Depends on the circumstances and whether you have first right of refusal written into the custody decree. Is she attempting to move away, or is she taking a trip, without the child? More info will be needed to answer this proper. Also, see link below.
If the mother has legal custody but leaves the state and doesn't have physical custody of your child then that must mean the child is with someone who doesn't have custody. I assume you are not married. In that case, you must establish your paternity in court and request legal and physical custody. If the mother has left the state without taking her child with her the court will certainly want to know who the child is with and will certainly consider awarding legal custody to the other biological parent, you.Perhaps you can convince the mother to consent to your getting legal and physical custody. If not sole custody, then joint legal and physical custody.You should consult with an attorneywho specializes in custody issues. The attorney can review your situation and explain your rights and options.
File a modification motion. see links
Even sole custody fathers can be ordered to pay child support, when they earn more than the mother. see links
No, you cannot move a child out of state if you have joint custody.
Yes
That would be called joint custody and can be a good arrangement if it can be accomplished.
Get over it..the kid doesnt want you!
Not without the approval of the courts.
no
File for change of residential custody. see links
I think it depends on how long the mother will be incarcerated for. There might be a hearing giving the father temporary custody. But if the father ever tries to get full physical custody of the child in the future, it might not be good for the mother. However, she can never be refused visitation.
Yessee link