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If you are married to a good guy who is a great father why would you want someone else?
Probably because you want a husband, not a father, and from your question I assume he's not so great in that category. You should work on improving this relationship rather than looking outside for whatever is missing.
He maybe a good guy, a great father, but obviously he is missing something when it comes to you. Is he emotionally there for you? Physically there for you?
Most affairs, emotional or physical start because we are not getting something from our boyfriends/girlfriends or spouses. Many time we take for granted what we have. Its so easy to give a coworker, a friend, neighbor, our attention, time, because we dont want to be rude or seem uncaring. Like the saying says, "you hurt the ones you love". We sometimes give strangers, friends more of our time than we do our loved ones. I dont understand it either, but unfortuately we do.
If you value your marriage, seek a counselor. Obviously you are not getting everything you need from your husband.
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Answer Guys like that may very well want a gullible woman around for appearance's sake, for her money, or to fool everyone including himself into thinking he's r…eliable and respectable. Let him go; move on. You deserve better. Answer Answer He does this because he does not have a total commitment to you and thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. However, it sounds like you don't agree with this, and so you need to set your boundaries. His values don't seem to match yours, and until they do, your chances of a happy, longterm relationship are slim.
BOYS well this just happened to me so if that happens just do what i did leave it alone and wait till he likes yu or dumps the other girl :)
What are the chances the father of a child get custody if he abandoned the mother during pregnancy and even once denied the child and the mother is married to someone else who wants the child?
Firstly, the someone else is totally not relevant. Forget him. Abandoning the mother is between the father and mother and doesn't affect access. Access is still possible. …Denying the child previously doesn't affect access. Access is still possible. Mother is married to somebody. Access is still possible. Chances of father getting sole custody. Low to impossible. Must prove mother is unfit. Chances of father getting shared custody. Not bad. Needs to prove he is a fit parent, stable, not violent criminal etc... Sorry, chances of a father getting full physical custody is slim and none, and slim left town. I've been batteling for years to get custody of my son from a violent, substance abused home. I've spent thousands of dollars, and countless heart aches to no avail. I've been told right to my face that the court would put my son in foster care rather than with me if for nothing less not to lose state funding if he was placed with me. It's a sham and it's no wonder that parents kidnapp their kids and run. i totally understand how you feel my step daughter just got placed with a convicted meth manufacturer instead of stable hard working father. whom the judge says abandoned her, after him having visitation for the last three years. he has ended up with less visitation and more child support. Fathers that want to be dads have not a chance, they wonder why there are so many dead beat dads. mother signed away her rights without his knowledge and is drug addict, with metal issues. what do we do about it?
No way true at all there is ALWAYS some one out there for you. don't get discouraged.
Yes. All children have the right to be supported even if the father is married to someone else. Go down to your local child support enforcement agency and open a case.
You should always be yourself. So don't do anything stupid to get his attention. Talk to him a little and if you already do, talk to him more and he will see who you are. And …if he likes you for you then that's great! if he doesn't well he's the stupid one and you can move on to someone else better then him.
You leave him alone to allow his marriage to work. If he's about to marry someone else, he doesn't love you and you need to move on. Stop thinking about him and find som…eone new.
Maybe you should tell the guy to break up with the girl he is with
If the mother is not married to the father, he has no rights period, even if living with her. see link below
Why would a guy with whom you had an affair long time ago and who wants to be your friend now remove you from his Facebook after you have found out that he is seeing someone else?
Because he wants to get over you and go play Christmas music with his twice removed aunt.
It doesn't matter to whom you are married as long as the father is listed on the birth cerificate. You need to go down to your local family court courthouse and obtain the pap…erwork to file for a child support hearing. Then you will go through that process, with or without a lawyer, and a child support order will be issued and then the father will be legally responsible to pay you child support.
Tell god to suck it because he isn't real. Sorry.
I would sit my mom down and explain that as much as I respect her opinion, I am in love with someone else and have no desire in marrying the person she thinks I need to be… with afterall, I am the one going to spend my life with this person
Girl trust me if he wants to be with that ratchet chick he aint worth your time, you derserve better. but if you want him to know how you feel dont talk to him. guys like the …attetion so dont gve it to him and he will come after you then tell him no and if you wanna be with him make him really work for it. trust me im a master!! :)
well... firstly you need to go out with him... then you need to do something so that you get dumped... this could come in the form of bighting his penis when it is inside your… mouth... after he has dumped you, you will be able to move on and like someone else. ^Okay, Ignore that. ^ >__> that person is just being crass. If you decide to date him, your feelings may intensify. You could give him a chance, I suppose, if he's willing. Best you can do for yourself is to think about why you would want to be with this person if he's such a Jerk. Are you "in love" with the way he looks? Or with him? Is he an abusive kind of jerk? If so, run away.
What does it means when a guy tells you i don't want to mislead you you are cute and i like you but you are married and im into someone else does he still likes you to be his friend?
I would take that as a yes, he still wants to be your friend. Or at least try!
How do you proceed if you are married but separated and got pregnant by someone else and you don't want your spouse considered the father?
When the child is born the father can sign the birth certificate and take a DNA test and prove his paternity in court so he gets his parental rights and can petition for custo…dy, visitation and pay child support.