no you are not if he chooses to live with her full time.
You would only be responsible for paying child support IF the court ordered such, which would require a hearing to change the final divorce decree. The ex cannot just order you to pay it out of the blue without having changed the original court documents.
---- It should be noted that you may wish to do a voluntary child support order. Waiting for her to file would result in you paying all court costs. My question though is why the change with the child? Was there a problem in your home that resulted in this decision?
Custody of children is decided upon in court. The judge will set a schedule for the parents, so the out of state parents will spend adequate time with their children.
You can attempt to sue for custody, or visitation, although this may only work if you are married. Your local laws may vary.
WikiAnswers does not answer questions of a legal nature, and as such does not practice law. Custody rights are decided by Courts, so I would hire a lawyer. BUT before that, I would inquire as to WHY they are denying your son visitation rights with your grandaughter.
A child is not allowed to choose until he is 18 but in a few states a child 14+ can be asked when custody is being decided regarding divorce. The judge is not always obligated to follow the child's wish.
No, it would be considered kidnapping. Even without a court order, but if a judge has decided to give you 100% of custody and legal right, it would be a violation of that order. You can technically call the police-I would.
Sole custody would be highly unlikely, regardless of the mother's alledged mental condition. When a couple are not married, the law presumes the birth mother to have sole and permanent custody of the minor child. The male must establish paternity (preferably by DNA testing) before any issues concerning the child (child support, visitation, custody, etc.) will be addressed by the court.
No she can not. An open adoption has to be decided before the adoption is final. And even then it's usually pictures etc and not visitation.
If decided by a court, the parent or person the court deems would act in the best interests of the child. If not decided in court, the biological mother has presumptive custody to her child.
Because we know she's the parent, we saw the baby come out of her. It's been documented. The father can be anyone until he has established paternity in court by leaving a DNA test. Then he can petition for visitation, custody and can pay child support.
Custody is decided in court based on what is best for the child, not for how long the child has lived with you.
This seems extremely unlikely.
Child support and visitation are two separate issues. The custodial parent can file a suit for child support but cannot deny the non custodial parent custodial or vistation rights is said parent wants those rights. That being said, the non custodial parent can file for custody or visitation regardless of whether the child support issue is addressed or not. Such matters are decided by the court if the parents cannot find an equitable solution.