Is your husband gay if he looks at gay porn?

Answer 1:

Typically one doesn't go to a Chinese restaurant without having some liking of Chinese food. How much or how little one likes the Chinese food might be debated, but "some liking" is a given.

So, unless it was just a one time thing, that he got shunted to accidentally, then yes, he is what many would call "gay", and what is actually probably "bi-sexual".

The porn itself in a marriage is a problem, as it is time spent on "other women", even if "just" pictures. If nothing else, it can set up unrealistic expectations, and it also drives a person more into themselves and their private fantasies, as opposed to learning and exploring the wants and needs of the spouse.

That he's doing this with male pictures probably hurts more. But that is your answer, he's "gay" in the sense that he can derive sexual pleasure from contemplating sex with men. "Bisexual" in the sense that he apparently sexually interacts with you.

Answer 2:

Yes if the gay porn is about other men then you need to go to a marriage counselor. Get him in bed a few times!

Answer 3:

No. There are many men (and women) who enjoy the fantasy of gay porn. If this activity has become a problem in the marriage then it may be time to seek couple's therapy.
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