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If a woman is cheating should she be confronted while she is with the other man or when she is at home?
I don't think you should confront her when she is with the man - I think you should confront her when she is at home and there is privacy and calmness. If you confront her when she is with him, emotions could highly escalate and cause something bad to happen.
She's a big girl and knows she has control over her cheating so don't bother to bring the male counter-part into the matter. Confront her on home turf. If this is not your mate, but a friend I would keep right out of it. If it means destroying your friendship with her then please do so. She knows what she is doing is wrong. If you are the mate then leave!
If you confront them together they cannot deny it.
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I don't blame you for wanting some kind of revenge on your boyfriend and this woman, but is showing your hurt and anger to these two publicly going to make you feel better in …the long run? Are either of them really worth the trouble, especially if things get physical or the police get involved? The best revenge is dumping your bf and moving on with your life. Their own stupid actions will screw up their lives for them. What's to be gained in confronting her? The problem in between you and your partner. She was just a tool he used to express his insecurity and direspect. She may not have even known he was spoken for. Every woman in this situation wasnt to express their anger at being hurt so badly, and the "other woman" is an obvious choice. However, it usually ends up causing more trouble than not. She could have been anybody; concentrate your efforts on your partner and what healing might be done. Answer Having unknowingly been the other woman several times as well as the person cheated on, and knowing several who have had their lives ruined by such a situation, i wholeheartedly say NOOO! The relationship is between you and your partner, as above, she is indeed just as much of a victim sometimes of getting involved with a man who is already spoken for. He is the one who has broken your trust and disrespected you. The only exception to this rule is if the other woman is a friend of yours. In that situation all bets are off and you should feel it is appropriate to say something.
Answer If this is the first time he has cheated (that you know of) and are married (we should all work on our marriage to a point), then give it another chance e…ven though it hurts. None of us are saints, nor are we perfect. I know it hurts and what he did was wrong. Now he has the responsibility of paying child support and this can be very rough on the both of you. If he's your boyfriend, then I suggest you kick him to the curb. You are free to do so, and the possibility of him cheating on you again is high because he has no real commitment to you or anyone else. Here's a true test for him. When you talk to him ask him how much he thinks he'll be paying in child support. If his answer is, "No way! I'm not paying child support. How do I know if it's my kid or not?" then you have a real jerk on your hands. This means he has no regard for not only your feelings, but the other girl and certainly not his child. He's a loafer and con artist and if you're as smart as I think you are I'd kick him out the door and tell him to not let the door hit him in the backside on the way out! Good luck hon Marcy Answer Only you can answer this. Answer I agree with the other people who have committed. He needs to support this child and if he doesnt than that shows you right there what kind/type of person he is. I know there are different circumstances to every situation. But...if you are married to him, this is your situation just as his. If you are not married to him, and he cheated with this woman while he was with you, I would end it with him. Who is to say he wont "hook up again" with someone else or who is to say this is the first time he has cheated on you. Only you can forgive him. Only you know the whole situation. Good Luck
YES! because if the wife finds out and she also finds out that you known she will not be happy. She will also figure out that her husband is not right for her. ANSWER: Sho…uld she, yes, if she knows the wife of the married man she's having an affair with. But this other woman needs to be brave because when she does, the wife will have a lot of questions to her, like why, how, and when. And when the wife is done, anger will come out and this will be what the other woman needs to expect. We always forget the old saying; "do not do unto others what you do not do unto you." In addition with my comment, should the other woman tell the wife of her married lover on what's going on behind her? You should but here is a tricky question on why you want to face the wife you hardly knew. Is it your conscience that's making you do this, or you want your married lover to get in trouble from his wife so he will run to you. Where you expecting that he will leave his wife so the two of you can have a life together? It does make sense right? The best thing for you to do is leave them alone and no contact with your married lover.
Should a woman confront her husband if she suspects he is cheating or wait until she has definitive evidence?
If you confront him, what do you think he will say? He isn't really going to admit it and get in trouble and probably end his marriage is he? Not very likely. You should get… evidence first. People who don't want to know the truth-ask their spouse. Why? Because it is almost certain that he/she will assure you, in every way way can, that they are not cheating and life will continue as normal. If you REALLY want to know-You find out how! Also, if you confront him. How will you know if they are lying? Do you really know how to tell when someone is lying? Did you know (this one is almost common knowledge) that liars will often look directly in your eyes whilst lying? If you ask a suspected cheating lying spouse whether they are cheating on you to you, and expect honesty from them. You probably don't want to hear the truth. Why do you think he's cheating? In my experience, when there's smoke, there's usually a fire about to break out. By the way.in response to "is it cheating if the girl is an ex-prostitute"? Yes! Cheating is cheating no matter who it is! Rather than 'Confront' I'd recomend using the word converse. To confront him means that he is already guilty and the conversation will be one sided. He will get backed into a corner, with little room to escape. If the shoe was on the other foot, Is this how you would want him to deal with you? You don't win by putting people down, you win by being able to resolve an issue of the past. That's how you can move forward. You cannot change history, why would you want to constantly have to deal with it? I am in a situation now where my husband of 2.5 yrs may be cheating. I am going to do my research..... I am checking phone records going back at least 6 months, I am verifing these numbers via the internet. I will call these women and get answers, and checking his where abouts without him knowing. Then when I feel I am satisfied I will present my evidence; at that point he can tell the truth or this marriage is over. Getting answers will take time, but I am willing to do it right. By the way men are liars. so DO NOT believe anything they tell you. FIND things out on your own! Would you charge a criminal without sufficient evidence to obtain a conviction and rely on their integrity to be forthcoming with the truth when challenged on the suspicion of having committed an offence? Obtain the EVIDENCE you need to satisfy yourself of infidelity -- and save yourself listening to endless excuses, lies and denials. I would tell him how she/you feel. And tell him why you feel that way. But they say, if you suspect its going on, usually it is. Im sorry.
It deepends on how he cheats. If one is only talking about sex, then it's only about sex. If he's going out to dinner and having meaningful conversations with the other …woman, then maybe. To a man, sex and love don't always need to go together.
What country music video has a brunette woman walking out of a house and confronting her man who's wearing overalls about cheating while he's working on a car in the barn?
I'm pretty sure you're talking about Cheater, Cheater by Joey and Rory.
no charlie has never cheated he is a monagamous person as he has stated in interviews
Mind your own business and keep your mouth shut.
Then he leaves you for the other woman?
Eventually. Confront your wife first. The right thing to do is if the guy doesn't know "accidently" drop yal's wedding picture somewhere where you know he'll see it. You sh…ould be confronting your wife, first. A confrontation with the other man will accomplish nothing ... after all it's not totally 100% his fault for the affair - it takes two to tango!
ANSWER: It could be that your husband fell in love with the other woman. If he only wanted sex from her he could just do that. But the big picture here is your husband is alr…eady emotionally connected with her and this are the strong bond that they hold to each others.
No ... especially as you do not know who initiated the affair in the first place. Since the affair has happened, both parties involved are equally responsible. Get profe…ssional counseling for you and your wife ... now. Do all you can to save your marriage if at all possible.
Absolutely, especially if the sex and attention his getting from the other woman is what he likes. Do remember the other woman can do everything differently from his wife. If… he is not bored from his married life he wouldn't end up having affairs with a new different woman. This new woman can and will everything for him so if she is seeing another man, this married man will have this insecure feelings and feels that he might loose her..
You must have proof or what you asked her will be back fired and she will deny the whole thing. But if you have proof and no for certain, leave him. He will continue to do tha…t and you do not want to get hurt. I had a boyfriend that got my best friend pregnant and left her and came back begging to me because i broke up with him after i heard about it. My ex best friend cried to me and said 'im sorry, i didn't mean too..' I told her 'F*** you. You are a b***h, you do not deserve to be in my sight. Get out of my face.' Then i slapped her across her face, She cried and kept apologizing, i slapped her again. 'Shut up.' She still tired. Again, i slapped her. 'I have nothing to say to you.' I then walked away. It was a very disgusting day for me. Don't end up like that, confront him with proof and stand your ground. Don't get weak knees, stand tall. Tell him your threw and he made you fall. Dump him. Only if you have some proof otherwise it will be total denial. My husband just had an affair for two years, with a married woman. I suspected it all along, but he constantly denied it to me, and she denied it to her husband. Finally, after finding a detailed love letter signed by her in my husband's briefcase, I called her husband, met him and gave him the letter. It was really a signed confession. So if you have any evidence whatsover, yes you should say something or it will just go on, and on. Yes, but you need to ask yourself if you are willing to save this marriage (if your wife admits to and ends the affair, goes to counseling) or if you will get a divorce. This is going to be even tougher if you have children together. If you have kids, don't have this talk with your wife when they are around. Try to keep this from your kids as much as you can, even though they may have to deal with their parents splitting up. If you decide to do that, try to be as amicable with your wife as possible--don't show hatred or vent your emotions with your kids around. I agree with the previous poster: your wife might still deny the affair. If that happens, you need to make a decision about whether to stay married or not.
Answer No you shouldn't confront the other man. It takes two to tangle so it's your wife you have to speak to and if you get no results, then perhaps it's time to m…ove on in life and leave her with her lover. Good luck,
Generally, it is not advisable for a man to enter another man's home when the woman is home alone unless he is related to the woman. Of course, it cannot always be avoided, su…ch as when the husband works during the day and something needs the attention of a repairman. Other than that, at the very least, it would certainly give the neighbors something to talk about, and at the most, it could place the man and woman in a situation that could easily have been avoided.
Yes, you should tell the other woman's husband if she is cheating with your husband.