Abuse can and does happen every day. It also can either happen as verbal abuse (where one person, verbally assults the other with calling them names, threatening them, calling them down). There is physical abuse ( where one person hits the other). Either way both cause a mental straine. I happen to be in both in separate times in my life. Neither one is good for a person or for their self esteeme. I remember my my ex who was a verbal abuser would argue with me constantly and place a ton of stress on me, he would talk down to me never call me names, but would just verbally say things to hurt me on a everyday occurance. It is always easier said than done to just walk away, but it takes time to build the courage to leave, because the abusers have all the power for the moment and are very angry emotional people who will in fact do stupid things because they have nothing to loose at that time.
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The best predictor of the future is the past, especially when it comes to abusive people. If someone has abusive habits or inclinations, they will most likely continue to have those traits. This is not to say that some abusers cannot change, because it is possible, but usually only with major intervention. So for most cases, abusive people usually continue to be abusive.
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Some one who does not understand BDSM posted "being into bdsm is an unhealthy sign" this is a lie. All studies of people into BDSM have shown that most people into BDSM are happy normal people who just have kinks to there life. Most people who are into abusive relationships never get into BDSM relationships. If someone is into BDSM and there is also a abusive relationship going on all you need to do is look for the normal signs of a abusive relationship. Most BDSM couples for the most part have happy and healthy relationships but have a relationship that looks more like the idealized ones from the 1950's and may add play that would look abusive from the outside but is truly not. What I would tell people is take time to talk to both parties and look for the signs of an abusive relationship.
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Black men may or may not be 'more' abusive than other ethnics, Men are usually abusive because they were around it as a young person. Or, they simply want to have their way and hitting is a good way to get people to do what you want.
No, not everyone may believe you when you disclose that you are in an abusive relationship. People's responses can vary depending on their understanding of abuse or if they have a personal bias or lack of knowledge about the dynamics of abusive relationships. It is important to reach out to trusted individuals who can offer support and believe your experiences.
You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
because there can be good things that come from the bad relationship.....that person may just have an anger issue but is still very sweet sometimes
because they are in love or scared to tell some one or just think they are goin to change ....but a person that loves you wont abuse you think about it
We are drawn to people who speak our emotional language.To begin with, the relationships usually are not emotionally abusive. However, all abusers have certain personality characteristics in common. Both women and men are drawn to mates with familiar personalities. (That is why we often remark that so-and-so married his mother or father.) People raised in abusive families are, accordingly, attracted to people with the personality traits of abusers, who seem familiar to them -- but they do not realize why. As the relationship develops, the personalities frequently becomes all too familiar.There is another theory to the effect that we are drawn to relationships with people similar to those earlier in our lives, in order to be able to "get it right this time."Regardless of which of several theories are correct, it is undeniable that the abused are drawn to abusers, just as surely as people from alcoholic families tend to marry potential drinkers.