yes it is they dont know how to break the cycle That's very true. At times, they may not even recognize their actions for what they really are. Other times, the parents may continually need that power over the child - they need the assumed importance or replacement for something they feel they lack. More often than not, it is the child who will have to be a strong enough person to cut the ties and realize that they do not deserve this treatment - parent or not, no one has the right to be abusive to someone else.
One word: Drugs.
The person doing the abusing is always responsible for that abuse. Abusive people always place the responsibility on someone else, and they always will if they can get away with it. If a situation becomes physical, it's always time to leave.
An abusive man never really changes unless there is a traumatic condition or possibly therapy, but even that will often not help. Just leave. Use the "long distance" to get away.
Youv'e met Bob?
pretend you are Elmo and they will stop liking you.
a mother becomes abusive once she begins to harm her children, or put them in any sort of physical or emotional danger
How do you use "abuser" and "honeymoon phase" in the same sentence. If someone is abusing you, get out of there. I have never understood why some women will put up with a man who becomes physically or emotionally abusive. I have 4 daughters and each of them knows that they can come home and I will protect them if their husband ever becomes abusive. So far, only one daughter has had to take me up on that offer, the other hubands are great guys and I respect them. Go find yourself a great guy. Don't settle for anything less.
Yes it could happen by some male spouses. Wives can sometimes trap their husbands into staying either by blackmail or their finances are tied up together and he stands to lose a lot of money. If the wife does this then there is really no satisfaction for her and he'll certainly not cooperate with his wife. Whether he becomes verbally/physically abusive depends on what type of man he was in the relationship with his wife. If he was never abusive then he won't be if he is forced to stay in a relationship with no love attached.
We are drawn to people who speak our emotional language.To begin with, the relationships usually are not emotionally abusive. However, all abusers have certain personality characteristics in common. Both women and men are drawn to mates with familiar personalities. (That is why we often remark that so-and-so married his mother or father.) People raised in abusive families are, accordingly, attracted to people with the personality traits of abusers, who seem familiar to them -- but they do not realize why. As the relationship develops, the personalities frequently becomes all too familiar.There is another theory to the effect that we are drawn to relationships with people similar to those earlier in our lives, in order to be able to "get it right this time."Regardless of which of several theories are correct, it is undeniable that the abused are drawn to abusers, just as surely as people from alcoholic families tend to marry potential drinkers.
The right to representative government is the idea behind the notion that people have the right to disband a government that becomes abusive or unresponsive. This is found in the Declaration of Independence.
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Puberty is the process where our body becomes sexually fertile. Also emotionally mature enough to take our own decisions.