What would you like to do?
Probably because you want a husband, not a father, and from your question I assume he's not so great in that category. You should work on improving this relationship rather than looking outside for whatever is missing.
He maybe a good guy, a great father, but obviously he is missing something when it comes to you. Is he emotionally there for you? Physically there for you?
Most affairs, emotional or physical start because we are not getting something from our boyfriends/girlfriends or spouses. Many time we take for granted what we have. Its so easy to give a coworker, a friend, neighbor, our attention, time, because we dont want to be rude or seem uncaring. Like the saying says, "you hurt the ones you love". We sometimes give strangers, friends more of our time than we do our loved ones. I dont understand it either, but unfortuately we do.
If you value your marriage, seek a counselor. Obviously you are not getting everything you need from your husband.
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If you are married and have only had sex with your spouse why would you want to have sex with someone else?
Answer . This is a complicated question because it involves individual opinions. Some people feel both male/female should abstain from sex until they wed, while it's been …drilled into men for centuries that they should have experience before marriage so they don't disappoint their new wife. On and on it goes. The problem is ... where does it stop. \n. \nSome men have had at least 1 sexual experience and most more. Some men may have had other girlfriends and each one he thought he loved, but things change (same applies to women.) Other men just go out to "do the deed" and have little regard for the person with the exception of pleasing their own pleasure zones.\n. \nAlthough I always don't agree with the way modern civilization regards sex today, both men and women have fewer rules to follow than years ago. It's apparent "everything goes." We now live in a society where we are spoiled as far as too many choices in most things in life. Like with all other choices, if we pick a mate and have never had sex with another person before that, then we sit and wonder especially if your sex life isn't fulfilling what one is missing out there and if you have been short changed. \n. \nYears ago it wasn't uncommon for women to be sold off as chattel (mostly for livestock of some sort) because the farmer/rancher had no dowry to give. In fact, during the old West, the horse was more important to the rider than a woman! Women often were forced into arranged marriages (some cultures still do this to this day) and often they were not in love with the person. As centuries pasted women fought hard for their rights to freedom and thus, here we are in our lovely modern society with too many choices, and not enough brains for the most part.\n. \nHumans usually want what they can't have.\n. \nMarcy
Answer Guys like that may very well want a gullible woman around for appearance's sake, for her money, or to fool everyone including himself into thinking he's r…eliable and respectable. Let him go; move on. You deserve better. Answer Answer He does this because he does not have a total commitment to you and thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. However, it sounds like you don't agree with this, and so you need to set your boundaries. His values don't seem to match yours, and until they do, your chances of a happy, longterm relationship are slim.
BOYS well this just happened to me so if that happens just do what i did leave it alone and wait till he likes yu or dumps the other girl :)
Well, you need to get the issue sorted out before very much time goes by. Dr. Phil had a show in November regarding this issue. Your husband needs to know that another m…an is the father. This is one of those unpleasant consequences of behavior. If the husband doesn't want to adopt the child, the biological father will owe you child support. You need to get it straightened out now because should you later divorce, it has a good chance of becoming a problem for you and the child.
What is the word for not wanting the best for What is the word for not wanting to see someone else get something that would be good for them?
that is called being a jerk
Yes. All children have the right to be supported even if the father is married to someone else. Go down to your local child support enforcement agency and open a case.
You should always be yourself. So don't do anything stupid to get his attention. Talk to him a little and if you already do, talk to him more and he will see who you are. And …if he likes you for you then that's great! if he doesn't well he's the stupid one and you can move on to someone else better then him.
You leave him alone to allow his marriage to work. If he's about to marry someone else, he doesn't love you and you need to move on. Stop thinking about him and find som…eone new.
Maybe you should tell the guy to break up with the girl he is with
If the mother is not married to the father, he has no rights period, even if living with her. see link below
It doesn't matter to whom you are married as long as the father is listed on the birth cerificate. You need to go down to your local family court courthouse and obtain the pap…erwork to file for a child support hearing. Then you will go through that process, with or without a lawyer, and a child support order will be issued and then the father will be legally responsible to pay you child support.
Tell god to suck it because he isn't real. Sorry.
I would sit my mom down and explain that as much as I respect her opinion, I am in love with someone else and have no desire in marrying the person she thinks I need to be… with afterall, I am the one going to spend my life with this person
Girl trust me if he wants to be with that ratchet chick he aint worth your time, you derserve better. but if you want him to know how you feel dont talk to him. guys like the …attetion so dont gve it to him and he will come after you then tell him no and if you wanna be with him make him really work for it. trust me im a master!! :)
well... firstly you need to go out with him... then you need to do something so that you get dumped... this could come in the form of bighting his penis when it is inside your… mouth... after he has dumped you, you will be able to move on and like someone else. ^Okay, Ignore that. ^ >__> that person is just being crass. If you decide to date him, your feelings may intensify. You could give him a chance, I suppose, if he's willing. Best you can do for yourself is to think about why you would want to be with this person if he's such a Jerk. Are you "in love" with the way he looks? Or with him? Is he an abusive kind of jerk? If so, run away.
What does it means when a guy tells you i don't want to mislead you you are cute and i like you but you are married and im into someone else does he still likes you to be his friend?
I would take that as a yes, he still wants to be your friend. Or at least try!
How do you proceed if you are married but separated and got pregnant by someone else and you don't want your spouse considered the father?
When the child is born the father can sign the birth certificate and take a DNA test and prove his paternity in court so he gets his parental rights and can petition for custo…dy, visitation and pay child support.