Is it normal for girls to have a crush on each other?

Answer 1

Depends on the age and social/cultural context, I think.

(I am answering this as a heterosexual 24 year-old female)

It's not unusual for teenage girls to have crushes on all sorts of people. Particularly older persons -- most of the time it's someone you admire greatly, who seems superior in some respects, or beautiful. It's a lot like having crushes on teachers (remember the "oh, he's so smart/good-looking, when he looked at me in class the other day I thought I was going to faint!"), or on older males/females. Some girls have crushes on pop stars (who are intangible), and some on people that they see everyday (such as friends, distant relatives and so on).

What you asked would be particularly frequent in all-girls boarding schools (in ancient times :D), where younger pupils would nearly venerate the most popular girl or the most whateverteacher. There were even certain nicknames made for the girls who worshiped another student. :p

Also, if you have a best friend for a long time, it may be possible to start wondering if your feelings are more than just friendship. Because the feelings involved are so closely related: you think her pretty, smart, funny, you want to spend a lot of time with her, perhaps you hold hands when you're walking on the street... these all sound like a bit of a relationship, eh? Don't worry, they're not the same, even if they look alike. There is a line between the love of a friend and sexual love and you can cross it or not.

Answer 2

Well, this depends. If the person is not attracted to the same gender in general, then yes. Many actually develop an attraction for some adultsin their live (teachers, coaches, etc) at this point in their lives-sometimes the same sex. Now if said person is attracted to the same sex as a whole, not just an individual, then the person is likely to be gay or bisexual, which there is absolutly nothing wrong with.

Btw, if you have any questions about it, feel free to talk to me about it. I'd be glad to help you about stuff like this if you need it

Answer 3

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There is not any hard and fast rule to know about the crushes in girls because every girl has his different choices and she has crushes according to that, but generally girls like a guy who understands the feeling of girls. Girls are very sensitive and it's how nature have made them. Girls also attracted to a guy having same hobbies and nature.

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Although a very sweet answer, it only tells part of the story. Most early crushes that girls have are triggered by 'magic', not a guys behavior or interests. By 'magic', I don't mean something mystical, it only feels that way to the girl, but by the chemical reactions that the girl isn't too familiar with and hasn't the experience to sort out the chemicals from the emotions. In the beginning, they're all mixed together and can be quite confusing until some experience is gained.