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If a woman is cheating should she be confronted while she is with the other man or when she is at home?
I don't think you should confront her when she is with the man - I think you should confront her when she is at home and there is privacy and calmness. If you confront her when she is with him, emotions could highly escalate and cause something bad to happen.
She's a big girl and knows she has control over her cheating so don't bother to bring the male counter-part into the matter. Confront her on home turf. If this is not your mate, but a friend I would keep right out of it. If it means destroying your friendship with her then please do so. She knows what she is doing is wrong. If you are the mate then leave!
If you confront them together they cannot deny it.
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Should a woman confront her husband if she suspects he is cheating or wait until she has definitive evidence?
If you confront him, what do you think he will say? He isn't really going to admit it and get in trouble and probably end his marriage is he? Not very likely. You should g…et evidence first. People who don't want to know the truth-ask their spouse. Why? Because it is almost certain that he/she will assure you, in every way way can, that they are not cheating and life will continue as normal. If you REALLY want to know-You find out how! Also, if you confront him. How will you know if they are lying? Do you really know how to tell when someone is lying? Did you know (this one is almost common knowledge) that liars will often look directly in your eyes whilst lying? If you ask a suspected cheating lying spouse whether they are cheating on you to you, and expect honesty from them. You probably don't want to hear the truth. Why do you think he's cheating? In my experience, when there's smoke, there's usually a fire about to break out. By the way.in response to "is it cheating if the girl is an ex-prostitute"? Yes! Cheating is cheating no matter who it is! Rather than 'Confront' I'd recomend using the word converse. To confront him means that he is already guilty and the conversation will be one sided. He will get backed into a corner, with little room to escape. If the shoe was on the other foot, Is this how you would want him to deal with you? You don't win by putting people down, you win by being able to resolve an issue of the past. That's how you can move forward. You cannot change history, why would you want to constantly have to deal with it? I am in a situation now where my husband of 2.5 yrs may be cheating. I am going to do my research..... I am checking phone records going back at least 6 months, I am verifing these numbers via the internet. I will call these women and get answers, and checking his where abouts without him knowing. Then when I feel I am satisfied I will present my evidence; at that point he can tell the truth or this marriage is over. Getting answers will take time, but I am willing to do it right. By the way men are liars. so DO NOT believe anything they tell you. FIND things out on your own! Would you charge a criminal without sufficient evidence to obtain a conviction and rely on their integrity to be forthcoming with the truth when challenged on the suspicion of having committed an offence? Obtain the EVIDENCE you need to satisfy yourself of infidelity -- and save yourself listening to endless excuses, lies and denials. I would tell him how she/you feel. And tell him why you feel that way. But they say, if you suspect its going on, usually it is. Im sorry.
I don't blame you for wanting some kind of revenge on your boyfriend and this woman, but is showing your hurt and anger to these two publicly going to make you feel better in …the long run? Are either of them really worth the trouble, especially if things get physical or the police get involved? The best revenge is dumping your bf and moving on with your life. Their own stupid actions will screw up their lives for them. What's to be gained in confronting her? The problem in between you and your partner. She was just a tool he used to express his insecurity and direspect. She may not have even known he was spoken for. Every woman in this situation wasnt to express their anger at being hurt so badly, and the "other woman" is an obvious choice. However, it usually ends up causing more trouble than not. She could have been anybody; concentrate your efforts on your partner and what healing might be done. Answer Having unknowingly been the other woman several times as well as the person cheated on, and knowing several who have had their lives ruined by such a situation, i wholeheartedly say NOOO! The relationship is between you and your partner, as above, she is indeed just as much of a victim sometimes of getting involved with a man who is already spoken for. He is the one who has broken your trust and disrespected you. The only exception to this rule is if the other woman is a friend of yours. In that situation all bets are off and you should feel it is appropriate to say something.
Eventually. Confront your wife first. The right thing to do is if the guy doesn't know "accidently" drop yal's wedding picture somewhere where you know he'll see it. You sh…ould be confronting your wife, first. A confrontation with the other man will accomplish nothing ... after all it's not totally 100% his fault for the affair - it takes two to tango!
yes. Answer . It's not her fault, or yours, talk to the one who cheated on you. they are surely the one who is to blame. If he was committed to the relationship and truly …in love with you, the most beautiful woman in the world would not tempt him to stray.
It deepends on how he cheats. If one is only talking about sex, then it's only about sex. If he's going out to dinner and having meaningful conversations with the other …woman, then maybe. To a man, sex and love don't always need to go together.
Answer No you shouldn't confront the other man. It takes two to tangle so it's your wife you have to speak to and if you get no results, then perhaps it's time to m…ove on in life and leave her with her lover. Good luck,
No ... especially as you do not know who initiated the affair in the first place. Since the affair has happened, both parties involved are equally responsible. Get profe…ssional counseling for you and your wife ... now. Do all you can to save your marriage if at all possible.
no. The one you should confront is your man. And if he is cheating it's his loss.
OF CORSE! dont let him cheat on her any longer. go ahead and tell her ;]
only if you want more conflict. walk away from both of them, show them no worries on your end. if he loves and wants to reconcile he'll run back pleeing for forgiveness. Then …you just toy with his emotions for awhile and if that's what you want back then you can decide it. But don't let them destroy you
If an individual has proof their mate is cheating then they should always confront their cheating partner, but have proof. When someone who cheats knows it's wrong (and it is…) and confesses to their partner they did cheat then that person deserves another chance, but when you have to catch the mate who is cheating they will most likely cheat again and it's time for you to move on.
Absolutely, especially if the sex and attention his getting from the other woman is what he likes. Do remember the other woman can do everything differently from his wife. If… he is not bored from his married life he wouldn't end up having affairs with a new different woman. This new woman can and will everything for him so if she is seeing another man, this married man will have this insecure feelings and feels that he might loose her..
Then he leaves you for the other woman?
no because if there cheating you stay away from them and don't get involved in anything the person does anymore. they would kick you out if you did that and they wouldn't like… you anymore. even if there not talking to you already they will hurt you even more then they already are.
What country music video has a brunette woman walking out of a house and confronting her man who's wearing overalls about cheating while he's working on a car in the barn?
I'm pretty sure you're talking about Cheater, Cheater by Joey and Rory.
There is only one circumstance where it makes sense to confront the other woman: If you have to see her on a regular basis, or work with her on a regular basis. When you do …confront her, it should not be about the cheating. It should be about establishing a set of rules for when you do run in to her again. Telling somebody they are evil and calling them names may be emotionally satisfying, but it can also go very wrong very quickly and lead to huge problems down the road. Buy a punching bag and take Tae-Bo classes if you need to work-off some of the anger, do not yell at the mistress.
Neither woman should trust this man because he is a compulsive cheater. People who cheat are selfish; disloyal; have narcissistic traits where they think of no one but themsel…ves; often feel they won't be caught. Cheaters have no backbone or they would be able to face the person they are cheating on. This man wants it all (using the word 'man' loosely) Tell him to hit the road!