What would you like to do?
Probably because you want a husband, not a father, and from your question I assume he's not so great in that category. You should work on improving this relationship rather than looking outside for whatever is missing.
He maybe a good guy, a great father, but obviously he is missing something when it comes to you. Is he emotionally there for you? Physically there for you?
Most affairs, emotional or physical start because we are not getting something from our boyfriends/girlfriends or spouses. Many time we take for granted what we have. Its so easy to give a coworker, a friend, neighbor, our attention, time, because we dont want to be rude or seem uncaring. Like the saying says, "you hurt the ones you love". We sometimes give strangers, friends more of our time than we do our loved ones. I dont understand it either, but unfortuately we do.
If you value your marriage, seek a counselor. Obviously you are not getting everything you need from your husband.
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What should you do if your boyfriend said he wants to marry you but after a few months he told you you were great and the best ever but he hasn't been truthful and he's marrying someone else?
Answer . \nAll I can say girl is although your heart is certainly breaking I am so pleased you found out about this now and not later! I know this has come as a shock to …you and there are always signs of someone cheating on another, but most of us are so in love we don't see those signs (because we don't wish to see them) so don't beat yourself up over this and feel like a fool. This type of thing happens more than you think. It is also highly probable this guy is afraid to commit to marriage and could be making the whole thing up. Whatever his excuse kick this guy to the curb. You deserve better! From my own experience I always found that although I may not see the meaning in the hurt I'm feeling over certain things, later when it passed and I got over it, I ended up in the future much better off and so will you. There is that special someone out there that will give you all the love you deserve.\n. \nI was married before at the age of 21 to someone I thought the sun rose and set on. It wasn't too long into the marriage when he became verbally abusive and eventually physically abusive. It took me 3 1/2 years to see the light, but instead of looking at it like wasted years, I learned a lot from that experience. I moved out, got a new job, new friends and filed for divorce and although my heart was breaking I did move on. It gave me a chance to know who I was and to know what my strengths and weakness' were. I sure knew what I didn't want! LOL I dated and had fun and also fun with my girlfriends, but, one day, that special someone came around the corner and I've been married to him for 34 years and still feel the same about him. We are best friends.\n. \nGood luck hon\nMarcy
Answer Guys like that may very well want a gullible woman around for appearance's sake, for her money, or to fool everyone including himself into thinking he's r…eliable and respectable. Let him go; move on. You deserve better. Answer Answer He does this because he does not have a total commitment to you and thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. However, it sounds like you don't agree with this, and so you need to set your boundaries. His values don't seem to match yours, and until they do, your chances of a happy, longterm relationship are slim.
BOYS well this just happened to me so if that happens just do what i did leave it alone and wait till he likes yu or dumps the other girl :)
Well, you need to get the issue sorted out before very much time goes by. Dr. Phil had a show in November regarding this issue. Your husband needs to know that another m…an is the father. This is one of those unpleasant consequences of behavior. If the husband doesn't want to adopt the child, the biological father will owe you child support. You need to get it straightened out now because should you later divorce, it has a good chance of becoming a problem for you and the child.
What is the word for not wanting the best for What is the word for not wanting to see someone else get something that would be good for them?
that is called being a jerk
Yes. All children have the right to be supported even if the father is married to someone else. Go down to your local child support enforcement agency and open a case.
You should always be yourself. So don't do anything stupid to get his attention. Talk to him a little and if you already do, talk to him more and he will see who you are. And …if he likes you for you then that's great! if he doesn't well he's the stupid one and you can move on to someone else better then him.
You leave him alone to allow his marriage to work. If he's about to marry someone else, he doesn't love you and you need to move on. Stop thinking about him and find som…eone new.
Maybe you should tell the guy to break up with the girl he is with
If the mother is not married to the father, he has no rights period, even if living with her. see link below
It doesn't matter to whom you are married as long as the father is listed on the birth cerificate. You need to go down to your local family court courthouse and obtain the pap…erwork to file for a child support hearing. Then you will go through that process, with or without a lawyer, and a child support order will be issued and then the father will be legally responsible to pay you child support.
Tell god to suck it because he isn't real. Sorry.
I would sit my mom down and explain that as much as I respect her opinion, I am in love with someone else and have no desire in marrying the person she thinks I need to be… with afterall, I am the one going to spend my life with this person
Girl trust me if he wants to be with that ratchet chick he aint worth your time, you derserve better. but if you want him to know how you feel dont talk to him. guys like the …attetion so dont gve it to him and he will come after you then tell him no and if you wanna be with him make him really work for it. trust me im a master!! :)
well... firstly you need to go out with him... then you need to do something so that you get dumped... this could come in the form of bighting his penis when it is inside your… mouth... after he has dumped you, you will be able to move on and like someone else. ^Okay, Ignore that. ^ >__> that person is just being crass. If you decide to date him, your feelings may intensify. You could give him a chance, I suppose, if he's willing. Best you can do for yourself is to think about why you would want to be with this person if he's such a Jerk. Are you "in love" with the way he looks? Or with him? Is he an abusive kind of jerk? If so, run away.
What does it means when a guy tells you i don't want to mislead you you are cute and i like you but you are married and im into someone else does he still likes you to be his friend?
I would take that as a yes, he still wants to be your friend. Or at least try!
How do you proceed if you are married but separated and got pregnant by someone else and you don't want your spouse considered the father?
When the child is born the father can sign the birth certificate and take a DNA test and prove his paternity in court so he gets his parental rights and can petition for custo…dy, visitation and pay child support.