You tell him that you don't appreciate him doing such an inconsiderate thing or if your husband is the kind of person who can be violent when corrected you should avoid him disrespecting you. I have a girlfriend who has gone through this. There was a time my husband I asked her and her husband over to play cards. Of course he was a poor loser and he was constantly making rude remarks to her. My husband and I generally don't like getting involved with such matters (not our business) and I can tell you first hand it was her HUSBAND that made the fool out of himself. However, he didn't physically abuse her and after many times of this behavior I was losing respect for her and I told them to leave our home and when they grew up to come back! Whether they went to counseling or not is a myth, but I did ask them both back a few months later and all was well. The sad part of it is I do like both people. Sometimes it's a mind-game and I was shocked to learn from my girlfriend she rather enjoyed these mind-games. HUH? Life is tough enough as far as I'm concerned. Your husband is making a fool out of himself in front of his friends and they're just too lazy or don't care enough to say something to him. When he has his friends over go visit a girlfriend and save yourself the heartache. I suggest you really consider either talking to your husband (if he isn't physically violent) or leave him. If you don't have respect for yourself who is?
The husband should talk to the friend.
If he doesn't - the husband needs to go too because he's just as abusive if he's allowing it.
Have you discussed this with your husband? Told him how you feel when his friend treats you badly? If you've talked to him and he still does nothing, just remove yourself from the situation. When he comes over, go for a walk or a drive and in time his friend will ask why you keep leaving, then perhaps your husband will have that talk with him. Being treated badly is still a form of abuse and he should be protecting you from it. When I say talk, I mean a heart to heart talk, face to face and get the air cleared. Tell him how it makes you feel!
Simply talk to your husband about it. If he doesn't agree with you I would talk to your husbands friend. And don't kick him out if you know he has no where to go. We don't need another home less guy! And if they agree with you try to help your husbands friend find a house.
You can talk to a friend about anything! If they are a true friend, they will keep it with them! if they are your friend, you two should have some common interests.
talk to that friend.
talk to her about it
I was in this situation once myself and I sat down with my girlfriend and told her to either smarten up and make a decision as to whether she was staying with her husband or the next time he quizzed me on her, I was going to tell him the truth. This forces your friend to either smarten up and make a decision as to whether to stay with her husband her leave him. She is using you. This is just not girl talk at all, and if she was a good friend to you she would never have told you and put you in this position. Have that talk with your friend right away. Good luck Marcy Your friend was confiding in you and as such you owe her your loyalty, telling her husband will only wreck havoc in a situation that is not your business and lose you your friend!
well you should talk to your husband and ask him to ask his friend to move out cuz you dont feel comfortable having sex with him when he is in the house works every time think of all the good time you have had with your husband and why you married him and not the friend.and grow up ,do not hurt your family and friend over a crash.thick about it hard
well...you should NOT talk to him about it cause that would be wierd. you should talk to a friend about it, and have youre friend talk to him for you, or just dump him
talk to your husband about what you've just witnessed and if he is nervous about it then something serious could be happening!!
If you truly love him and trust him then you should take his word for it. ANSWER: Well then if your husband says they are only friends, tell him next time they talk make sure that you can talk to her to. How about tell your husband that you want to invite his new friend to dinner at your house. If his face change because of what you wanted to do, then the evidence will be clear to you..
You should talk about his/her specialty. how he is helping you and lots of things like this.
If your friend is being mean too don't talk to them