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If your spouse confessed to cheating on you before you got married how would you deal with the inner conflict now and in the future?
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∙ 8y ago
I am assuming the confession came after you were married. It hurts,... it hurts to be betrayed and lied to and made a fool of. That kind of pain and distrust will take years to heal from. I had never trusted a man in all my life until I met my husband and for some reason, I loved him so wholly and completely that I also trusted him. He did not have sex with someone else. He thought he fell in love with them. That hurt. The body you can control, the heart is a whole different story. I was horrified. It was the worst pain I had ever felt in my life. But I Loved him more than I hated him for hurting me. The only thing that allowed me to trust him again was we started church together, and he devoted his heart and life to God, and to me and our kids. That has given me the trust and security that I was looking for, and has helped take away the painful memories. Good luck... I hope everything works out so that you can be happy.
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Should you forgive your fiance for cheating?
ANSWER: You should, because the two of you are not married yet.He needs to prove to you what he did before the two of you got married will not happen anymore..
Is it cheating if you change your answer just before it is marked?
Well It depends. If you change it after the teacher has taken it but before she marked it, that is cheating. But on the other hand if you change it before the teacher collects it, it is not cheating.
What do most men say when their wife asks them Are they cheating?
They say No. ANSWER: Yes they do say no, but reality check here, most married men who been ask if he is cheating will have several answer; and this will give some light to all of us women who are still married, and for those who are divorce just like your's truly. When I asked my ex before I discovered it, he said no I am not seeing another woman. Married men who are not cheating and been ask by wives if they are, their approach will be like this " wow! where did this question came from?" or " is there something you know that I don'r know?" But for those married men who's already cheating, their answer will be a straight " NO" without details like what the the man I married. Take my words for it, a man who is cheating can give you one straight answer without guilt and no details. But for those who is not cheating, they will feel uneasy and at the same time he will explain and wonder why the question is been ask...try it sometimes, it always work..
Would a married man have fantasies about being with his ex mistress when he stopped seeing her because he got caught cheating 4 mths ago?
depends how hot she isANSWER;I think so especially if this married man fell in love with his mistress before he got caught cheating. Lots will be going on in his head, mostly the fun he had with her..
If your married and having an affair and you see someone else is it cheating on your partner to which you are having the affair with?
No you are just cheating yourself really, forget about the other people, you are desperately seeking help within. These people are just demonstrating an existential part of yourself. You have to make up your mind, you must be living a I never got to do this before affair, or you are being indulgent. Besides that, if you are married cheating is wrong, however only if there is a reason it occured, but cheating again, there is something wrong with that. IF you are doing it for pleasure then it is understandable, but you are hurting the other person involved.
What is cheating.. My boyfriend thinks if you are not married and you have a long distance relationship that it is ok to have a friend that is a woman that he lives with?
In my opinion, it's not cheating unless there's intimacy between them: hand holding, kissing, having sex, etc. I've had female roommates before, and the relationship was completely platonic.
Woman says she broke up with fiance before cheating... man says she didn't is it considered cheating?
To her - no. To him - yes. It depends on who you believe. It appears that you believe him - as you say "she broke up with fiance before cheating"... if she broke up with him and met someone else then it wasn't "cheating".
Why is Anne of Cleves famous in history?
Anne of cleaves was married to King Henry VIII , but he confessed he hadnt consummated the marriage, claiming to cromwell that, 'I liked her before not well, but now I like her much worse'. the marriage was anulled on 19 July 1540
What if the man gave you a ring then was caught cheating with another woman?
It depends if he was caught cheating before or after, if before then dont marry him, if after, he's just a jerk and you should dump him.
Thinking of cheating on him?
If you have the idea or want of cheating then chances are you may not be happy within this relationship. The best and honest thing you can do is leave before cheating and find out what you really want.
I have a feeling fiance is cheating so how do I go about prove or disprove it?
If you are not the jealous type of person then go with your gut instincts. You can either ask your best friend to go with you and follow your fiance on the nights you feel they are cheating or, hire a detective for a weekend. It is far better to find out if your fiance is cheating as soon as possible before you ever consider getting married. If the wedding is close don't panic and try to find the evidence he is cheating (take a digital camera or your blackberry with you.)
If a married man of 17 yrs who has never wore his wedding ring before starts to wear it 4 mths after getting caught cheating wears it for 2 weeks then stops wearing it why?
If you spot a man cheating you or someone else if he maies you and then maries the othe girl becarful don't get mad though O.K
