to send them a registered letter , informing them of your pregnancy. Legal cases against employers who use these bullying tactics against pregnant women have been usually successful, particularly the well-documented cases. (MORE)
I think that it's perfectly fine to be pregnant at 14. At the end of the day as long as you feel ready it's no one eles's business Good luck
Everything will be fine, just go to the doctor and get a shot for a cure.
If you're planning to meet with your ex but to you you're just friends should you tell your boyfriend or not?
Yes, but be clear with your boyfriend that it is not to in anyway get back together (obviously) but to mend a bridge because you can't go your whole life avoiding someone, you have to confront your fears (although this may not be counted as a fear) Also make it clear to your ex that you've moved …on and would like you two to be friends. Your boyfriend may want to come along with you when you meet up with your ex (just a procaution) because he may feel left out and if it's the beginning of your new relationship you and he may be only at the beginning of trusting each other. Overall, just make it clear to both sides, be open to each other. (MORE)
Take a pregnancy test. . The only real way to know is to take a pregnancy test. If you take the pill as directed you can assume you are not pregnant, the side effects (breast tenderness, nausea, moodiness, headaches) should subside over the next couple months.
If you tell her you are waiting there for results to talk with a counselor, they should give you your results. If no counselor is available, they may have you come back.
well obviously you are not pregnant if your on your period because your period is when your bag in your stomach that holds the baby broke because there is no baby in your stomach.
Dump him if he is too old for you!! Just tell him that you are not the age that he thinks you are and that you cant see him anymore... Good luck hope i helped :) x
When you think your ready to kiss him, kiss him but If you not 15 or older I think it could wait a few more years. But, if/when you do kiss him don't be weird with him afterwards.. :))
I've only had one boyfriend, but I got mad at him almost daily, (that's why he's my ex now ;D). Just start a normal conversation and don't say "we need to talk". That's just a stupid cliche line. Just talk to him how you normally would, and then tell him,"When you said/did _________ the other day th…at really pissed me off >:(". That's what I would do. I had to tell my ex that all the time. Of course all he said was sorry...but this is about you! So just don't blow up on him, and I'm not sure how many times he's done this before, or how close you guys actually are, but I think that you should just try to talk to him about it, and avoid fighting at all costs. If he seems to go on the offensive quickly, try apologizing too (that is, if he does). Just don't fight, because no one likes to fight with their boyfriend/girlfriend. (MORE)
The hormone hCG (human chorionic gonadotrophin) is a glycoprotein hormone produced during pregnancy and gives a positive pregnancy test.
Weight should not be considered as an element of telling whether you are pregnant or not, even medium sized women sometimes can't tell when they are pregnant at first. On that note, your breast will be sensitive; almost painful, your abdomen will feel hard as a ball, you might have abdominal pains, …and food cravings are normally the first signs of pregnancy. I have said this enough times, get checked to be sure. (MORE)
Your doctor will be able to advise you on this. The safest thing to do is deliver by c-section. By following what the doctor advises, there is a minimal chance the baby will be infected with the virus.
sorry honey but my moving i now you would miss me but we can text or call each other
Your dog will start to put on weight, a dog has puppies 63 daysafter they are pregnant.