If your going out with a cute spanish boy at school and you pretend to hate each other and he doesn't talk to you anymore does he love you still?
It's likely just a fase. He's probably confused. Maybe you're his first love. Don't freak out about it.
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Answer . \nIt isn't possible to know 100%, but you can tell by the way that person treats you. It could be that you have been hurt in the past and have some trust issues. You must feel insecure and afraid of losing this person. He/she could tell you 100% times a day they love you, but if you d…on't love YOU, then you'll never believe it. \n. \nThink to yourself "what is the worst thing that can happen?" Yes, possibly this person could leave you and it would break your heart for awhile, but then what? You're going to survive! A smart person always questions their own actions and if they feel they have a problem with something in a relationship then it's time they sought out some help. Many people do and it isn't a sign of weakness at all. If you continue on this way then you may lose this person.\n. \nExample: I am almost 99% sure that my husband of 33 years has not or will not cheat on me, but there is always that 1%. So, what do I do? Ruin the great relationship we have? My attitude is, we have built our relationship on trust and if he wants to break that trust down the road then it will be him that pays the consequences and not myself. I have become independent, know myself fairly well and know I can survive even if it happens. No, I wouldn't like it and I'd be heart-broken, but I'm a survivor and I'm independent enough to be happy with myself, or if lucky, meet someone else down the road. I would NEVER let one person every shake my trust in the opposite sex. Not all men/women are bad. For all of us, having a relationship is purely a gamble.\n. \nSo, whatcha goin' to do? Sit there and wonder if this poor guy/gal loves you just after he's/she's told you so, or are you going to start realizing that you can't control everything, enjoy your relationship and should a problem come up then deal with it.\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy (MORE)
Does your ex-boyfriend still love you if you recently talked and he said he still thought about you most days and you have not seen each other for over a year?
Answer . Unfortunately, only you can answer this question because you talk to each other. A long distance relationship if very hard and one or the other or perhaps both always wonders if the other is faithful to them. If you can afford it and it's not too far away, try to get together. There i…s nothing better than being physically together. Many young men/women have lost months to years out of their life waiting for someone who was having the time of their life where they were and not being honest to them. I am not saying this is the issue with you, but if possible try seeing each other soon.\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy (MORE)
If your ex cheated and you still talk to each other as friends and you both are still in love with each other how do you express yourself to this person without rambling about everything else?
Answer . I am not a believer (my own opinion) that one can be friends with an ex that has particularly cheated on you. You should both move on. I don't think either of you know what love is. Love is not cheating, lying, being unfaithful, hurting each other ... my gawd, it sounds like a war zon…e. Love is wanting to be with that person, helping them through difficult times, just being there, laughing, joking, have a little fun, as well as planning a future together. It's about knowing there is this one special person you can just let your guard down with and tell them your inner most feelings and your hopes and dreams.\n. \nIt's time for you to move on!\n. \nMarcy (MORE)
Is there a way you can get him back if he once loved you more than you love him but now it's the other way around and he says he doesn't love you anymore but you still love him?
The girl i really loved and got away is always first in my heart. As long as I'm not in another relationship she could walk in my life anytime. And she did and were currently getting along great. We split on bad terms the first time. True love will climb the wall.. Answer . You can only abuse a …person's love so long and then they build a wall around them to protect themselves. Unfortunately, some people never see what's right in front of them that's the most important thing in their life until it's too late. Sorry, but this wasn't meant to work out and this guy is long gone.. Marcy. Answer . I would disagree, if someone doesn't love you any more then it means they never did, if this guy claimed to be in love with you it means he was just in lust, Are you really in love with him? would you still feel this way about him if he had no legs or something?. Answer . I agree with Marcy. When you are madly in love with a person and they either don't feel the same and/or abusive, you build up a wall. Over time the love you had for that person goes into such a state of disrespect as you know that person would not protect your heart. Unfortunately, many people do not realise this until the person hurt has left them.. Answer . "The demand to be safe in relationship inevitably breeds sorrow and fear. This seeking for security is inviting insecurity. Have you ever found security in any of your relationships? Have you? Most of us want the security of loving and being loved, but is there love when each one of us is seeking his own security, his own particular path?". for full text, see link "JK on Love" on left. Answer . I found 'JK on love' a good read and there is some truth to it, but you can take any subject and break it down right and left and come up with a big fat zero which appears to prove 'there is no love.' While I agree that since man no one has been able to define love. We each must seek what we feel is love and it can be very difficult. However, people that dissect every feeling there is re love, feelings of guilt, feelings of independence, etc., are like some scientists so into the subject and so intent on finding the answer they miss the point which a 5 year old could pick up quite easily because they are innocent and have not experienced what life can throw at them and clutter up their wee minds. Because it's right before our noses and because an adult brain is so complex and so riddled with what one has experienced we don't see things as clearly and innocently as a child. Love then begins to become complex. Why? Because we feel we are adults and have all the answers. Instead of moving with the wind we're moving against it in many cases. We simply expect too much from others and when they fail to meet our standards then the love for that person can wane or, one can leave the other or the two splitup. Each individual has to learn to be a leader in some things in their life and not a follower. No one has the right to tell another they are seeking love in all the wrong ways. We love, but sometimes are not loved back and it's this very subject that we must remain strong and realize there is someone out there that is meant for us and to have the strength to keep going until we find each other in this large world. Love is not perfection!. I'm 65 years old and certainly wondered myself what love is. I've been hurt by love, but popped back up like a spring board and continued on with life. I didn't dissect love, but used my common sense to know it when I saw it. Did sex rule my life? Absolutely not. That in itself is a fallacy. One never went blind without sex. I never slept around for the sake of sex, but was very selective. I was married once, it failed because I didn't get the respect from my first husband. Was I expecting too much? No! I gave respect and expected it back and when he didn't deliver and cheated on me I was very independent and moved on. Was I searching for love; trying to find out if there was such a thing ... no! I am a laid-back person and get on with the beauty and joys of this world and worked hard, helped others, stopped and smelled the flowers and was happy. I learned that not everyone is as strong as myself and that they need help and may be down on their luck and by helping them in any way I can (volunteering or just a friend) it fills my heart with joy and yes, love for that person. When I give I give without strings attached.. I was introduced to my second husband and I would be lying if I didn't admit that we were both attracted to each other, but I felt as if I'd known this man all my life. We dated and took things slow and easy getting to know each other's spirit. We laughed, had fun, shared our friends, discussed life in general and became each others best friend first! Of course sex is sharing the soul of each other and we took it seriously, but we never allowed sex to rule us and we have been there for each other for over 40 years (married to each other for 35 of those years.). Now here is the kicker. My husband is fighting for his life due to illness. We've stood strong together no matter what and both of us are fearless when it comes to each other. There is nothing on this earth that could stop us from protecting each other and our whole being goes into it. We look at each other during bad times and say to each, 'Babe, this is going to be a tough one, but we're not sputtering our way through it, we're going to go down in flames and they'll know WE existed.' When he's down and can't fight you bet I'm there and it's not fear of insecurity (again I'm very independent and have a good life ... not wealthy, but middle-class, fairly healthy, am a Christian and a believer of that faith because I've experienced the miracles of that faith) and when I'm down my husband is there to fight for me. It's a wonderful feeling although it sometimes can be exhausting. There is no secret, it's a matter of knowing some battles you will win and some you won't and if it's your time to leave this earth then the quality of time with your partner or loved one is of the most importance and when they are gone it's the good memories they leave in your heart and the strength you have built with each other goes on in yourself. I believe every person you allow into your life leaves an 'imprint' and we can take what we have learned from that person and become stronger. After the person passes away we can eventually smile at the very thought of them and know that they were part of what you are today. You smile at the world and proceed on with your life never forgetting your one and only true love. There is nothing either of us are afraid of and we are realists and know that our lives can't go on together forever. We face it, embrace it and enjoy each other while we can.. Is our marriage perfect? Heck no and I wouldn't want it to be. We have our arguments, but have learned to respect each other enough to walk away to cool off and then sit down and discuss it like two human beings and take a little of each other's opinions and resolve the problem the best we can. We have much laughter in our marriage and we hug, kiss each other when times are down. Sometimes we just lay down on the rug with that huge TV cushion and cuddle and that's the best comfort knowing you have found someone that you respect, who respects you back and both are willing to fight anything in this world that tries to divide your souls. I've found it, but it takes work. I believe in love, but not the panting, excited type of love through sex we experience in youth. That's a small part of loving someone.. Love IS like a flower that you nurture and watch it grow from a bud to full bloom and smell it's perfume, but, what lingers is the perfume surrounding the two that are in love and you can smell it, see it, feel it and through that you pass on that scent to other and it DOES make a difference and I'm here to say it's so. (MORE)
What should you do if you and your boyfriend are drifting apart like not calling each other anymore or going on dates anymore and are barely even talking anymore?
Answer . You should buy him a card or write him a note or something. Find something that he's interested in that you wouldn't mind doing either. If nothing works, then just try talking to him and tell how you feel.. Or you can just start going on dates and calling him...
Answer . \nThat is probably a good indication. Ask him where he sees the relationship going or stop initiating conversation with him.
What should you do if your Muslim husband married another woman last year and keeps talking about going back to his country and you know he doesn't love you anymore but he says he does?
Answer . \nSweety your way to young to feel down on yourself. If you feel like your husband is not paying enough attenttion to you then tell him how you feel, are you scared he's going to leave you? or do you not want to go to his country? if so you have to tell him and let him know because your… opinion counts just as much as anyone elses. (MORE)
What do you do if you like a guy he knows claims he doesn't like you but now after 6 months he starts to act differently you two don't talk to each other the guy know that you still love him?
then break the ice and talk to him and if he starts to act differently then it could b that he likes u back.
Are you gay or straight? . I think it matters.. Since you didn't identify your sex, it's hard to answer the question. If you are a girl, you may have just blown your girlfriend's mind. Perhaps she has negative feelings or attitudes toward gays and lesbians, and those attitudes make her angry and… prevent her from enjoying a friendship with you. That would be a shame, but it would reflect poorly on her, not you.. Or perhaps she, too, is gay but is in denial or is terribly conflicted. Perhaps facing you would require her to face her own feelings toward you, feelings that make her uncomfortable -- or worse.. If you're a guy, well it's a little different. You still may have blown her mind, perhaps because she didn't see it coming, but that hardly explains why she is no longer speaking to you. She has less reason to be angry, although I suppose that's still possible. If she always assumed that your relationship was strictly platonic, perhaps she feels betrayed. Or perhaps she thinks that you have been secretly thinking of her in sexual ways and feels violated.. Whatever the case may be, all you can do is call, text, IM, or email her and inquire why she's shunning you. Perhaps you could write an old-fashioned letter, which is much more personal and intimate. It may be more likely that she will read a snail-mail than any electronic form of correspondence. (MORE)
How do you talk to this guy if he doesnt go to your school anymore but you still see him elsewhere you just don't talk to each other?
Answer . call him. maybe he is busy or does not want to talk publicly. suggest a PRIVATE meet.
It is fairly common that two people cannot live with each other because they get on each others' nerves, but still like each other . . . so they separate but still talk to each other.
love is kinda big word...how bout..how you can tell if a guy is into you but he doesn't talk to you much.... he looks at you...straight at you...like stares at...and the reason why he doesn't talk to you is probally cause he can't believe he is falling for YOU..not cause of all the wrong reasons..b…ut the obvious good reasons (MORE)
What does it mean when she says I don't want to see you or talk to you anymore but we still have each other stuff?
She is obviously not interested in you anymore and it is time for your both to move on and go your separate ways. You could just put her stuff together and give it to one of her friends or leave it at her house for her - its best not to confront her. Put a note in the box if she has anything of your…s that you would like it if she could return it to you. There is no sense arguing or being rude in these circumstances just let go nicely and move on. (MORE)
the romance of y'all relationship has withered or problems, situations of your relationship has drifted yo guys apart that you feel as if your two different people than when you met. if you don't love each other anymore then it is time to move on. And if you loved them maybe you realized the real si…de of him or her. they probably don't know the real you and they think they do. So people go around saying "oh we are perfect for one another" and your really not. (MORE)
If someone has made the choice of not speaking with you anymore then it is best you let them be, let go and move on.
There is this boy at my school and we have none each other for 4 years. We used 2 like each othr. I still have a crush on him but we never talk anymore. Now he is talkin 2 me. Does he like me again?
maybe he thought it was just to be nice to stay friends with yah since u know each other for soo long..maybe over time u guys may find a connection..right now just worry bout becoming good friends with him like u guys were before..than he may just might realize that omg..i luv this girl..lol
If your parents were once a couple in love, you can tell by the difference - for example, if they used to kiss in front of people and don't do it anymore, or if they used to held hands, or hug themselves in front of people and have halted doing so. Then there's the fight-isolation sign. Some couples… show their crisis by fighting a lot (with or without escalation) while others go in some sort of mute state, when both or one of them get silent and isolated, in other words, don't even consider sharing their/its time and thoughts with the other, and ignore (is indifferent to) whatever the partner does or says. If this not knowing or not being sure gives you anxiety or sadness, talk to the parent with whom you feel more in tune. Ask, clearly. But don't comment. Don't criticize. What goes on between a married couple is too complex and deep for anyone to interfere (needless to say judge) without their permission. There's always something only themselves know and won't ever open to you - which doesn't mean they don't love you or don't cherish you. Always remember: parent's love has nothing to do with couple's love - these are two different worlds with two different set of rules. (MORE)
My girlfriend broke up with me becaus we will be going to differint schools and she dont think it will work out but we still love each other and I think it will work?
Breakups are always hard to get over,and I would know because of a recent one. If your girlfriend doesn't think it'll work, then it won't! Both sides of the relationship have to believe in a long-lasting bond between the two, if one doesn't think so...It won't last very long. Also, not being a…ble to see each other, at least once, on a daily bases is hard too. Besides, new schools=new poeple... Maybe you'll find someone new, who shares the same interests, hobbies, goals, etc., as you do. REMEMBER: There's other fish in the ocean to catch, all you have to do is throw back the old one. -Remington =]] (MORE)
You two will always love each other even if you get with other people in between. It's never over if it's a mutual love. Depending the cercumstance you're most likely going to get back together at some point once you realize that you just can't live without the person. But think about this, what was… the reason you broke up and what can we do to prevent it from happening again? Always look for solutions before breaking up. (MORE)
dont stop loving your memories but stop loving him and move on, its a waste of your feelings. Its like giving all your money away to get nothing in return.
If I have a date with an extremely cute guy this weekend but we barely know each other what should we talk about so he is still interested?
Start off by telling him a expierience that happened to you that you feel comfortable sharing.I once went to the movie theatres and someone shouted "MOVIE PICKLES".(example) Then you can say soo has anything funny/imteresting happened to you?After he tells you something like yea this one time my gra…ndma threw her cane at me during a football game.you can coment and say so do you like just football or do you play other sports and continue on like if he says yea i like soccer.if you like soccer say me too!(wait til he finishes speaking)then continue like that if there are things that remind you of moments say them.like he says i like to play rugbee you can say oh yea my brother played that.thats a rough game. He once got knocked out and when he woke up he shouted GRAPES!hope you like the answer (MORE)
If a boy was calling you constantly but isn't anymore but he says he still loves you so much and doesn't want to to leave him baiscally what does that mean?
Maybe he doesn't have enough time. But if he's out with the guys, and not callin', then I think it's time to sit down and have a talk. Maybe he's getting bored of the relationship, but doesn't want to call it off, 'cause he likes the idea of being in a relationship.
Find out where he hangs out after school and go there. Or meet him outside his school.
I think you should just talk to him about it.. I'm going through the same thing. Sometimes I feel like I'm falling out of love with him but when I'm with him everything is fine and I don't know how I could ever think that. Just talk to him about it. If he loved you before he will always love you. M…aybe not as much and that's the sad truth but the best thing in a relationship is communication. Soo; talk to him about it. Good luck ! (: (MORE)
Will your relationshop still work if your botfriend hates your parents and you dont talk to them anymore because of that?
and why he hates them he should love and respect them i don't think it will work sorry but you should talk to your parents again coz they love you he can leave you but ur parents can't and wont and they will support you if he did it i was in the same situation and our relation was so serious and we …were so in love and he didn't like my parents and becoz i love him i fought wiz them and didn't talk to them i felt they will be the reason if we break up and we did my prents stood wiz me after the break up and forget my attitude and he entered a serious relation wiz a girl after 1 month,,,talk to ur parents (MORE)
I thnk they could if they made time and gave their free time to see each other, they could.. they should spend holidays and birthdays together.
he may unfortunately be using you so he can say hes going out with someone. or hes really shy and you 2 need to find out something you both have in common.
if he like u ask to go out and make a move if he doesn't ask to be friends and get as close to him as u can and stay there
I'm still in love with my ex we had an ugly break up and after he got with my cousin and me with his boy how can I get him back even thought we don't talk but we do see each other?
You should start by inviting him to sit down and talk. Tell him you are sorry, but that you have both faulted. For it to work you both have to be open to it, so you would have to get him to agree to not put any walls up and be open. Talking openly and understanding that it is a process that will not… happen over night are key. I would also recommend not getting with his friends any more because all that will do is fuel jealousy and anger which can cause him to be irrational, and in the end, when you are trying to hurt him back by getting with his friend, you are only hurting yourself because you end up objectifying yourself to be a sex figure for his friend. Just my advice, it may not be what you want to hear, but talking and patience are my two pieces of advice. (MORE)
He's probably been busy or distracted, do something (something approiate) to get his attention. Send him a little something like a picture or gift to remind him you're still there. Tell him how much you need him. Guys need reminded sometimes. :D
at our school us 6th graders call it "our accosiates" wich means at some point you like the person then you don't like the person.
No it doesn't mean he likes you. I smile at girls when I'm talking to them just because I feel like it. But if he looks at you, in the eyes, and grins, he may like you. I agree smiles don't mean anything except for friendliness. You would have to look at other signs he gives you. I suggest u ask… him his feelings for you and tell him yours. (MORE)
Your friend is jealous of you because boys talk and flirt with you but they don't speak to her Shes in love a boy that doesn't talk to her and you still want her friendship What do you do?
I want to add that you don't want the boys to leave you alone because shes jealous. Also she doesn't know any of the people that flirt with you.
it's in eye contact does he look at you and smile that probaly means he likes you try to flirt with eyes
No, indeed, she cannot. Love goes far, far deeper than the 'crush' she has on him.
Not possible . . . but a teenage crush is very possible, and exists mainly in the mind, not in reality.
Can a girl fall in love with a boy that she sees at school everyday but doesn't know or talk to him?
Of course! Love is anywhere, even if you don't know the person! Ok, so maybe you don't know him but he's probably pretty cute right? Maybe you should get to know him first before you start making the wedding plans (ahaha just kidding you (:) But mayeb once you get to know him he could be a real jerk…. Like I said, it could be the start of something!!! (MORE)
It probably is hard to look at you because he still loves you and regrets that you are no longer together.
A boy and girl loves each other but girl is going to married in two months The boy wants to know why she is not talking to him or calling him?
This boy has a problem. The girl has made a decision to marry someone else, which is her decision for her reasons (even if it's because it's what her parents want). A boy is not in a position to interfere, no matter if he loves her or not. When the boy becomes a man, he will have his chance at love …and happiness when he has more control over his own life. It is possible, but it will take maturity to get past this heartache, but it will also be an opportunity for personal growth. (MORE)
By the way he looks at you. If he look sat you alot then he likes you.
I have a crush on this guy and I am not sure how he feels about me. We used to talk and kind of flirt but now we do not sit next to each other anymore He doesn't talk to me or look at me HELP ME?
Try talking to him in class. Like go to sharpen your pencil and pass his desk, or after class walk with him and ask whats he's doing for the weekend. And you could always just talk to him on facebook or texting. (but dont weird him out and seem stalker in anyway!)
it either means he isn't interested in you, doesnt want to hang around you, or is getting over the breakup
How do you get over a long distance relationship break up when you both still love each other but it is hard to go through it anymore?
Love is about loving someone more than yourself and any good relationship is about making some serious decisions in order to be together. With most problems there is always an answer even though that answer may not be exactly what you or your partner felt it should be. However, if you truly love som…eone then sacrifices will have to be made throughout a lifetime and if you can't come to some agreement on this problem then it is better to part ways. Between the two of you someone is not telling the truth because if you love someone more than life itself both would be willing to make it work. (MORE)
Ya cuz they are both young and they should get together (as bf/gf) insteada fighting. alltho fighting is a way of showing u care. how? cuz the person ur fighting with is doing something which is causing u 2 get in a bad mood and fight and telling them to stop is showing them how to improve in their …life so they wont have to go through the same fight with another person again.. not so you can hate them even more! remember, hate=love (all the time). I know this from personal experience.. Hope I helped y'all!! - Anonymous_Girl ~ (MORE)
probably not. boys are just naturally more hyper for a couple of reasons. one is the instinct to show off. two is because they consume more foods means more sugar which makes them more active. three, it is just in the boys's hormone that once they get excited they will act all active and hyper
How do you get over a long distance relationship break up when you both still love each other but its hard to go through it anymore?
I've had a simular situation, what you do is you keep reminding yourself of the problem and you keep telling yourself the blunt truth of: it couldn't work out. It'll take a while but you will get over it and you will find someone who you love and loves you but you can also have the relationship you …need in order for it to work out. (MORE)
Me and My Ex Still Really Love Each Other But His Mom Won't Let Us Date Because She Doesn't Know If I Go To Church Or Not What Should We Do?
Your relationship is between yourself and your ex. Nothing to do with his mom. By the way, im sure jesus believes in true love and just because you dont go to church doesnt mean you dont believe in him.
well you dont but try to make him love you again and when you get back together say you never stop loving him
She might still has feelings for you or she wants to start a friendship with you.
Me and my friend loved each other but now she said that she dose'nt has that feel anymore but i still love her how can i change her mind and become in a realtionship with her again?
There can be a few ways that you can regain a relationship with a friend. You can tell her how you feel and do things that make her happy.